How do I as a self hating diaper tranny find a gf or bf? I feel like I can't go on normal dates because the second I mention that I have trouble sleeping without a diaper due to an overactive bladder, spiro, and years of sleeping padded they'll think I'm some kind of weirdo. It's humiliating
>>44884846Just dont tell them you wear a diaper then you freak
>>44884846its kinda something that needs to be addressed
If I hug/squish you with my strong hairy arms will pee leak out the bottom?
>>44884971gross
>>44884846Stop hating yourself and embrace it, you'll find someone Nona. Plenty of people out there who enjoy being a caretaker
>>44885047But I'm kind of doomed if I don't only try to find and date people who would be okay with that sort of thing right? If they don't know from the get-go that I wet the bed then later on they'll think I'm some sort of freak and break up with me. I'm only 22, it kind of feels hard to find someone who'd be okay with me who isn't a creepy old man
>>44884846If you're fine with T4T, then its really easy, just find another diaper transbian by creating an online dating profile and having shit like stuffies and coloring books and bluey in your PFP. Then only reply to people with similar profiles.
>>44884846i don't wear a diaper but my bf said if i wet the bed one more time he's going to force me to wear them..i'm trying really hard but i know i'm eventually going to loseso i guess you could just not wear diapers and wait for him to force you like that?god and i never even took spironolone just estrogen
>>44888672Last thing I'd want to do is piss someone I'm dating's bed. I could ruin their mattress and get them really mad at me
>>44888661But I'm not even much of a baby though <\3 I just have a hard time not pissing myself
>>44888892my bf said it was a three strike rule and i've already lost twicehe loves me so he won't get mad but he just wants me to be protected if i need it
People are way more accepting of this than you might think. As long as you make them like you before you reveal this, most will at least tolerate it if not embrace the dynamics entirely.
>>44888904>But I'm not even much of a baby though>muchSure you're not nona.
>>44889103>As long as you make them like you before you reveal this, most will at least tolerate it if not embrace the dynamicsThat's a bad way to do it, much better off being upfront about it and explaining that it is a comfort thing and part of who you are. Nobody likes learning about diapers 1+ years into a relationship after you've already established your dynamic.
>>44889269is there even a dynamic to diapers? this isn't a sexual thing they're just panties that protect you if you have a weak bladder
>>44884846why would you mention it on a date?
>>44889285Yes there are many dynamics involving diapers, the most common probably being DDlg since its a hugely popular dynamic even among normies (although diapers are optional in that dynamic).
>>44889285>nona doesnt have a dada that takes care of them
>>44889269How do I be upfront about it? I feel like it'd be awkward to match with people on a dating app and open up with "I need to wear diapers at night if that's okay".>>44889220I mean I love acting childish and doing childish things like coloring and watching cartoons but that's about it :p
>>44889269When I said "make them like you before..." I didn't meant over a prolonged amount of time, just as the overall first impressions. Be a funny, intriguing person for the first few dates and in about 2 weeks to 2 months reveal this, judging by how much the person already sympathizes with you without it being too serious yet.
I didn't read the thread. Is it a fetish thing for you or no? I would be ok with a gf wearing diapers if it was a necessity for her
>>44889821Not really a fetish thing, I think diapers can be hot but I'm pretty asexual about everything. Mostly a need so that I don't ruin my mattress
>>44889877>not really>can be hotInto the trash it goes (you, not the diapers (but the diapers too after you inevitably shit in them, you nasty bitch))
>>44889752>How do I be upfront about it?You just have to allude to it without being explicit. On your dating profile bring up that you like watching cartoons and coloring in coloring books, attach a small key chain plushy to your purse, get some slightly little coded clothes (stuff like more brightly colored clothes, colorful shoes with kind of childish designs), act slightly more little without it being annoying (like if you go to dinner, pick out your food but kind of shyly ask the person you're going out with if they can order for you). If they are receptive to the signals, and everything else is going well, then just bring up how you like being a bit little as a comfort thing.>I mean I love acting childish and doing childish things like coloring and watching cartoons but that's about it :pCute, me too :3!
>>44884846This is the ideal partner and I am NEVER going to get an ashamed diaper loving trans girlfriend why even live Every other reply is a 110 iq normie
>>44890651>110 iq normieUh 110 is above average, you do realize that right nona?
>>44890719That's the most 110 IQ response possible lmao
>>44890651>Ideal partnererrrmm come to the Midwest than :v
>>44884852only so long you can do that until they find out. and they will find out.
>>44884846ik its engagement bait but like joining fl munches irl seems like the only waydont ask me how though im too scared to try
>>44890901This isn't engagement bait I'm genuinely asking for advice ;~; problem with munches is it's like 90% 40+ year old men :/
>>44891047sry i thought cuz of how it's worded>problem with munches is it's like 90% 40+ year old men :/thats annoying, prolly the same for me loli don't have any advice tho sry, good luck to us both
>>44884846She just like me! fr! The suicidal deaf girl that hates herself to the point of suicide because everybody around her suffers! She just like my embarrassment of an existence as a not geriatric, grown ass man who chooses to piss himself bc of meds he can stop taking anytime!
>>44890901>dont ask me how though im too scared to tryI've been to a ton of them. They're really not that scary, you just have to check who RSVP'd and see if there is anyone who you think you might actually want to meet.>>44891047>problem with munches is it's like 90% 40+ year old men :/Good munches are very region specific, some areas have broad munches with a lot of different people, other regions it's usually like 5-10 older guys and no one else. Cons are better for meeting people.
>>44884846For people with a diaper kink it's a win, but you aren't limited to dating just them. You don't have to open every date with "I pee bed" like it's some kind of warning label. If you got to the point that the man is wanting to sleep with you he will put up with a lot just to have sex.
>>44884846God I wish my gf was like thisI'm a st4t pooner whose gf is entirely perfect except for the fact that she finds diapers gross
>>44884846I masturbated to this post, thank you
>>44891798:(
>>44884971Probably *~*
>>44891779Do you want to diaper her or her to diaper you? If you’re like the dominant one you could just tell her she’s going to try it for youJust curious about the dynamic
>>44884846Just find one of those plump lesbians who will be your mommy GF and is into diapers and coddling and spoiling you(just a warning most of them are also feeders, are you willing to work with that?)
>>44891890I would be happy with either, she doesn't judge me for my kink but has given me a hard no about trying it irl because she thinks it's weirdI'm a straight switch but because she's a borderline asexual sub I always dom in the rare instances we do have sex
>>44891946Have you tried asking her if you can go to kink events? There are a lot of people whose partners are not into it, but who still find community. Not being able to ever indulge in your kink is pretty unhealthy and usually leads to problems down the line.
>>44884846Look for the women. Find one of those girls who just wants a GF she can spoil and dot on and feed all day
>>44891922Feeder like weight gain???? I mean I wouldn't mind, sounds hot desu but I can barely gain weight and have been under weight my whole life so they got their work cut out for them lmao
>>44892094Yeah. In lesbians at least there's a lot of overlap between "into diapers" and "into fatties". Not so much with men. Just a heads up. Maybe your weight is part of the issue? Most of the guys going for underweight girls are probably pretty bland in tastes and would be grossed out by spiro induced incontinence. And there are way more lesbians into chubby girls than underweight ones. You should probably put on some weight either way.
>>44892113I'm trying ;~; I'm always struggling to eat as many calories as I can a day and nothing seems to work. I wouldn't look for a feeder but one would lowkey be kinda good for meI think I sort of pass but I'd probably pass better if I was a bit chubby
>>44892157drink your calories. you'd be shocked how many calories are in some beverages
>>44891985Eh, we're both monogamous so I don't really have any interest in that kind of thing. Our current arrangement is that I just jack off privately when she's not in the mood (which is usually), almost always to diaper porn, so I get my fix that way
>>44892157Heavy cream is the single best thing you can consume to gain weight and get out of an underweight pit. (if you don't like the taste add flavoring)
>>44884846I'm into this but it's a fine balance. Couldn't do it 24/7 and I need a partner who is somewhat independent, and I find the baby stuff offputting (apart from clothes/diapers).I like looking after people but I couldn't do it as a full time job.
>>44892211Making non-sexual diaper friends is also an option, but if its purely a sexual thing for you then I completely understand just watching porn instead.
>>44892192humanities ultimate triumph over nature, the Baskin robins Oreo milkshake.
>>44892428The vast majority of people interested in diapers and ageplay live completely normal lives outside of it. It is very rare to find someone who is regressed and needs a caregiver 24/7 (I haven't found one yet), although some people will wear diapers 24/7, but its really not very different from wearing panties 24/7 other than that they're thicker.
i don't like coming here anymore as i feel I'm being manipulated
>>44892515I wasn't quite imagining people regressing 24/7 but some people here want to live a subservient life with zero responsibilities (and plenty aren't even into diapers).Even 24/7 diapers is probably too much for me because I don't really want anyone finding out that my partner wears them (I don't want us accidentally making others uncomfortable).
>>44892568>but some people here want to live a subservient life with zero responsibilities (and plenty aren't even into diapers).Most of those are probably horny posts, like I know a lot of puppy girls say they want to be a puppy 24/7, but in reality most actually don't want to, the actual fun is in the idea of it, the "what if".>Even 24/7 diapers is probably too much for me because I don't really want anyone finding out that my partner wears them (I don't want us accidentally making others uncomfortable).That's fair, it's not for everyone. Most people limit wearing diapers to at home only when they have free time.
>>44892192Good lord, please don't drink this if you value your pancreas. I think I eat less sugar than this in two or three days.>>44892334And don't drink straight heavy cream regularly either if you value your arteries. Fuck, do people really hate food this much? A varied and healthy diet can be quite tasty.
>>44892617There's no trans fats in dairy, thankfully.
>>44892607>be me, a 19mtf diaper tranny in college>normie dormie is out for a week>decide now is the perfect time to try messing>bulk up on fiber and laxatives the night before>10am the next day, feel a huge cramp, followed by a massive push of mess into my diaper>brain is mush and in a daze, suddenly the fire alarm goes off>quickly throw on pants and run outside with the others.>as we are waiting outside I remember I just shit myself>slowly walk away from the crowd hoping nobody could smell>an agonizing hour passes before we can go back in>I ofc wait until everyone is gone too>finally back in my dorm alone and can change>somehow got away with it through all the commotion.
>>44892703Actually there's an easy excuse here: "I was sleeping and the fire alarm scared me so much that I messed myself"
>>44884846i pee myself too and wish i could have a gf but i feel too gross to deserve it. i wonder if i could find someone who likes pee to tolerate my problem
>>44892729maybe I wasn't the only one then..
>>44892781I mean, there were other people into diapers at my college, so probably.
