>Nerd Girls Edition4chan /lesgen/ is different to /lesgen/ which is now a troll thread. This is the /lesgen/ by the community from 2013 onwards before the many splits. This thread is for all women that love women, made by women on 4chan.Ignore & report terminally online lolcows that have tried to derail the thread with raids and fake accusations for 3 months. Ignore their attempts to start fights between generals. Do not respond to or refute them if you want to be able to continue posting.QOTT>Do you have any seriously nerdy hobbies or interests?>Would you date a nerd girl that was obsessed about something and kept talking about it?>Is it important to share the same interests and hobbies, or is it better to have different interests?Discord server(s) not required but optional:>https://discord.gg/A97zDvs2Qsold: >>44855617
I'm way too old for anavar and idk I'm pretty depressed but I think I'm mid life crisis moding lol I just need to focus on something lol makeup or something
>>44902542>>44902658Why can't people agree to not break up or make it weird until you both build up a buffer? I think financial security is really important in a good relationship. Holding it over either person is just abusive. Sadly you won't find that unless you look for older lesbians
>>44902879I'd like to date someone who wanted me rather than needed me... If I was with someone who would drown without me the relationship would feel forced
>>44902834Midlife as in you're just 30? Or are you really 50?
>>44902899That's exactly right, it has to be mutual for it to be a relationship and not just a dependent. Why don't you try talking to some of the more mature girls in the community? I think some of them are single or they pretend they are
>>44902904Closer to 40 than 30 :p
>>44902918Then you're in mid 30s, that's still young dummy, you're going to regret not making the most of it now. When you're 70 you really will be too old for everything and whether you can keep going depends on how well you took care of yourself
>>44902925I'm not gonna be 70 lol but ya I like your attitude sis
>>44902804>Do you have any seriously nerdy hobbies or interests?I wouldn't say it's nerdy but I like to collect books about language and word meanings>Would you date a nerd girl that was obsessed about something and kept talking about it?Yes, absolutely. I would love that because then she would always want to talk to me and it would never get boring or too quiet. Like don't threaten me with a good time too much or I might think it's an invitation >Is it important to share the same interests and hobbies, or is it better to have different interests?I think both are fine. I love sharing stuff, so either we can share our own interests or we can share them together.
>>44902941You don't know that, you could end up being 100 so do what you can now it's all going to be forgettable mistakes later on anyway
>>44902994hug my anon friend
>>44902983Genshiken is peak...
>>44903057It is but so are you
Hope you had a good weekend cozy lesgen, get up to anything good?
>>44903179I cooked a steak but the potatoes aren't done yet :(>>44903084Omg thanks nona
>>44903361A girl that can cook is just what I need
>>44903361>the potatoes aren't done yetI'm sorry the british did this to you
>>44903502Thanks nona... The Brits did a great many sin but at least they introduced potatoes in the first place so I can eat them 3 times a day in different forms (bread, fried, mashed, stewed, boiled, roasted, etc...)>>44903490I can't cook super well and I'm more of the like professional type...
>>44903361>>44903502>potatoes
>>44903627How are you making potato bread nona ...
Have ya'll ever played an instrument /lesgen/?
>>44903631W-What>>44903640There's a few different ways... Farls r the most famous tho you mix it with flour until it forms a dough then cook it on a skillet
>>44903833Yeah I have tried to play a few but I wasn't able to stick to any. What about you nona, which instruments have you played?>>44903627That sounds cute. You need a house wife gf, but what if she's a professional too?
>>44903854Do you have any pictures of your potato bread? I find it hard to believe
>>44904290It's like flat...Google it! It can be boxty, farls, etc.>>44903938Two professional ladies sounds nice too... We can share house tasks and do whatever we prefer
>>44904711We could compete on who increases shareholder value most this quarter and the loser gets the time consuming chores
>>44904862Okay but when you lose you gotta wear a cute outfit while you do the chores
my gf who has bpd was in an abusive relationship with someone whos currenlty stuck in our friend group (its a long story) but her ex is her fp and it keeps making me feel weirdly jealous even though i know im her whole world. im not scared of her cheating or anything because she hates her ex and says that girl makes her feel like shit. but i feel like im going insane whenever she gets brought up like idkanons am i just being a jealous bitch how do i stop being a jealous bitch!!!!!
>>44904922Fine, what kind of outfit? Please have more imagination than french maid for 20 off Amazon
>>44905261Lowkey sounds like they're both using you but that's just me. Why even involve you in their drama if they think it doesn't involve you, but also dating her when she says she needs her abusive ex just sounds like she's taking the piss
>>44905330Fuck Amazon slop... If u gotta wear some cringy maid outfit you can wear some real gothic lolita instead! Like mana-sama!You can do ur chores in ur underwear!!!
>>44905417I mean what cute outfit did you have in mind?
>>44905453I was more imagining you cooking in just an apron than anything elaborate!
>>44905674You're so horny how am I supposed to keep a straight face when meeting your family
>>44905688Don't worry I'm sure you'll make a good impressionGoodnight nona
>>44905708Good night lotte
>AliPatchy in the OPThis thread was made in a lab to appeal to me specifically
Need someone to be my gf
>>44906455It's quite a popular pairing
>>44906915Why not just ask someone to pretend to be your gf? It seems to be quite a popular way of finding one
Is workaholism sexy or nah?
>>44906995way ahead of you buddy
>>44908045But that one's cuter than anons
>>44908078Thanks, we think veils should be worn for self-expression instead of modesty
>>44908045>>44908093Ok, confession: I actually love slavic headscarves because they are vary effective hair protection and look nice, but I am afraid to wear them in modern day US because of the association between any kind of head scarf and religion/traditionalism and conservative islam.
>qottyesyesmix of both works best, you both have stuff to talk about and stuff to learn from eachother
>>44908093Why not both? Most clothes are both
>>44908093>>44908205Cute af
Good morning lesgen, I hope you're all treating your girlfriend well, it's Monday after all
>>44902804I prefer being with someone that shares the same hobbies as me so we can have a lot of quality time together, but it's not a deal breaker if we don't
>>44908219What are your hobbies nona? I think that depends on your answer
Gf withhobbies ...
>>44908263Maybe we don't want modesty though?
Tfw no modest veiled village life
>>44908814What is your hobby besides travel?
>>44908875Um film photography... Gay anime bideo games... Im onions so I buy records too :( and have a lil nerdy setup for that...I wanna learn keyboard but I can't afford it rn.
>>44907719how does this work
>>44908880what anime video games do you like?
>>44907953I think it's cool but idk
>>44908910You ask someone to pretend then you keep pretending until you fall in love and are inseparable>>44908911I used to play ff14 a ton, I play jrpgs mostly like ff, pokemon obvs, some fire emblem... Been starting to play trails cuz I was interested for the past couple years and Xenoblade maybe soon?The atelier games look cute also but haven't played... There's a bunch of one off games I've played but mostly 2d stuff the SNES is my fav
why are there never any french girls who post here? i want a french gf
>>44908910Ask Charlotte she must have 3 gfs by now
>>44908919charlotte why are you hoarding all the gfs???
I finally found a women's space that I really wanna invade: The term himejoshi. I don't know why, but I identify so hard with that shit.
>best friends are four girls in a polycule together>they're semi-open, and three of the four have flirted with me and kissed me in bed before (we've never gone further than that, clothes always stayed on)>one of the four has never flirted with anyone outside of their polycule before and she's extremely cute and girly and shy>she came to me today and wanted to flirt and she's actually very romantic and a lot hornier than I thought she was>tfw I kinda fell in love with her specifically and don't want to join the polycule but I don't want to make things unnecessarily complicated or affect the friendship I have with these bitcheswhat the fuck am I supposed to do, I like flirting with all of them but I'm only romantically interested in one of them. I'm afraid of causing jealousy or confusion or making any of them feel like there's favoritism going on, how the fuck do polycules even FUCKING WORK
>>44909064>polyculeAll I needed to read. Run for your life. Polycules are always drama. Find someone who actually wants to have a relationship with you.
>>44909066I've known two of them since highschool, I'm 32. I trust them deeply
>>44909011Idk... I like attention and girls I guess
>>44909081can you share some with us
>>44909113Charlotte is cute and will travel to meet us. What can you offer instead?
>>44909151what do you have to offer me?
I'm p ugly... You're mixing me up with a different Charlotte...
>>44909215no ur pretty charlotte dont let the brainworms tell u otherwise
>>44909386Thanks... I hope I meet a rl girl who agrees
>>44909159Nothing but all of myself
>>44909215Weren't you a model?
>>44909660Nuh uh my sister though
>>44909663I'm the ugly duckling of the family... Ugly and a tranny and fat
>>44909674I bet you're pretty
>>44910170I'm a weird perverted twinkhon creature.Everyone I meet irl says I look better than my photos admittedly...
>>44910287Hot...
>>44909663>>44909674You are a model to me
>>44910504>>44910354T-Thanks but this feels like a silly prank
>>44910580It's the truth
>>44910580>>44910690She has brain worms, only true love's kids can save her now
>>44911257Love's kids??
>>44911257>>44910690I'm literally a chubby twinkhon it isn't brainworms! You girls got dared to jokingly be nice to me>>44911291I don't like kids :( I think pedos shud die
>>44911378>chubby twinkhonHOT
>>44911415x_x I don't wanna be fetishised I wanna be loved!
>>44911442You're the one focusing on your appearance, not me!
>>44911442I agree you deserve better
>>44912076Oh... Thanks nona...>>44911465I don't want people to get the wrong impression and get disappointed if I ever met them
would you date someone of a different religion from you?
>>44913264Yeah once she wasn't like crazy.All kinds of girls can be cute!
>>44913264Yes and I don't really see it as much of an issue
Are you religious lesgen?
I'm catholic but I'm not really religious... I like the theatre of it but the demands and no gay marriage don't do it for me
>>44914029Catholic is one of the most attractive
would anyone date a girl that loves wrestling and bodybuilding but is older so it's hard for her to pursue her hobby plus she's bad at it anyway?>>44913932I would be if Jesus didn't hate gays
>>44913932I barely ever go but i follow a strange sort of woke euro protestant sect with like 5k people. Its pretty nice to show up to church when i feel like shit and have nobody gaf about the tranny in the room.On another topic: i feel very deeply i should've been a weird cis lesbian chaser but instead i have to earn infinite money to get surgeries so i can maybe pass, go stealth, and live like a cisbian chaser anyways :(
>>44913264So long as she only used it as a cultural ritual, which has proven psychological benefits, and wasn't a true believer. I don't think I could deal with someone with a morality based on faith and fear rather than on a personal ethical framework.
Goodnight lesgen
>>44914029Catholic seems to be one of the most sane >>44914242I don't think he does, don't listen to westbozos>>44914367A sect with only 5k people sounds like a small cult but as long as it's fun>>44914925What's a cultural ritual to you?
>>44916761 #> What's a cultural ritual to you?Attending church, celebrating Christmas, matmitzva, solstice festival, praying, whatever. Those are all social rituals. You don't have to actually believe to pray, I did it for years as a child. Nowadays I prefer tea and burning nice smelling incense and candles.It's a placebo, sure, but the funny thing about placebos is that knowing something is a placebo doesn't necessarily stop it from having a positive psychological impact.> A sect with only 5k people sounds like a small cult but as long as it's fun.NTA, but is a small cult actually any better or worse than a large international cult? The only difference between a cult and a religion is what society recognizes as a religion, there is no consistent well defined way to differentiate a religion from a cult.
I don't know why so many of you are religious
>>44917475Being a good catholic girl is cute
>>44917486How? Post pictures that don't make it look like a goon thing
>>44917543It's not the physical aesthetic it's the soul
>>44917640The soul that needs confession
Hello cozy lesgen I would like one wife please
>>44917475I'm not religious
>>44917944Tfw no gf to confess to
why are there two /lesgen/ threads briefly pls?
>>44918270There have been for 4 months, different threads
>>44918045What kind do you want?>>44918107Why not confess here to your future gf?
>>44918393>future gfSorry... I'm not strong enough to be the person my future gf needs
>>44918558Your job is to melt in her arms, not to save her. Unless you want a gf that needs you to save her. I need a gf to save me from physically and mentally imploding
>>44918635I don't wanna do any saving desu that sounds stressful.My life's fairly put together but I'm not cool r attractive enough to date anyone yet so I'd rather pine aimlessly online
>>44918654Understandable. How will you become more cool and attractive do you think? Music and art seem like the only ways if you're not blessed with hotness
Hello I m 26 I autistic and wood love two meet and chat two knew people!
>>44918923You can buy hotness I just need to move out so I can sort this whole ffs thing out...But yeah hobbymaxxing basically.
>>44918968Which hobbies? Buying hotness seems like it goes wrong a lot
>>44919714It'll work out for me, once I find someone to rent with me and move out.I feel like I talk about my hobbies in every thread... I like film photography for creativity and stuff but most days I just play games, occasionally watch movies if I'm interested in one. Oh I'm a little autistic about mushrooms.too so autumn is funGenerally though I'm very much a normie so I do normie stuff like have vinyl records, go to museums and hang out with friends...
What do you do to signal how lesbo you are? Like what do I wear?
I need a real hobby
>>44921366What fake hobby do your have?>>44920682Lesbian t-shirt with lesbian flag necklace and lesbian tattoos, also make sure to set a lesbian background and use a lesbian phone case
>>44920157I think you can meet people by doing photography, why not try that at conventions?
>>44921520I used to exercise and bodybuild but got too old now I just yearn post hoping it'll heal me
>>44922012You can get back into that, old people with ripped bodies are hot
>>44921805Conventions? Idk... Maybe But I usually take photographs of landscapes and stuff, not people...
>>44922714You can't date landscapes thoughbeit
>>44916761>>44916854We date back to the reformation we just kinda fell off in numbers bc we were very early (80s) on codifying things like gay marriage and women as church authorities as a good thing. Otherwise we're a very standard western-euro theologically liberal denomination.>>44917475Started going as cope for being an alcoholic but then stopped being an alcoholic and kept going.
>>44923145AA got another one, but at least you found something to make your life interesting
>>44923052I promised myself I wouldn't date again until I passed and stuff so, maybe I need to suppress that desire for love anyways and just enjoy my landscapes.
>>44923421Doesn't that only work if you're actively trying to pass? Otherwise you're just secluding yourself for not real reason
>>44902804Is this the lesbian general for discussing sapphic issues?I want to talk more to other women offline and be approachable to other lesbians. But I don't want to make things awkward because I'm stocky and unattractive in this age of lipstick lesbians. What are some easy and normal ways to let people know I'm lesbian?
Good night or morning cozy lesgen
What if you would date landscapes though? Or what if you met a gf painting a landscape?
>>44926072Good morning nona, what's going on today besides yearning and pining?
Speaking of hobbies to meet people, music is probably the best one, especially if you can get in a band. Art is okay but you do it alone too much. Besides that it's probably language learning because you actually get to talk to more people and always have an excuse to practice while flirting or doing small talk.That's just my experience. Some hobbies that have cons are only really good if you can either meet new people through an organized event at the con or if you go with friends and meet their extended friend group otherwise it can be quiet isolating.That's just my experience though, but I don't know if hobbies really count that much for dating chances.
>>44923421How long ago was that?
>>44925078Yeah :)>>44926969Idk close to 3 years ago
>>44927070Maybe it's time you got back to dating or you won't remember how to
I've noticed trips on this board either don't date, date eachother for better or worse, or have the most toxic desperate relationship nobody else wants. Paradoxically the dateless are the most well adjusted and desirable people here.
>>44927278I've already forgotten that's sort of my problem...While I've dated before I've never had a like 2 working adults with real responsibilities relationship just like student and then recent graduate romance I guess? Idk how to balance my job and my dogs and my hobbies and then the love I want.Maybe I'm overthinking it?
>>44927582That's the same there is no real difference. People try to psyop you that it's different but it's not. Yes it's also different if you date someone in one job or another job. That's about it. If you can't support a spouse or partner going back to school then you're mentally immature. That's the truth here.
I wish I could be a normal bisbian instead of being a troon without any chances at passing :c
>>44927582Is girls band cry transcoded?
>>44928160A little, yeah. Most anime is at least a little.>>44927857You're right yeah but going back to school is p different to like being 21 or something, things are less serious at that age. I'm an old hag now.
>>44928197What's the chance of someone being a repper if they post characters from this anime?
>>44928216if its a "guy" then it would be smth ~70%
How do I get an art joe gf
>>44927572>>44927582Charlotte is high quality potential gf. She's serious enough about dating that she won't just jump into it without making sure it's right.>>44928197Adult students are more serious anyway >>44929150Don't you mean art hoe?
>>44930382Do I know you? You keep saying nice things and I think you're either ai or trying to bully me ...
>>44926620I wish I had a friend to practice JP withI only practice with my classmates, and I don't really vibe with them all that much...Getting in a band would be ideal, but I feel too old, and it feels too scary, I don't have experience playing with others...
>>44930417I'm only bullying you a little, but you're a nice lady, and a damn sight better than a lot of other people in my eyes.>>44930721Most people use italki now anyway
>>44930834Why?
>>44930834I'd rather not go into another classroom setting, even if it's one-on-oneI much rather find someone who's learning at around my skill level, to chat with in JP, pointing out mistakes and learning together as we goBut I don't know where to look
I like nerdy hobbies
>>44932923Elaborate...
>>44932964I don't know I just want to do nerdy hobbies with someone then have sex
>>44930721>>44931047Aren't you already in a class? Or am I misunderstanding the conversation?But you won't make friends or date anyone in a class like that, it's too short and hyper focused
>>44933187Yeah that's a good idea.Hope you can meet someone.
>>44933222I'm not even asking for anything complicated just something closeby
I like physical hobbies but I'm extremely bad at them is this attractive
>>44933214I'm already in a class, yeah, that's why italki doesn't sound like a good idea to meI just want to meet someone online I can add to discord or something, and chat through there in Japanese, regardless of whether they're native or notJust to have a buddy to have daily chats with to practice the languageI used to have someone like that but we had a falling out for unrelated reasons
>>44933793It's quite attractive if you keep trying even if you're not the best. Like you either don't let it stop you since you're not competing to be the best, or you don't let setbacks get in the way. I like both qualities there and would make me feel hopeful for a stable long-term relationship
>>44933921You can probably find a few people here, some are actually active in it, most are just talk not in the good way
>>44933938I've been doing it forever and got back into it.... I've never had a relationship
>>44933949Having a relationship isn't that important for your future relationships though. I would rather date someone loyal than someone disloyal that has never been single more than a week since they were a teenager
>>44933962I'm very loyal but I'm weird on stuff I've never cheated or anything
>>44933970Then that's all that matters, who cares if you have weird interests
is it a red flag if the girl i like has an asuka profile pic on steam and on discord
>>44934630No I don't see why it would be worse than no any other pic. Some of the worst people have normie pics.
Good morning, hope today is less sleepy
>>44909064There is always favoritism and jealousy going on which is inherently part of the polycule experience. Everytime they say it's more ethical or some shit it's just hiding and excusing the problems. If you have four adults each contributing to a shared life then you're extraordinarily wealthy or successful or some way. That's never the case so it's always imbalanced and involves coercion and convenience. Not live or good ethic, just hedonism and selfishness. If you don't make a move on the girl you like then guaranteed the polycule will fall apart and she will find someone to date. If you brush her off now you're just deselecting yourself from her point of view.
>>44935104Goodmorning one new gf if you please
I broke up with my gf last week and need a new one
G'day cozylesgen. How are you celebrating the 4channiversary?
>>44902804classes have been so draining lately that I don't even have time for hobbies let alone relationships
The hats are cute
>>44902804i loooooove bratty femmes
>>44927572High quality people can be and often are more choosy/selective.
>>44936812What is a bratty femme to you?
>>44936891That's pretty obvious but you always hear people talking about dating like it's a sign of good quality. It's often the other way around if you don't count genuinely undesirable people, which are really a minority
I'm not desirable or high quality but I'm selective (I don't wanna date an abusive or very mentally ill girl and I couldnt date a neet who needs 24 hour babysitting.)
>>44939459Why would you say that? I think compared to other trips you're 90th percentile but that might not say much
>>44939693Maybe my personality is tolerable but my looks r bad, I look very strange because long time on hrt combined w male bones.
>>44939730Personality is better than looks
>>44940235Idk if people actually believe that, looks matter too I want someone who finds me attractive not just tolerable
>>44940286Most people dating on this board are ugly
>>44935817>>44939730>>44940389Where do you find gfs?
>>44941055No idea. I have given up on finding love, I'm ugly and I don't live anywhere near women who love twinkhons
Need someone to pretend to be my gf
>>44941108Okay only for a min though bc I'm sleepy
>>44941108Why pretend? We can do it for real if you live close and have low standards
>>44941071I have no idea what you look like Charlotte babe
>>44941160I haven't posted pics here since like 2019 but it goes around sometimes... Idk I look weird. I wish I had a gf so I was forced to dress better though
>>44941174Like a gf that picks your clothes? I don't know where you will find one that doesn't just let you do your thing
>>44941219No not like that... Just idk motivating in a way that's not forced or stressful or anything.
>>44941146Where do you live at? I promise I'm probably worse>>44941114It'll be the greatest minute of my life
>>44941174lol
>>44941375I wouldn't want to let internet people know, which might be why I'm still single. The most cautious lesbian award goes to me
>>44941234Motivation has to come from yourself though. A girlfriend is not a therapist or a coach, and she probably can't motivate you anyway which makes it unfair to blame her
