Most of this site is doomerism and blackpills. Share success stories (transition-related, coming out-related, dating-related, etc) related to being trans. I'm forced to be a repper due to circumstance but hopefully won't always be a repper.
>>44788472i transitioned at 21 and married a heterosexual man with a six figure salary 8 years later. i would have thought it's impossible that there's men out there who are not chasers, not bi, not gay, and into me. not that i'm an ugly manly lookin thing, it's just the whole can't have babies or vaginal sex thing. his parents still don't know i'm trans lol thankfully he never wanted kids anyway. god didn't want me to be a child-bearing mother.
>>44788472no, fuck successful trans people
>>44788472I transitioned at 20 and now 11 years later I'm very happy with my life.I'm 100% stealth (except for my partner and family), bought a house with my bf, have a fun job and lots of friends who come over to bake and play boardgames.I'm hoping he proposes soon so I can be a wife for real, he's been dropping hints a lot and I'm super excited!The only reason I still come here is to vent about the burden of being stealth (which is a privilege I know) because I don't know any other places I can do that without risking my stealth. I want to put this whole trans thing behind me but I just can't especially with all the bad news coming out these days and I don't have anyone in my life I can really vent to without it becoming annoying. So I want to thank the board for that at least :)
>>44789457Oh and my biggest most unbelievable flex is that I've never ever been rejected by a man for being trans (in real life, internet doesn't count obviously)
>>44789457>the burden of being stealthboo fucking hoo, reading about stealthoids makes me want to 41
>>44789457This is so real though, sometimes it feels like the burdens that come with being stealth are still as plentiful as when not being stealth. They are surely better in a lot of ways, but it feels like trading one bad circumstance for another at times and it isn't really talked about. Its tough not having anybody to talk to about being trans even if you so desperately don't want to be attatched to being trans. Its also the main reason that I come back here too.I hope your bf proposes soon, thats soo cute im wishing the besttt <33
>>44788514This also really suprised me when I started dating after passing for a while
>>44788472Success or failure for trannies boils down to how attractive they are. Hot? a cis guy will inevitably go after you. Ugly? The same people will be repulsed by you.I'm a cis guy but I have no sympathy for trannies who gloat about their "success" when it was just because they're a passoid.
>>44789457>>44789505>>44789518looking like a woman must be so tough for you
>>44789521Guys don't really understand this but there goes a lot of work into being attractive and it's okay to be proud of yourself for "making it" especially because the whole world and even your own body are against you.
>>44789505Thank you for reaching out! I think it's actually so important to know we're not actually alone, even if it feels like that sometimes.It's hard to complain about too because it's kinda like a self inflicted isolation almost, and to people who are just starting or are halfway through their transition it can seem like you're complaining about nothing.Anyway I wish you all the best too, I hope you're happy as well <3
>that imageHoly sneed OP
>>44788514What does your husband do for a living?
