>do everything right>partner makes up problems left and right because there is no problems>partner would rather "reset" than just accept whatever happened to avoid apologizing from acting out>main issue was trying to bait me with sending a lewd to another for money when they know I don't like that>she faked it looking for a reaction to get me pissed and only realized just how fucked up it was after they sent it>continues to either start shit on and off because they have no control over themselves and would rather avoid saying sorry from how fucked up they are so I forget it all>we're both adults, mid 20s and they still act immature >fast forwarding to now they won't shut up talking about how they won't have a bf or doesn't have a bf when I'm right here because it'll ruin the "story" she's making >Said I never play into delusions? no shit not when they disrespect me> say I always haunt them with reality when it's just being real with them and give truth to any situation which does help>says then has problems with her when it's just them creating it then living in it but somehow doesn't want it but does want it at the same time?Would this drive anyone else insane? I know it's not just me, there's so many contradictions it never makes sense. What's so bad about being an adult and moving through an issue together instead of making it complicated? On top of it all they used everything I did for them against me in what I taught her which is healthy but turns it toxic. They start arguments and fights for the smallest reasons then wonders why I don't do what I have done before and react less. Meanwhile they react to others the way they used to react to me and says it's because they're pretending while continuing to like starting fights, what are your opinions or takes on it all?
