will I feel better or worse if I lose my virginity to a chaser hookup?I don't super crave sex I just don't wanna to be a virgin anymoreI don't want to lose my first kiss to a hookup though, would it be rude if I said no kissing?
probably end up feeling worse, but who knows
>>44787890Worse. I'm a virgin incel and I will never have sex with someone unless they fulfill the following requirements:1. They like me back as a person2. They find me physically attractive
>>44787890>I don't super crave sex>I don't want to lose my first kiss to a hookup thoughGirl
You'll feel better, nothing will actually change but it will be off your mind and you'll be better prepared for next time. Source:ex wizard
Yes, you are beyond the age of the high school sweetheart, and you are a faggot. So from that point expect some weird chaser to want to make out with you when he fucks you, unfortunately for us first kiss means nothing, it has no emotional meaning.
>>44787984respectable>>44787999I just feel very left out and weird, like my friends were talking about the sex the other night and I just sat there inert for an hoursurely once you're in your 20's any experience is better than none?
>>44787890Virginity only starts feeling like a curse after 25, and only after 30 should you be desperate enough to lose it to a prostitue.What you should be doing though is putting yourself out there and forming connections with people of the sex(es) you're attracted to, and see if you can make a relationship out of that. From there it's not too long after that you'll lose your virginity to someone you actually like and feel safe around, which is what you're actually after not just meaningless cum in your butt.
>>44788055OP is a faggot. They need to get skilled in bottoming. And most gay men have very little interest in relationships and would rather have promiscuous sex, even in their 30s and 40s.
>>44788054It reads to me like you put value in to intimacy, so something like this would probably not feel goodIt's okay to wait for something good instead of settling for something you could regret
>>44787890You will drastically lower the quality of a future long-term relationship/marriage. Wait if you want a chance at a good husband.
>>44788041it did for me, loser
