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How to tell a girl that respec(...) 09/15/26(Tue)14:31:26 No.44799020

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How to tell a girl that respectfully I don’t give a fuck about the other people shes seeing? Anonymous 09/15/26(Tue)14:31:26 No.44799020 Archived

This girl I’ve been seeing is chill but every time I see her at least once or twice she will bring up someone else she’s seeing or someone she’s fucked in the past. Now, I also am seeing other people, and I have quite a few bodies, but I don’t bring it up ever because I consider it annoying and rude to do so.

She’s new to seeing multiple people so I get the feeling she’s just excited about it? But every time she mentions someone else I have to grit my teeth a bit because I simply don’t care and find it rude.

Anonymous
09/15/26(Tue)14:44:53 No.44799152

Anonymous 09/15/26(Tue)14:44:53 No.44799152

>>44799020
you're jealous. does polycope rely on you pretending it's not happening?

Anonymous
09/15/26(Tue)14:47:45 No.44799176

Anonymous 09/15/26(Tue)14:47:45 No.44799176

>>44799152
I literally don’t care about someone seeing other people, I just don’t want to hear about it because while we’re together I want it to be about us. I feel like that’s pretty normal no?

Anonymous
09/15/26(Tue)14:59:13 No.44799273

Anonymous 09/15/26(Tue)14:59:13 No.44799273

>>44799152
Yes, it always blows up into drama.

Anonymous
09/15/26(Tue)15:07:35 No.44799344

Anonymous 09/15/26(Tue)15:07:35 No.44799344

Let me guess, you want to fuck her? Poly transbians are so gross. Almost threw up in my mouth reading this.

Anonymous
09/15/26(Tue)15:09:38 No.44799362

Anonymous 09/15/26(Tue)15:09:38 No.44799362

>>44799020
The only cultural cache women have are their holes and how desirable they are. She’s either trying to make you jealous so you’ll be exclusive with her or she really does just live and die by her holes, either way she sounds annoying and you should let her know it’s annoying. If she doesn’t stop then dump her.

Anonymous
09/15/26(Tue)15:10:39 No.44799369

Anonymous 09/15/26(Tue)15:10:39 No.44799369

>>44799176
not really. i'm monogamous and I've heard in detail about all my girlfriends exes and we laugh about them and vise versa. when we spend time together it's still about us even if we talk about other people?

Anonymous
09/15/26(Tue)16:04:07 No.44799811

Anonymous 09/15/26(Tue)16:04:07 No.44799811

>>44799344
Were already fucking and I’m a bisexual man
>>44799362
Yeah I will tell her. To be fair she actually has a life outside of sex and dating which I cannot say about everyone who I’ve been with.
>>44799369
I don’t agree, it makes it about someone else.

Anonymous
09/15/26(Tue)16:35:19 No.44800129

Anonymous 09/15/26(Tue)16:35:19 No.44800129

>>44799020
usually a bad sign ngl. i'm mtf and had a fling with a trans girl from this board a few years ago who did this, would just constantly bring up her exes or people she's fucked in the past, like every anecdote started with "i had an ex who...". she turned out to be a pretty manipulative and mean-spirited person who i removed from my life a few months later. i still don't totally understand what caused this particular behaviour, she was like a deeply insecure person who always compared herself and her body to others and i think maybe it was like an ego thing to show off her conquests? idk. run away or at least don't get too emotionally involved