i just had the worst talk with my mom ever, it was about me being trans (she has known for a while) but she said some of the worst stuff one could possibly say:1. said I shouldn't do HRT until I'm like 21 (??)2. called me a transtrender (implying being trans was a trend)3. said I wasn't trans and actually just a gay man because I said if I did transition I would just dress the same way I do now (hoodies and jeans) despite many cis women also dressing like that?4. said I was victimizing myself and that I was seeking my own depression on purpose5. said I had no reason to be depressed and that other people have it worse than me6. said most people who transition end up regretting it and killing themselves (completely false, less than 1% of people who transition regret it, the extremely vast majority are significantly happier after transitioning)7. then on top of all that said that she just wanted me to be happy
>>44794115you should really start learning to hide things from your mother and practice living your life independently in a way that doesn't allow her to interfere, eg, getting on DIY
>>44794115just diy, anyway the fact she hasnt kicked you out makes her more accepting that most mothers so be thankful
i support LGBT rights but my son would NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER be a fag or troon out (i promise)
>>44794153she genuinely says this btw
>>44794157yes thats every liberal parent, theyre fine with anyone else but "NOT MY SON hes perfect and wouldnt be a freak like that"
Basically at this point you dont listen to anything she says about any such matters ever at this point.
>>44794115>called me a transtrenderwhy is your mom browsing r/truscum
>>44794174well she didn't LITERALLY call me a transtrender (doubt she would even know that word), she just said it was a trend
>>44794115When my mom found my hrt when i was 19 she threw it in the garbage and said i was throwing away all she had done for me by taking dangerous drugs. She also told me that nothing my life is that bad. She tried to talk me out of ffs as well. But im 25 now and our relationship is genuinely improving. She calls me her daughter, including me with my sisters, and wants me in her life. It took a lot of time, and over a year of no contact, but i believe you can get there too. My advice is to become as independent as you can and make it known that she has to accept you and interact with you on your terms if she wants you in her life. Ganbatte nona
I also got a version of the "You dont have it that bad!!!" shit, I think its their own guilt at the amount of suffering they not only did not prevent but made worse.
>>44794115boymoms are scary as hell...
>>44794115>i just had the worst talk with my mom ever, it was about me being trans (she has known for a while) but she said some of the worst stuff one could possibly say:>1. said I shouldn't do HRT until I'm like 21 (??)>2. called me a transtrender (implying being trans was a trend)>3. said I wasn't trans and actually just a gay man because I said if I did transition I would just dress the same way I do now (hoodies and jeans) despite many cis women also dressing like that?>4. said I was victimizing myself and that I was seeking my own depression on purpose>5. said I had no reason to be depressed and that other people have it worse than me>6. said most people who transition end up regretting it and killing themselves (completely false, less than 1% of people who transition regret it, the extremely vast majority are significantly happier after transitioning)>7. then on top of all that said that she just wanted me to be happyyoure low iq and dont know how to handle it. cry or have a mental breakdown in front of them. live is a video game and npc's arent real people. get your way
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>>44794115oh god your mom is gincel, i'm so fucking sorry nona
>>44794115I'm so sorry nona. My mom has said very similar stuff and I want to commiserate>told me "you will never be a *real* woman" word for word>called me a mutilated for being honest about wanting ffs and srs>called me a retard for wanting to be a woman>told me I should get a brain surgery because I'm clearly a psychotic man when I came outshe's probably a repper herself in some way or another
>>44794188people who use "transtrender" generally believe real trannies exist
I'm so sorry nona, you deserve better. I loved the op pic too. Just gle and buoymoder and snailmoders having fun :)
>>44794115You should listen to her she's a good mother
sounds like my mom she will come around when she sees you happier
Why the fuck are you listening to her? Diy and ignore
>>44794115do not let her delay youdont let her fuck up your lifeshe is dogshit compared to you and completely irrelvantcut her out after your away from her if she cant be decent and love you for who you areshe is just projecting her fear onto you my mom did the same thing she wanted me to "just be gay" and how tf does that work im only drawn to girls all my lifeshes fucking dumb and im so glad shes gonedont let your mom shit herself all over your life to the point you feel the way i do about my momdiy if you have to do whatever it takes and dont let her stop you or slow you downif your aure about everything you must act now before care becomes even harder to access; customs is already starting to catch more diy; get a dr go yourself if you have to; if your over 18 she cant do shitif she throws you out you know exactly where she stands and she never loved you in the first place she just went thru the motions like far too many syshetnorm ppl do and then deep down they are so soulless and evil and twisted they can completely fk their own childs life over their bigotry and narrowmindedness and precious pathetic egosim sorry you had to go thru that talkall of what she said is basically fighting wordsyou must fight for your existenceyou shouldnt have to be so strong; no one should have to be- but thats the type of shit she wants to inflict on yoube yourself absolutely relentlesslybe as beautiful as you can and start hrt as soon as possibleshine as brightly as you can and dont fall into her hoodie memes; dont keep dressing like that anymore; you can kinda shift it for a while but if you want to show unequivocably your claiming your own future then get away from her preconceptionsif you are at all already naturally feminine as i was do not coward yourself into boymodingandromode with feminine slant and colors if you must; but girlmode confidently as soon as your starting to feel better about yourselfgood luck
>>44795183OP, don't listen to these nutcases trying to get you to cut off your family
>>44795193Op listen to me, a nutcase, move out, cut contact and burn that bridge down
>>44794115You seem like a transtrender.>>44795286OP is the nutcase and clearly couldn’t live on their own. The mom probably supplies all cash.
>>44794115>mom being terrible to youWell that’s pretty common for young adult woman so you pass in that regard
Yeet those balls, girl.
your mom is an assholetake control of your own life and go be your own woman
>>44795193family is wonderful if their love is genuine; complete; and unconditionalvery few families actually have that despite all of society insisting family is the most precious thing in the worldit is just ingraining control and op must not allow that to rob them of a chance at a happy life or take away years they could be living instead of surviving while T rots you
>>44794115You're just full of excuses, aren't you? It is a trend, you are a gay man, and your mother sounds nice.
>>44794115You should say to her how she would feel if her favorite features taken away from her. Your own body, your own life to live and we only live once. Being woman/tranny is not a religion of liking color pink.Discovering finally other people that you finally relate to, but you were brainwashed to be someone else and when figured that out, then others try to shame you for trying to fix yourself so you could finally be happy to live.
>>44794115FUCK YOUR MOM, ANON
>>44794115she's right, you are a trender. listen to your mom, autistic boy.
>>44795193you cut off the family as a final resort if they do not listen to reason. Last thing you should ever do is let toxic people to suffocate you with more misery