my boyfriend is two years younger than me and now that I have a full time job I wanna spoil himthe problem is he's kinda prideful and when I suggested going on a trip he said he couldn't afford it and wouldn't accept me paying for himI just wanna go on this trip with him and I don't mind paying for the both of uswould it be bad if I maybe did some slight manipulation and paying for stuff behind his back so he can't complain? I can pay for the both of us but I don't wanna like be a manipulative bitch
>>44832897have you seen Phantom Thread? poison him (mildly) and take care of him while he's sick, he'll get used to depending on you and you'll have license to spoil him
>>44832897giwtwm, dump him and date me instead
>>44832897yea it would be nice, but unfortunately you can't force him, and doing something like that not only behind his back, but against his wishes, could fracture your foundation of trust, even if well-intentioned.i think the best you can do is talk about it again with him, explaining how you feel. if he still says no, then you should respect that. perhaps there's a middle ground that you two can reach, or simply a more affordable trip. just because this particular trip might not work out, doesn't mean you have to shelve the whole ideaor this >>44833007
>>44832897Just make a crying puppy face when he says he won't accept your gifts
