I hate attractive trannies so much and how they will either downplay their beauty or refuse to recognize how good it makes their life. >“oh noooo I’m not pretty, I’m uglyyyy!!”>Yes you are and you’re either delusional or lying for compliments. If you’re ugly then I’m straight up inhuman.>”You don’t understand how hard being attractive is, I get so many DMs from creepy guys!”>Ok, and I have to go into the DMs of creepy transphobic men and beg them to be abusive to me because that’s the only way I’ll get any sort of affection.I’d give anything to be a hot tranny in a polycule where we all cuddle and love eachother but I’m stuck in the middle of fucking nowhere Ohio. I’m an A student in college eventually going to med school so I’ll probably eventually be able to get FFS, but I’m hideous enough that it probably won’t do anything, and by that time it’ll be too late anyways.
>>44796755The irony you're not getting is there are trannies who would consider themselves to look hideous compared to you as well. Your thoughts are not unique to yoursel, you're just experiencing being a woman.
attractive trannies are raping me
>>44796761I am aware of this but it doesn’t really matter, no one has ever shown affection or interest or flirted with me in any way and that’s really the only thing I care about. I wouldn’t care about being beautiful if I would still be alone even if I was, I am never going to be able to like my body which is why I want someone else to be able to so badly. It doesn’t matter if someone is uglier than me because we still have that same experience of never having been desired.
>>44796831Someone has almost certainly desired you before.
>>44796755sameexcept I barely scraped through college and will never be able to get ffs
>>44796831>I am aware of this but it doesn’t really matter, no one has ever shown affection or interest or flirted with me in any waythe harsh truth that the male/incel brain has significant trouble comprehending is that it's far more likely that you have a shit personality, weird, autistic, bad taste, etc. than it is that you're actually too ugly to attract partners
>>44796878If they have they haven’t ever expressed it meanwhile the hyperattractive tgirl I know got multiple partners within a month of freshman year.And before anyone says it’s not a matter of me not “putting myself out there”, I’ve definitely done that, it’s also not a matter of personality despite what it may seem from this, in real life I try my best to be as calm and considerate and kind as possible.
>>44796884I wish people would just tell me what’s wrong with me then so I could fix it, I don’t think it’s a personality thing because I have a great deal of friends who seem to like me and who I like but they’re either all not interested in dating in general or not in me which when I ask why I just get an answer of “oh I don’t know you’re just not my type”.
>>44796884kys
>>44796884many such cases, every trancel i know is the same, not saying it applies to OP but what you describe is common. i've known trans girls who mog most of this board but still have trouble finding people who want to date them irl and their issue is nothing to do with looks but everything to do with personality. i think their issue is they come across as really indifferent towards others, self-absorbed even, and not very charismatic. they tend to also have few friends irl probably for the same reason. i'm definitely not the most attractive trans girl there is but i've never really had issues attracting guys irl who, imo, could easily do "better" than me lookswise, so i can say this stuff matters.
>>44796916>I wish people would just tell me what’s wrong with me then so I could fix itThis is part of the problem. People hate that. I run away from anyone with personality issues who expects me to fix them, unless I'm trying to exploit that situation for my own gain (hint: no one can fix your personality for you).
>>44797020I really try my best to not be self-absorbed, I’m genuinely obsessed with so many other people, I want to know everything about them and talk to them all the time and hear about what they like and find interesting, I don’t like talking about myself because I don’t really have much to say, I’d much rather listen to someone else do that but the problem is no one really wants to for me. I will agree that I’m not very charismatic but that’s not really something you can change no matter how much you want to.
>>44797046I don’t want someone to fix me I just want to know what’s wrong with me so I can work on it if I need to, you can’t find flaws in yourself on your own if the flaws are masking themselves from your view
>>44796755*kisses you on the forehead*
>>44796755I personally goon to their soft masculinity
>>44797020how do you work on this without coming off as clingy/desperate? like when i show interest it always feels like it comes off as pathetic or creepy, so i tend to err on the side of "nice but slightly aloof"
>>44798155I just keep acting clingy and desperate and hope I find someone who wants to use that to manipulate me.
>>44796884Honestly dogshit humans date all the time, have you tried dating? they're like the majority.People that rarely/never date are mostly just dealing with a failure loop. Whatever they're doing isn't working and they don't have a functional method to produce any reasonable chances of success or more likely even opportunities in the first place.Whining on 4chan won't get you laid. Yes it's happened before but that's a dogshit strat. That's all it is, either you're willing to do whatever dumb shit you need to get some attention and then deal with that whole mess, or you're not and you stay alone. You maybe get lucky once in your life and someone just shows up and asks you but that's as likely to fail as anything else. You must face the humiliation ritual or accept that it's just not a price you're willing to pay for companionship.
>>44796755>Ok, and I have to go into the DMs of creepy transphobic men and beg them to be abusive to me because that’s the only way I’ll get any sort of affection. >I’d give anything to be a hot tranny in a polycule where we all cuddle and love eachother but I’m stuck in the middle of fucking nowhere Ohio. I’m an A student in collegeMaybe im stupid but i feel like finding transbians in college shouldnt be that hard even in Ohio, maybe its different here but here theres a ton even in a rural area but idk
>>44800370I don’t own a car and there’s only like 10 other trans girls at most at my college, I’ve expressed my interest in everyone I’ve been interested in and been rejected by all of them. There’s no queer bar in the area I can walk to and even if there was I’m 19 so they wouldn’t let me in.
>>44800352I’ve asked out everyone I’ve felt that I want to date, none of them have wanted me. I would be willing to change any aspect of myself if it meant someone would be with me they just have to say what they is, leading me to believe it’s something I can’t change, ergo it’s most likely my horrible masculine face and body
>>44800680Maybe change your standards then.My point was more about methods to meet more people anyway, it's mostly a numbers game changing doesn't help much, you either vibe or you don't.Me personally I gave up, it's a lot nicer just not thinking about it. No point humoring a humiliation ritual for an outcome I have 0 faith in.
>>44800843I’ve done everything I can to try and lower my standards but at a certain point they’re just innate things. Also I have no real idea how to meet new people, everyone here is always “too busy” to hang out and there’s barely any campus events, if I do see people hanging out as a group they’re studying and I don’t need to study so I don’t go to study groups, all the clubs are just resume-fillers as well and people don’t socialize at them.
idk why some of y'all are pretending that looks don't matter as if you've never rejected someone for their looks. i have. it's not the ONLY reason you could get rejected but it's not NOT A REASON.
