My ex wanted to be poly and despite hating the idea and I gave it a go, throughout I was deeply unhappy about it until a few weeks ago I couldn't take it anymore and freaked out. A few days after she broke up with me. My life is so fucking empty, I know this is the best outcome, but it still fucking hurts. I wish I died the night I tried to take my life.
>>44791948She was cheating on you the entire time.
>>44791948did you and your ex discuss her preferring poly and you preferring monog during the outset of the relationship? often the two are incompatible. if she sprung it on you halfway through that's pretty shitty nona, i'm sorry. we terminal polybrained people must do better lets we continue to give ourselves a bad name
>>44793251be so fucking real there is no chance in hell this entire situation isn't her ex's fault
>>44794611it sounds like bad communication & boundaries in general less so than anybody's fault. if ex knew going in she was poly, pretended monog for w.e reason, then sprung it on her later, i'd fault ex. if nona hated the idea she should have had & held her boundaries about it, but doing that is hard, i get it. i think i'm with the conclusion on 'shitty situation that hurts but ultimately best outcome', nona's ex can go be poly & nona can go find happy monog relationship & they can both be happy, this i hope for
>>44791948it’s not your fault. polyamorous people are predators. i hope you find a pure hearted monogamous girl someday!
