I am a straight pooner dating a trans woman and I am petrified of being a transmisogynistic hefab or a whiny female socialized woman whose learned helplessness makes her unfit to be a proper man for her. It makes me sad reading posts from women on here who have been treated wrong in st4t relationships.To androphilic tranners who wouldn't date a pooner, what specifically about us (aside from shit we can't fix like being dickless or short) scares you away? I'd like to be aware of common pitfalls that make doods fail the trans women in their lives, so I can avoid them and be the best boyfriend I can be for her.
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>>44874182Hello,I read your post. I don't have any answers, life is complicated. No one here can supply easy answers to such a complex question, dating women is hard.The most important thing to internalize is that when things go wrong in a relationship, it's not necessarily your fault.The best thing i could say is, be nice but not too nice. Pay attention to the important things, but ignore her when she's being stupid. But that's just how my relationship works. No one is perfect.
>>44874182Beat her until she does what you say
>>44874182idk, just like... be a normal straight guy? be assertive and take initiative and be strong and court her and desire her and be there for her and make her feel like the woman in the relationship.
>>44875338too latethe poonah is already waiting for the tranny boyf-errrr transgirlfriend to do everything
