>upstairs>listening to my parents arguing downstairs>my mom says>"if you will not see anon as a girl i will walk out of this house with her">mfw
holy fucking shit some of you are so lucky
>>44800131isn't that good?
>>44800131imagine complaining about having a mom who completely supports you to the point of divorcing your father. grow the fuck up
Trans people will literally get killed by their parents and you're complaining that your mother is supportive?
>>44800131did you tell her that's not how it works
>>44800451in India maybe
>>44800451Not OP but its awkward and painful when being a tranny is literally destroying your family
>>44800504no you don't understandif one of your family members doesn't call you she, they are actually a genocidal nazi and you should excommunicate them from the familyit is completely normal to get a divorce over a political disagreement after 20 years of marriage
>>44800474It does, you have to train the monkey that your PFC is stuck to in order to see them as a woman if they’re non passing. Or if you just spend enough time around a transwoman and actually get to know them it happens over time, rewriting the association from (flamer faggot) -> (person who is womanly). Essentially humanization.
>>44800537>political disagreement
>>44800537Copy paste is low effort anon. People aren’t politics.
>>44800537>still pretending it's just a "political disagreement"
>>44800201Kinda depends on if OP is MtF or FtM
>>44800613oh! oh my god I hadn't even considered that, and it seems like the rest of the thread didn't either. that makes way more sense
>>44800579>>44800583>>44800588>"if you will not see anon as a girl"nobody sees you as a girl unless you are a genuine passoid, and if they knew you before you trooned, they won't see you as a girl even if you passher mother is asking her father to change his perception of reality
>>44800537> It is completely normal to get a divorce over a political disagreement after 20 years of marriageYeah. It is. Politics is human lives. Politics is human well-being. Politics dictates so much of who we are and what we can do.When you say "divorces over politics," you are saying "divorce over a fundamental incompatibility in ethics and worldviews".It's sick that some idiots see politics as a game.
>>44800626Yeah, I've been a trans woman for a long time, and it's frustrating how rare it is for someone to even consider a trans guy when people say trans.We need to get trans men more visibility. Like, a lot more.
>>44800641once you are married and have kids, you are a familyit's sick that some idiots see politics as a reason to destroy their relationship with their family99.8% of people have ZERO political powerthere is no reason to be THAT invested in politics as a normie, because your opinion does not matter and will never amount to anything
>>44800636I feel like you missed the part where her mom does see her as a girl; therefore, by your own assertion, she must be a passoid.
>>44800661evidently! though I suppose, on this board, the assumption is just because mtf posters make up the majority of posts
>>44800677Now replace politics there with "fundamental incompatibility in ethics and worldviews".You have been trained to be apolitical by a society in which the upper class wants total control over politics. That's why politics is such an easy word to dismiss. Start calling it what it is.
>>44800700If it were just here, I would understand. But Twitter, reddit, Facebook, even Tumblr: trans is by default assumed to be trans girl/women.It's frustrating to me.
>>44800687by my assertion, she is lying/virtue signaling because it's impossible to view a tranny as a real woman if you knew them before they trooned
>>44800719Okay but larping as a trans woman on here specifically means you receive less hostility from other trans people
>>44800706I was trained to be a radical leftists that sees anyone who disagrees with the current hegemony as an evil bigotI then became far right as a response to this obviously batshit insane environment, realized the far right has been completely and utterly disenfranchised in every western country, and decided to stop caring about politics because I have no power
>>44800722Kinda a stupid argument. I have seen cis women go from seeing trans girls and women as guys to seeing them as girls.
>>44800751have you ever seen an argument from 4chan transphobes that wasn't stupid?
>>44800661>men need more visibilityare you being serious? that wouldn't even take any heat off of trans women. what exactly would the goal be?
>>44800761I'm not a "transphobe" I'm a tranny and I know for a fact that nobody sees me as a woman even though some insist that I "pass"
>>44800792those two things aren't mutually exclusive
>>44800792are you naïve enough to believe transphobic trans women don't exist or are you acting intentionally dumb because you think it helps you pass better?
>>44800837sure but calling me a transphobe implies that you think I'm cisI was just making sure it was clear that I'm a self hating tranny specifically
>>44800131tic toc goes the clock tick tick tick. what happens when you're 30 and mommy realizes she made the wrong decision
>>44800661nobody cares how men feelpooners that want visibility are fembrainedyou should feel validated by the fact that nobody gives a fuck about you
>>44800764I mean, I agree with you that men are hardly a group that needs a bigger platform. but I think she just means that we should like, remember trans men exist more. though OP could have spared us all a lot of confusion by just saying their letters!
>>44800917ikr imagine starting a greentext without>be me>[insert relevant demographic info]
>>44800941exactly! these things used to be simple
>>44800764My goal is to help trans men? Why do you think I have some kind of evil goal?Look, if you want to call me a pick-me for supporting trans men, fine, but don't try to twist this into some kind of dark 5-dimensional chess.>>44800903Ok, first of all, I am a trans woman. I just support trans men and think that their desire for visibility as well as normalization within the trans community is not a big ask.I am allowed to care about the well-being of the men in our community.>>44800917Like, yeah, my point is just "Can we please not forget that trans men exist?" Did I do something stupid that made my view come off as super controversial?>>44800941This
>>44801266>wanting to help menthat IS the evil goal
>>44801738How is it evil to want to help men from your own oppressed minority group, though?
>>44802062You’re misgendering them by offering help. No one would ever help a cis man, so pretending to care about the well being of transmen can only be seen as transphobic. You want to help them because you see them as “smol bean confused girls”
>>44802425I grew up being "seen as a man".Here is my reality: in middle school and high school, I had a mixed gender friend group. We emotionally supported each other; we hugged each other; we all cared. I felt supported.In college, despite being "seen as a man," I had women friends. One of them cared about my emotional well-being a great deal, and I cared about hers. God knows how many hours we both spent talking to each other when the other wasn't doing great. When I came out, she was supportive too, though admittedly not surprised.Your idea that no one would ever help a cis man is predicated on universalizing your experience, but not all people have the same experienceI don't see trans men as “smol bean confused girls”. I see them as men from an oppressed community, one that I am a part of, as we are both trans. That means that helping them is what I am supposed to do.
>>44802425>>44802593Granted, I wasn't a cis man, but as I said, I was perceived as one.
>>44802609you were probably perceived as a soft faggot if people actually cared about youmost men could blow their brains out and only their parents would grieve
>>44802643IDK about faggot, I was openly bi, but sure, I did have a softer aesthetic and carried myself in a vaguely feminine way. And also, yeah, I was on the shorter side, which made people see me as less threatening.What's your point, though? Would an actual man with those traits not still be a man? Or are you saying no cis man would have the same traits? I am genuinely not sure what point you are trying to make.I just feel like, as a trans woman, supporting trans men is part of my job. They are trans too.
>>44802707trans men should be given the authentic male experience: unending psychological torture
>>44802787Again, authentic to whose experience? I am sure there are plenty of cis men out there with similar experiences to me. You haven't even tried to indicate otherwise.This is no better than the reverse shtick. Could you imagine someone arguing, "trans men should be given the authentic male experience of having a wife that does the cooking and cleaning as my brother has"? What is your experience more authentic than anyone else's?There are over 170million men in the US alone. Did you think your experience was absolute and representative?
>>44800131This is gay