>transitioned at 18>now 25 and am khhv >tomboy-mode (no makeup and neutral women's clothes)>probably autistic >generally semi-passable, people call me she without saying I'm a tranny or anything >even regular cis men strangers will call me she, miss, lady, etc >put my face into an ai attractiveness scorer (yes ik ai is cringe) and it said I am 7/10 woman >still never had sex or been in a relationship I'm bi and I don't know what I'm doing wrong. It probably doesn't help that I get very shy around people I find attractive. I actually think that dating would have been so much easier as a cis guy if I didn't have dysphoria.
>>44804884You gotta be at least a little bit assertive to get a relationship going. Invite people to dates, tell you find them attractive, make opening moves. Stuff like that. It is a skill, and you need to do it to get better at it. Even if it feels overwhelming and embarassing. Remember that as long as you're polite and take no for an answer, you're not doing anything wrong. Dating apps are a good way to learn. Get hinge, after a bit of texting, ask any person you find even mildly interesting out for a casual 1 hour coffee date. Consider that your first goal. Do that again and again until it feels doable without spiraling.
>>44804884I'm in the same situation but 32. I think some of us are just doomed to not deserve human connection.
