what are some things i can do or hobbies i can get into that are fembrained?right now its bad, im into old computers and circuit boards and programming, which to me is kinda the most malebrained that it can get. itd probably be seen as cool if i was cisf but as a tranny its much different and im no different than every autist moid on /g/ ;pi watch reality tv shows and ive been playing animal crossing and tomodachi life which i guess is kinda fembrained but overall i feel like im still unbelievably malebrainedt. 19mtf, any advice appreciated
>>44783347- insert obligatory rant of how gender roles and definitions are fluid and how there will always be exeptions here -you shouldnt chase anything you dont actually want. just dont.if you wanna kinda gain a sense of what affects the way women think, try to internalize how misogyny is baked into our society, even into our language. "Woman" is literally just "man" with a couple extra letters. we are conditioned to see women as a subset of humans, as almost not human. Also learn about female activists n stuff.read books by women, hear their stories.
>>44783347do animal rights stuffconsume erotic reading and audio rather than visual porn be annoyed when boys are stupid
>>44783347computers are a very gender neutral hobby. Trannies gravitate toward them in repression because whole they are socially seen as masculine, they're a safe and low impact interest. Way less malebrained than being a sportsball fanthink about hobbies and interests that you might've have talked yourself out of pursuing while you were still pretending to be a boy because they were too girly. Are there any you'd like to try?
>>44783609still i feel like there are hobbies that are male dominated and ones that are female dominated. like playing realistic driving simulators or shooter games is malebrained, i just dont want to be clocked as a troon bc of what i do, i just wanna be a normal woman. i get misogyny and feminism but its clear that there are differences in how men and women act, i dont think thats brainwormed or misogynistic to say
>>44783347make girl friends and osmosis their culture and interests
>>44783672i was p socially isolated or ostracized bc im an autist, probably a large reason i gravitated to computers. i still feel like its not gender neutral, it seems mostly male dominated and the stereotype of the tranny programmer hurts so much, i mean do u see how often cis women programmers get transvestigated?i dont know if there are any hobbies that i wanted to do, i kinda spent/am spending my life wasting away and idk where to start
>>44783347>Let's reinforce gender stereotypes. Thanks for ruining the work that women have been doing.
>>44783771do you disagree with malebrain/fembrain? if so why?
>>44783609Perfect demonstration of fembrained midwit dross thanks
>>44783683too logicalmalebrained ngmi
this shit is so dumb bro
>>44783915>bro
>>44783877Thank you, i think? Idk if im a woman but i would rather be fembrained or whatever. I put a lot of work into trying to be cuz I consumed a lot of porn when younger and im kind of am/was a creep imo.>>44783885Omg yes acknowledging that humans are allowed to be emotional creatures is important. Being overly logical and treating language as a math problem is super malebrained cuz men usually repress using what they think is logic and try to justify emotions with it rather than looking within *COUGH* me *COUGH* the manosphere *COUGH* More advice for OP would be to meditate and try to reconcile emotions that trouble you. Try practicing appreciating and loving your body, even if you arent comfortable in it. Appreciate it for changing for you, if you started hormones. You dont have to get super spiritual, but exploring spirituality in any form is important for everyone, and i think it can do wonders if you make it work. Thats pretty fembrained. Chakras n shit. Or goin into the woods and making fairy offerings out of twigs and leaves.
only insecure babytrans hons care about malebrain / fembrain. just live it!
>>44784038actually maybe good advice" maybe im too wormed over this. i just want to be a woman for once and being malebrained is a huge cognitohazard for me, i know i cant pass w/out ffs (despite voice training and trying to girlmode i still get clocked everytime) and at the least i want to be stealth online
>>44784178i mean if youre gynephilic youll never be "fembrained" full stop
>>44783347You'll still be a tranny no matter what you do so just do whatever is funPeople will understand you're a tranny
>>44783347Crash yer car
>>447833471. what's more important than the "brainedness" of the hobby is who you interact with. if you have malebrained hobbies you enjoy, try interacting (online or irl) with women who share it2. most hobbies have fembrained and malebrained areas. you can write cutesy romantic booktok slop or try to write like your favorite male authors (classic literature is pretty masculine imo) or write argumentative essays on a blog nobody cares about.2. there's tons of fembrained hobbies. if you're gonna deliberately develop fembrained hobbies, pick some you actually like / are interested in3. arts and crafts: knitting, sewing, crocheting, artistic diy (making useless decorative items, making stuff like soap, just find some obnoxious crafty mom blog)4. cooking and especially baking5. in creative hobbies focus on aesthetics (rather than just functionality)6. in athletic hobbies focus on interacting with women irl.
>>44783771>oh my goddess this tranny wants to fit in this is literally the handmaid's tale!
>>44783609>Woman is a subset of manYou can spot bottom of rhe barrel midwittery when it resorts to word deconstruction, it's weirdly consistent, and they never fact check it
>>44783347Learn to bake. Not enough tranny bread in the world and I want to pive long enough to experience it.
>>44787948Live*
I'm cis so I grew up as a girl. Things that stand out as particularly "fembrained" to me is listening to, trusting, and surrounding myself around women more. For instance, my hobbies are also stereotypically male (computers and shooter games) but I gravitate towards the content and communities of these made by women. Also do things that make you be happy and be kind to yourself and others.Open yourself up to new experiences and don't feel like anything should stop you because of some "inherent" difference
>>44783347You cantIt might foolEveryone but you will always know
>>44790139nta but genuinely how do you tell which women are safe to trustI want community with women probably more than anything but I'm no good at befriending them
Try things that usually get taught in girl section of home economics. Don't force yourself to like any activities, if it's not meant to be, it's okay too. The fembrainedness comes from the fact that now you have experience in things girls are usually doing at some point of their lives in order to finish education. Most hate that stuff, so if you end up not liking it you will realize that the gap isn't as big as it seems. Part of thinking like a woman is understanding that there is no universal woman despite the world trying to push women into some vague ideals.
>>44790203Not sure how to answer, as it's a bit complicated. Knowing who or not to trust sort of applies to everyone and not just women. I'm autistic and didn't have luck finding friends, and the girls that have "befriended" me usually used me in some way. I was also abused at home so my judgement on who to trust was all over the place.My sense on who to trust improved once I could accept I was getting hurt and didn't want to tolerate it anymore. I was tired of punishing and depriving myself of living because of the lies I told myself that "I wasn't human." Since I am. And I deserve what a human needs. Like love, care and patience. I think once you let yourself take up that space to be yourself it gets easier over time.And to clarify, I initially brought up bonds with women as you share a connection already on the basis of gender, so it can resolve issues of loneliness and the feeling of being different.I apologise if this answer doesn't suffice
>>44783347having your own interests is good and feeling a need to embrace "feminine" ones is peak brainworms. If anything being 'fembrained' is more about how you conduct yourself than what list-able things you take interest in. Gender boundaries around hobbies are completely arbitrary and more and more girls are getting into "male" interests as those artificial boundaries dissolve
fembrained isn't about the hobbies themselves it's about how you engage with them
>>44792049yeah this
You get fembrained by spending time with cis women.You should be spending as much time as possible with cis women. You should have cis women friends that you talk to every day, and who you go out with in real life frequently. Your main hobbies should be things that are their hobbies. This is the ONLY way to be fembrained.
>>44792118Trannies have male brains and tire quickly of a non neurodivergent woman unless she becomes the entertainment for them like a zesty gay guy
Take HRT obviously. Hopefully you’re young enough (<25) such that your brain has not completely matured.
drink every other day, do it tactically so you're less inhibited and your waking mind with its CIS male impressions gets all lulled and then just sway your body gently like a fucking trollop and play your favourite fantasies in your mind's eye and make sure you're in that alky zone where you are 100% coordinated and not fucked up drunk and maintain itwith time, your waking brain will accept these forced impressions with much more of an impact compared to doing it without the alkyit's all brain rewiring and psycho cybernetics/visualization grey matter stuffyou got it sissy
>>44784178People will be subconsicously repulsed by your your inauthenticity. Just stick with your moid hobbies that make you happy.
>>44783347trying to violently kill your animus is just reverse repping. you cant make it truly go away, you have to integrate both so they can live together
>>44787935ikr. man used to just mean human, it was gender neutral the word for woman was wife and the word for man was were (e.g werewolf)
>>44793930in old english an adult male is literally a "weaponed man"https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/w%C3%A6pnedmann
>>44792005How does one conduct herself fembrainedly?
>>44793903I want my animus dead. That's the whole reason I'm transitioning. Unfortunately I only have an animus and no anima
