What would a woman have to do to make you want to date her? Would a cold approach work?
>>44818435take testosterone, work out, dress more masculine and call herself a guyt winkhon
>>44818435I like masculine men
>>44818435yeah that would work and just being nice
>>44818474If she does 2/4 is that enough?
>>44818435holy shit what happened to mel
>>44818474Ew that's disgusting, testosterone is literal poison and makes people ugly
>>44818492what are the two things?
be attractive to me and be attracted to me
>>44818517I lift and wear men’s clothes
>>44818529id just be platonic friends then
>>44818435uh have a penis?
>>44818584I didn’t know so many of you were straight this is very disappointing
>>44818435Acting dominant towards me and making me flustered
>>44818435front saladback saladfront blunt
>>44818435Tell me that she doesnt think im a giant manly rapist
>>44818435Girl, why are you specifically looking for not-quite-passing trans women? Do you know how fetishizing that is?
>>44818699It’s not a fetish! I just think they’re hot, I don’t even want sex necessarily
desu id probably assume she was fucking with me or pranking me or something.
>>44818708>it's not a fetish >describes what a fetish ismfw
>>44819182true attraction is always deep down is fetishistic. Difference is, is the person bigoted or not. Many of you are so fragile about this.
>>44818435cold approach works and getting very close personal space wise
>>44818602Your kind scared away all the transbians and now they only date each other ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
>>44819239i think the issue that people take with it is that the same features that you're attracted to are the ones that torture them every time they look in the mirror. that's probably what you're interpreting as "fragility". idk, like, i have a big nose that im insecure about. sometimes people hit on me with "i love women with big noses". it's uncomfortable to hear that cause i don't like my nose. if i did i wouldn't feel any type of way about it.
>>44818435a cold approach could work on me but it honestly just depends on how charismatic you are. if a woman randomly approached me and she was attractive and kind and didn't say anything overtly offensive and asked for my number or whatever I would totally go along with it I think. I don't think anything like that would ever happen to me though because i'm so ugly...
>>44819517I have one in mind that I see pretty often, I think I’ll just go up and ask her to coffee. I’m not charismatic or confident at all, but I’m hoping her self-esteem is low enough for that not to matter.
>>44819535what's she like? do you know eachother do you talk?
>>44819542I’ve never spoken to her, I only see her on campus sometimes. She wears these conservative skirts that go down to her ankes and these matching cardigans it’s really cute
imagine finding out that the person dating you likes you because you dont pass as a woman
>>44819565well good luck. please don't hurt her. i wish i knew how to appeal to people like that
>>44819354Kinda, unironically, this. Most trans women I know feel safer and more comfortable with other trans women. A cis woman has to prove she isn't a threat first.Which is basically how most cis women see cis men, so they should be able to understand putting safety first.
>>44819535> I’m hoping her self-esteem is low enough for that not to matterDo you not understand how predatory that sentence sounds?Like, ok, sure, go for it. But do you not understand why some of us treat you with caution after saying something like that?
>>44818435twinkhonany approach works but most importantly you have to seem safe and relatable. maybe just start talking about your nerdy interests.The main barrier is getting past their conditioning from being the target of harassment. Just need to show you're not one of them.
>>44819968picrel is a drawing of me with my cischaser gf :3
>>44818435>cold approachinitiating stuff in general is definitely a good idea since most of us have worms about being predatory when it comes to doing literally anything with cis women, especially if we dont fully pass. thats probably one of the biggest things i would look for and be receptive to. just be chill and respectful and sweet, we tend to keep our guard up bc of the many people who are looking to abuse or fetishize us so make her feel safe around you like the other nona said >What would a woman have to do to make you want to date her?treat me like a woman. tell her you think shes pretty and affirm her femininity at every opportunity, and most of us will fall in love with you in short order. dont ask or expect us to be dominant / top unless we want to; in fact, assume we dont. be cute yourself, idk. tbdesu i am rarely if ever attracted to women who are shorter and smaller than me which is the majority of cis women even though im not that tall t. winkhon
>>44818435If you change my diapers I'll fall in love with you
>>44818435we would have to be friends for at least a year, and i would have to respect her decisions and her backbone. she would probably have to be a feminist who sees women and men as mentally equal (and ideally be annoyed when people suggest women are lesser)
If you want to attract a twinkhon, just know that most trans girls love wearing diapers, so make sure to gift her a 10 pack of bunnyhopps for your first date ^-^
>>44820147I’d definitely be giving a lot of compliments and I’m not super interested in sex, so I wouldn’t ask her to top or anything. I’m pretty short/thin, though, I hope that’s not an issue.>>44820160>>44820190I hope I never step on this landmine.>>44820180Sorry, I do kind of hate women but I’d keep that to myself
>>44819239wow. what you have to do to catch my interest is be this based.~bi twinkhon
>>44820207Landmine? The diapers are the best part! A trans girl without her diapers is like an angel without its wings
it would honestly be ridiculously easy for a chaser even one with bad intentions to scoop me up and carry me away. as long as you're like, not incredibly unattractive, and don't immediately say anything stupid. just don't offend me and don't make me embarrassed to be around you and i'm yours. i actually had a chaser guy ask me for my number on the first day of class at college one time. i couldn't believe it. on that first day i was so flattered and so excited. but the second time i saw him after class we chatted in the library for half an hour and he clumsily forced some remark into the conversation about how "parts don't matter, people matter" with regards to his attraction (when that wasn't even what we were talking about at all) and it immediately upset me so much. he couldn't even pretend treat me like a woman for two days before talking about my genitals. completely shot himself in the foot. i also just generally found him kinda annoying and i hated the way he dressed and he was a really big one piece fan and this is mean but it kinda made me think less of him because that show is such absolute garbage (and so transphobic). i could never date someone who leaves the house in a one piece shirt. sorry. just don't be an idiot. you don't even have to be nice to me just please don't say anything about what's between my legs.
>>44820207>I do kind of hate womenis this really what cis f chasers are like :(
>>44820250yeah, some. probably because a lot of them are femreppers lol. but also just autism and being alienated from other normie women a lot of the time
>>44820250I think it’s just a me thing don’t worry
>>44819239Please fetishize me for being some weird third thing, that'd be so hot >.<
as a twinkhon my dream is a masc, somewhat dommy, jokey or funloving woman who does not want to take T to ask me out
>>44820300nta but why do you "kind of" hate women nona
>>44818510no one cares, rapehon
>>44820250pretty sure this is rp
>>44820293i want chasers to like me for my negative self esteem and my docile, compliant nature,, not for my distance from true womanhood... i'm thrilled by the thought of someone fetishizing my self-hatred and vulnerability and i can't stand the thought of someone fetishizing my body. this sucks. do the chasers i want even exist? :(>>44820300i'm worrying!!! i'm so worried! i hate it!
>>44820330Imagine thinking testosterone isn't literal poison. Men are so ugly and disgusting looking
>>44820336>i want chasers to like me for my negative self esteem and my docile, compliant nature,, not for my distance from true womanhood... i'm thrilled by the thought of someone fetishizing my self-hatred and vulnerability and i can't stand the thought of someone fetishizing my body. this sucks. do the chasers i want even exist? :(you can't be seriousI wish I could smack you
>>44820346go ahead
>>44820353I only hit women
>>44820207> Sorry, I do kind of hate women, but I’d keep that to myselfSo, let me get this straight:You are a woman who hates women and is trying to date a woman. And you are a cis woman, and she is a trans woman. Oh yeah, this is going to go great! I can't see any obvious upcoming issues at all.You are going to break that poor girl beyond repair, arn't you...
>>44820232Shut up; almost none of us wear diapers.
>>44820336>do the chasers i want even exist? :(not really no, sadly :(( unless youre a cute gigapassoid or youngshit. if you wanna date cis lesbians (or even cis women in general desu) i would get srs, thats the only way to avoid being fetishized at all. even most of the c4ters in relationships ive seen plan on getting it or have it already.>>44820333>pretty sure this is rpyeah pretty sure most of the cisf chaser posts here are larp or reppers atp lol
>>44820380Put on the diaper nona, you know you want to >///<
>>44820380I wear diapers
>>44818435>What would a woman have to do to make you want to date her?Can't speak for anyone but myself, but aside from being compatible in general and having similar views and interests and such, I would need someone to actually view me as a woman in a meaningful sense and not just a "safe man" or some kind of "third gender" or something like that. I want someone who is not just attracted to me because of how my body is now, but would continue to be if I ever manage to pass as a normal woman, or hypothetically even if I were to magically wake up as a cis woman one day. I want someone who would never want me to use the awful thing between my legs in a sexual way, and who wouldn't try to discourage me from getting srs if I ever manage to work up the courage and money to get it.In short, I want someone who is attracted to me in spite of being trans, not because of it. The idea that someone would only be attracted to me because of something I utterly despise about myself, something I would give anything to change, is deeply painful.Oh, and more than anything, it would need to be someone that I felt I could genuinely trust.>Would a cold approach work?As in the sense of just approaching someone without knowing much if anything about them? Personally I'd prefer to get to know someone in a non-romantic context first, but if someone did randomly ask me out it would still pique my interest enough to try to get to know them better.As others itt have said you'd probably have to be the person to initiate either way, since a lot of us, myself included, are terrified of the idea of imposing on anyone or being seen as predatory or anything like that.>>44820207>I do kind of hate womenI personally don't consider myself a feminist, but hating on half the population for no good reason seems like a pretty awful view to have and in this context seems to point towards the possibility that you're only interested in trans women because you don't actually see us as women
>>44820802I also wear diapers, diaper transbians are superior >w<
>>44819573This plus op saying she hates women really seals the deal lmaoVery telling that they never want passoids
>>44818435idk... any love for twunkhons... I don't lift anymore... I'm...just so huge... fuck
>>44820885>I also wear diapers, diaper transbians are superior >w<And cuter>t. another diaper transbian
>>44822024I dated a twunkhon at one point. She did a ton of jiu jitsu pre transition iirc and was rlly built under her clothes but looked super thin she was one of the fucking cutest people Ive met in my life, and she was so fucking sweet. Ive repeatedly considered texting her again but desu it would never work out. God I really wish she didnt hate her muscles so much too. Like she was genuinely gorgeous.t. twunkhon appreciatior.
>>44823309How did it end?
>>44818435>What would a woman have to do to make you want to date her? Would a cold approach work?For a woman? Yeah, a cold approach would work. For a faggot DUDE like you? No, you'd get your jaw broken.
>>44820373Breaking her sounds like the most fun part though, not many people care if you break a tranny, and most seem kind of desperate for love so they’ll probably just come crawling back the moment you offer the opportunity.
>>44823107TRVTH NVKE, GOD I LOVE DIAPERS SO MUCH
>>44824255I hope you are not the OP, because you are fucking evil.
