>7 years ago>come out to parents>have huge fight with mom about it >she threatens to kick me out of i start hormones >Says she doesn't wanna lose her son>Cry harder than I have in years>"Family is forever" is bullshit >Take hormones anyways but hide it >Move out several months later >fast forward to current year>girlmoding 24/7 since I moved out years ago>haven't seen mom since>starts sending me texts apologizing for what she said >says she's finally willing to accept me as her daughter >Don't have it in me to respond to herShe had her chance 7 years ago and she absolutely blew it. I'm glad she's at least learned her lesson and how badly she's fucked up, but the damage is already done. I just wanted my own mother to know how I planned on living out the rest of my life and she completely denied me. She asked me outright "Why would you tell us this?" as if I was doing it for a fetish. Some people might think this is harsh, but you can't cross bridges that you've burned.
>>44782459You don't have to be a daughter to her or be in her real life but I hope you'll at least consider a texting type of relationship from a distance. Your mother fucked up that's undeniable, but one day she will be aging and you may regret if you cut her off entirely.
>>44782459I can relate. I'm unfortunately still in contact with my parents, but I keep communication to a minimum. Don't blame you in the slightest for not having it in you to talk to her. It hurts me every time I have to interact with my mom. I talk to my dad more often, but that still sucks, just a bit less because he didn't also actively abuse me. Idk what I'm getting at, I guess just don't feel bad, whatever you do. It's your life, not hers
>>44782484"May regret" seems like kind of a gamble though I understand the sentiment. But everything she's said though just feels so hollow, like I kind of don't buy it.
