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Why I hate women:
They do not handle criticism, even constructive criticism, or any sort of negative comments about them. Women want to live in a world where you can ONLY be 100% positive about them at all times, are never allowed to criticize them or anything they do, even in a small way, and any sort of criticism will be responded to harshly by mocking, demeaning, or belittling, and they will try to turn others against you if you dare. You cannot have a functioning world where people have no means to improve and it's just everyone patting each other on the back and telling each other how wonderful they are all the time. I hate the fake nice world women want us to all live in - and I hate trannies for wanting to broaden the scope of said world.
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>>44851159
If you were a woman you would understand why this is. I didn't get it before I was one but now it makes perfect sense and you just seem like an angry psycho
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>>44851183
here comes the simps
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>>44851183
Fucking simp beta omega kys we are hyper chuds hate your women women were a mistakes and soon will be erased from the face of the earth and men will rule the world and fix it no more gays no more wars only heaven and lots of whiskey fuck foids
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>>44851183
Explain
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>>44851573
>explain your psyop comment
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>>44851581
Yes
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>>44851588
>explain this comment you stated in bad faith
>expecting any sort of good faith honest reply
sigh
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>>44851598
Even if intended as a psyop you should be able to explain your words or you are a retard
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>>44851619
I am not that anon.
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>>44851159
been saying this but about men since day one
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>>44852336
but it doesn't apply to men at all, men are constantly criticized and just have to take it, women are incredibly rude and you are supposed to walk on eggshells around them
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>>44852438
man who hasn't experienced being a teenage girl award
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I treat women as equals, always have.
Needless to say, it is not a popular disposition among women. All the same, I measure my success with them as a measure of the value of them as humans beyond the sex they can offer. See how far they make it if you don't treat sex as a favor they're doing you, if you genuinely see it as a neutral exchange of pleasure between equals. Because I'm tall, fit and not particularly grotesque to look at and I didn't lose my virginity until my late 20s. Even that person ended up cheating. I don't doubt social skills play some part in my lack of success but honestly the only difference I've seen is if I had been more proactive I'd have had to turn down more bad choices. I've only dated for keeps, mind you. Women are a shockingly poor showing when you treat them as genuine equals. Disappointing doesn't begin to cover it.
The whole objectification outrage feels like a smokescreen to cover for what they themselves are doing, they have no actual self esteem to fall back on so to have their own callousness so exposed is a big risk. Like pointing out a bad actor plant in a protest. And the most insidious part of all, most do it so naturally it's subconscious. They will honestly and vehemently defend their own irrationality without one shred of self awareness or shame to hold them back. Holding them accountable and pointing out their gaslighting, which I tell you I have not seen a single living example that didn't attempt it, is as appealing to them as pulling teeth. Any woman you want to deal with you have to also educate on how not to be a psychopath and simultaneously not get offended when they try it again the next week. If you put your genuine trust in them they abuse it, without exception. To them it's a bargaining chip or leverage and they'll use it when it benefits them every time. But every day of their lives is spent on public image so trying to push this through to the public consciousness is like trying to dress a struggling child.
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>>44852500
So to TL;DR
the average woman is an atrocious partner (Trans too ladies, you're included of course) and being honest about that is a socially ostracizing stance to have. And yet if you treat them as equals that's the inevitable outcome you arrive at. That or you become irrational yourself, which I expect they will be accusing me of shortly.
If they bother to read that is, the best defense is to avoid accusations you can't defend. Should see how quick my ex was to conclude discussions once the cheating became evident. And the gaslight attempt failed.
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>>44852460
have you been a teenage girl?
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>>44852559
worse, a fat one
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>>44852500
>The whole objectification outrage feels like a smokescreen to cover for what they themselves are doing, they have no actual self esteem to fall back on so to have their own callousness so exposed is a big risk.
Women objectify themselves because they have a intra-gender social hierarchy where being as useless an object as possible (really impractical nails, heels, jewelry, etc.) actually means you're high status because it means you aren't expected to work or pull your weight, and that you are privileged in the social village. And this is enforced almost entirely by women and mothers teach the same toxic behavior to their daughters so I don't think it will ever end.
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>>44852500
>Any woman you want to deal with you have to also educate on how not to be a psychopath and simultaneously not get offended when they try it again the next week.

honestly a gigatrvke. Dating afabs made me borderline misogynist, I don't understand to this day why they seem so unwilling to examine their own feelings and motivations with honesty. Sometimes it seems like they simply do not understand where their feelings come from, or where the line lies between feeling and acting? But that can't be true, so I don't know what to think. I've had many interactions like this and still don't know how to handle it beyond extending infinite patience, once again, until their rage runs out and they get over it and apologize:

>please do not speak to me that way. you can't insult me and threaten me and scream at me. if you have a problem please just talk to me without doing those things.
>"but its how i feel? do you want me to hide my feelings? ok ill repress everything and be a happy housewife and just never express myself without permission ever again :)"
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>>44852587
women know how they feel and why, but you are male and they know they don't need to explain anything to you, women see men as disgusting meek slaves they can abuse
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>>44852500
i can't argue with this but i don't think the majority of men are any better. the average person is capable of self-introspection but very few people are able to modify their behavior based on that introspection. it usually has to be some external threat like the fear of your partner leaving you or of social ostracization that will get someone to change, and it usually still fails in the end because they will feel unhappy and come up with some justification for how you're ultimately at fault.
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why i hate women:
theyre retarded and gay
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>>44852811
men are capable of reason, women get hysterical when you defy them
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>>44852571
Psychologically, you will never recover
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>>44853364
a very small minority of humans is capable of actual "reason", and even that is debatable
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>>44852583
Which is fine enough, but the hypocrisy to get mad about it when you do it is an ick.
>>44852587
It's not that they can't understand, it's that it's far more convenient not to and more problematically, society lets them get away with that intellectual laziness. Every time you encounter it you make a choice, either you tolerate them because you love them more than you hate how they are, or you leave. Simple enough in the end, personally if they do it once I assume they will always do it and end things there. Don't go trusting them though, even if they don't do this. Love is blind.
>>44852811
In their own way, certainly.
In my experience, (though obviously I don't have straight male experience that might differ) they are no less superficial on average but they are a lot more callous about it. Which is bad since they don't spare your feelings about not giving a shit about you, but it's also more honest since you'll know you were garbage to them on week 2 not year 4. They're a lot less parasitic by nature and more cut and run. Just depends on what sort of cruelty you prefer.
Either way my point wasn't to say men are better, just that in public discourse only one side is willing to admit they suck a lot of the time and I don't think it's fair. Women are horrible too, they just have more social self preservation so they try to lie their way out of it instead of accepting they are the shit that they are. Which results in a lot more frequency of bad behavior since there's no consequences.
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>>44851159
>Why I hate women: incorrect sweeping generalization
a tale as old as chud, a song as old as foid
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>>44853482
>Either way my point wasn't to say men are better, just that in public discourse only one side is willing to admit they suck a lot of the time and I don't think it's fair.
i think that "public discourse" just tends to skew pretty female or left because those are the demographics of people in media. if you talk to people irl or even in anonymous online spaces men are usually very much not willing to admit they suck and women are very much willing to talk about how other women suck. regardless of what public discourse looks like abuse continues to happen everywhere
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>>44853460
I just don't see this much in women - especially normie hetero coded ones. They are just always playing games with you and I can't wait to get away from them. Women are looking to build a file of naughty things you have said and done so they can always be superior to you.
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>>44852819
yes little jacob, girls are icky and have cooties, now go gather up your toys
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>>44854133
I miss toys!
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Criticizing women = reinforcing the patriarchy!!

Criticizing transwomen = BRAVE AND SOVLFUL WOMANISM
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>talking with ciswoman(repper but "she" doesn't like talking about it)
>she's constantly talking shit about other women, how they are weak and dumb for letting men control them
>gossiping about some random woman that is pregnant again
>>I don't understand how yadda yadda yadda they are so lame
>>Well, you don't understand them because you wouldn't make such sacrifice not even for your family
>starts tearing up, suddenly she becomes sentimental and starts crying about how I think every woman is better than her
>*two hours of back and forth later*
>remind her how she refused to quit her job when she had her first kid and how she had to hire someone to raise the baby for her
>>Uh, you are right, women are so lame
Gosh why are women like this
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>>44854345
"Repper"
Nlog
Foid worshipper doesn't understand how much women want to pretend to be different to get Chad. They see not enough chads and want to larp to get the chads who go for trannies. That is what pooners and "AFAB trans women" are. Soulless beasts who harass gay men (the ones who have sex with trans women). Except they will never get me because I am attracted to ensouled people (only "AMABs" are ensouled).
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>>44853668
Not in my experience.
First thing I heard from men I told I was divorcing was "Sorry dude, that really sucks", first thing the women said was "what happened?/what did you do?" or otherwise tried to push blame off of the other person. Despite the fact she cheated, and treated me horribly on the way out. Women that had known me since I was a little kid sided with a stranger when I told them this chick destroyed my life.
How many men are sitting around telling women that got abused that maybe the man was just misunderstood or stressed out?
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>>44854187
what reinforces the matriarchy?
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>>44854437
Gay males taking... Estrogen. Gay males cutting off their testicles. Gay males dressing "feminine".
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>>44854625
explain more
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bump
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>>44854770
These are the main pillars of feminism as a vector for homophobia and misandry. Men who kowtow to women. The great male renunciation. Except of their testicles instead of their clothes this time.
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>>44856832
Why is men wearing female clothing more controversial than women wearing male clothing?
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>>44856841
Because women can do whatever they want. Males have to beg for female permission to tie their shoes nowadays. Feminism and Misandry are the state ideologies of the Gynocratic Matriarchy SuperHell.
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>>44856944
Yeah no one really taught me how to tie my shoes cuz I was a boy. My babysitter saw how distressed I was about it and showed me the easy way.
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>>44856841
Because even liking womanly things as a man is considered shameful in society. Women and their attire, interests, opinions etc. are considered lesser so if you indulge/associate in that so are you.
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>>44857148
but why is one worse than the other
>women are lesser
then why are they protected socially and legally?
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>>44857164
Because if they are considered weak and inept they are thought of like the disabled and get additional supports due to being disadvantaged due to birth.
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>>44857176
you are such an npc
>women get free shit but actually that's a bad thing
women hate both of us for being male
being a traitor will get you nowhere
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>>44857176
women are weak and inept...they are treated pretty well given that I'd say
alimony, presumption of custody, shorter jail sentences, no circumcision, don't have to work
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>>44856832
feminism blows
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>>44853703
that's just insecurity, men do that shit too but different. i find normie men not much better, making stupid things into measuring contests, acting big and loud, passive aggressive to other men, i can see through that shit instantly and it's super annoying
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>>44851159
>>44852500
>>44852583
This shit here is why I’m a misanthrope.
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>>44851159
leave omfg ew
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>>44858309
men don't do it nearly as much
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>>44859465
they would, the culture just doesn't let them get away with it. it's still there, just more subtle
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>>44859732
no, men are more noble animals
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>>44859738
doesn't matter when you prefer humans
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>>44859738
true
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>>44860982
Men are humans
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>>44854625
I don’t think giving women a monopoly on femininity is gonna undermine the matriarchy
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>>44866283
what would?
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>>44859057
explain?
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bump
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omg you're dumb as FUCK, you just described men in this post (eww)
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>>44870861
no, I did not
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>>44851159
I genuinely think your talking to the wrong women because a mysogonist could easily say that women are weak minded and easy to convince of anything. I know a lot of ladies who would bend over backwards to take measures and fix my genuine criticism. Maybe you just deliver it poorly. Or maybe they can tell your weird, you are on 4chan.
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>>44873457
no, women are always this way



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