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It's not unethical or immoral for a 30 year old trans women to date 20 year old young men. Prove me wrong.

Firstly, he is old enough to consent. Secondly, when he tells his friends they will be giving each other high fives and saying "dude score." Third, it equalizes the gender imbalance in the world and deconstructs gender roles because he can be my sugar baby. It challenges toxic heteronormative institutions. Fourth, I could be his mentor in life and help him with school and his career and guide him. Fifth, if he dated a woman his own age, it is likely they would emotionally hurt each other because both of their prefrontal cortexes aren't developed yet. I could give him a positive, healthy, emotionally mature relationship and give him a good experience so he isn't jaded by relationships. Sixth, being a cougar is always the meta when the economy sucks. He may feel neglected by women his own age because he doesn't have enough income yet. I can help give him high self esteem and help him become good at sex and exploring a woman's body.

Overall, I proved to you objectively that is is both ethical and moral to date younger men as a trans women. I ask that you accept logic and give me your blessing. In my opinion, I am a good person and extremely kind for dating younger men.
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As long as you’re not just running through every 20 year old in the city it’s chill.. go ahead and turn that boy into a MAN!1!
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>>44936871
this is fine yeah
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>>44936894
Why can't I run through every 20 year old in the city? They should be in my mommy-son harem.
>>44936942
Everyone please introduce your 20 year old little brother to me.
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>>44936871
Trannies are like basically retarded, so a 30 yo tranny is mentally going to be like 18. 18 dating 20 seems pretty normal for a relationship.
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>>44937207
Exactly. 20 year old boys are born to be with me.

I'm glad you agree I should be allowed to date 19 year old boys.

So if you have a brother, cousin, nephew, who is 18 years old, feel free to introduce him to me.
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>>44936871
Because you're a 30 year old bum?
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>>44937245
I'm not a bum!
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>>44937249
You browse 4chan on the 4t board. It is unethical not by the age gap, but because it would condemn the poor lad to bumhood by sheer association with you, unc.
Also the fact trooning out is kind of an unc thing nowadays.
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>>44937264
I'm much more of a normie than most 4channers and I don't always use this board. I also transitioned for basically half my entire life. I'm hot so it's okay. People will always let me get away with doing whatever I want. I'm allowed to be selfish, the people of society are cheering me on to date young men.
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>>44936871
didn't read, you can.
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>>44937295
mmmmmmm young men yummy... all for me
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>>44936871
trannies should date boys as low as the law allows them to
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>>44937331
hell yeah sister
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>>44937291
Unc, you realize the side you're on is the
>24 year olds dating 18 year olds is pedophilia
Right? The purity spiral will eat you up for the smallest mistake. So do heed my words, geezer.
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>>44936871
There's absolutely nothing wrong with it
I'm a guy in his 30s dating 20 year old trannies and they all love me for it
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>>44936871
I tried something like this. I was 21 she was 27. I got freaked out about it all and ended it after a few weeks. Do not recommend.
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>>44937394
>adult woman dating grown adult man who can consent
>pedophilia
sure bud
>24 year olds dating 18 year olds is pedophilia
That only applies to men, basically everyone would let me get away with it.
>>44937407
That's hot. I am more mature than her, let mommy protect you.
>>44937403
They don't understand the things I say on twitter
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>>44937424
I'm 28 now and more comfortable with it, am I too old?
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>>44937424
I'm saying your fellow minorites will witch hunt you for that.
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>>44937445
we are like the same age but it's still hot because you're younger than me I would protect you and make you feel safe
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>>44937458
Thank goodness! Are you near Seattle?
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>>44937424
>They don't understand the things I say on twitter
They don't understand anything yet, that's why it's so good to date them
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>>44937453
No they won't lol. Not a single person here cared except you mini unc. It's 2026 there's nothing wrong with cougarmaxxing. Get with the times.
>you're a pedophile!
Not a single person on the planet would apply any pressure to stop me from dating a 20 year old man. Even a transphobe would not care. No matter how gay or progressive they are, they won't care. no matter what they believe, they won't care. I could just say it's normal in queer spaces for trans women to date younger men because they're emotionally stunted. gaslight them lmao.

Progressives are not principled, they are mostly selfish.
>>44937465
I live in a rich area in LA
>>44937479
I'm okay with this, when I was a teen I was curious about older men as well and fantasized about it. I was looking at craigslist and feeling horny. but it was all in my fantasies. Wish I had the opportunity to date a man a lot older than me. If I was 20 again I wouldn't mind dating a 40 year old man.

They don't understand the things I say on twitter
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>>44937518
would you consider a 21 y/o on the opposite coast
id visit LA for you, maybe
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>>44937667
Back off I was here first
>>44937518
I'll pay for your weekend flights up if that's something you're into.
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>be 33
>last gf was 21
>The one before was 22
It's not like i pick people based on their age but i did feel a bit weird about it
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>>44937866
Why do you have money? Men are poor. This is a matriarchal society and we women are the ones with jobs in this economy. I'm joking but I think the median wages of women might currently be higher than men in 2026 based on what I read on finance xitter.

I can pay for your weekend flights to LA. But don't be surprised if you are not allowed to leave. You should accept being a love slave.
>>44937667
Maybe? You need to be more ambitious to get what you want in life.
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>>44937910
well yea maybe
im in uni and dont have bread for flying
but i see that wouldnt be a problem now
i thought cougars were the one that chased tho, unfortunate
>>44937866
hag
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>>44937959
women like affection haha. you can't act nonchalant when in my youth I had many simps and I'm used to certain things. but yeah most women who date younger guys are rich career women. money wouldn't be an issue. Poor women never go for young studs because they'd both be broke together.
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>>44937910
I'm in the Coast Guard so I can't travel that far without putting in vacation unfortunately. I have money because I'm very frugal and have been waiting for the right woman to take care of me once I leave Uncle Sam's service. You're not wrong about the medians. I'll be your LA love slave when my contract ends in 3 years <3
>IDK if this is a larp or not but it's very fun
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>>44937959
It'll happen to you!
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>>44937988
nta im this anon >>44937331 i used to be in the space force lol
i think joining the military is retarded but im a retard
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>>44938010
What was that like? Coast Guard is pretty stupid at times but it beats corporate management somehow. I get to drive boats and work outdoors and my mission at least pretends to try to benefit the public. I'm planning to go travel with my savings (hopefully with Mrs Right) the year I get out and then start grad school with the GI bill.
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>>44936871
This is a good post. I support you.

t. old man whose first relationship many years ago was with an older trans girl
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>>44938026
air conditioned scif
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>>44937998
it’s crazy that a lot of ppl in this thread are military
im getting commissioned rn
ig the military is that gay
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>>44938033
that's hot
>>44937988
cute. yes, this is fun.
>>44938010
>>44938026
Idk I think the military is cool and we should respect military officers. They are protecting and serving the country. I think I actually dated a guy who was also a coast guard but I am going to be honest, I don't remember what he actually did. I think he got deployed during a natural disaster.

Nvm I just googled it I think he was national guard.

I'm progressive but I lowkey have conservative pickme habits and I'm nice to men. Men need me to save them.

> start grad school with the GI bill
What are you studying? I already have a MS and I might try to get a PhD later on if I retire early enough.
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>>44938057
Cool :)
>>44938069
Yeahh I used to work with a retired Marine E9 and he told me that it attracts the biggest group of weirdos/rejects and that's why he loved it so much
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>>44938083
Being nice is important. I'm friends with lots of progressives and right wingers just because I'm respectful. Myers Briggs calls me "the Diplomat". I lost my chud card for good when I cried watching Nolan's Odyssey lmao. I have a bachelor's in environmental management, but since I graduated in 2020, I had to go into corporate warehouse work, hence the eventual pivot to coast guard. My plan is to go back for a master's in accounting. Lame on paper I know but it'll always give me steady work and the real reason I like it is it's the only available seasonal white collar work I can find. Perfect for someone like me who hates the never ending grind. The military honestly is good for that too. I've only been in 1 year I'm about to go to my 4th permanent location thanks to all the training they've been giving me. What's your MS in?
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>>44938086
oh wow once a friend from a discord server said they met someone from the same platoon on 4chan from when they were working together years ago. one ended up a tranny and one transitioned.

Another trans woman made the joke "so did you clock each other as faggots"

Is the military that gay?

I may be using the wrong military terminology but I think being military and even police is pretty cool. being an officer is cool. having a position is cool. Military guys are also more masculine.

To be frank with you the military guy I dated, I lied about being a cis woman when I was younger because I was insecure about being a trans woman. That is why people should try their best to avoid online relationships, they could lie. Back in those days, when I was younger, trans people were not really visible. Didn't really think I had community to share my feelings with, it was still quite fringe. At that time, I prayed to god every day I could wake up in the morning as a cis woman. I resented being trans and wanted to just be loved as a woman so I lied.
>>44938148
MS in finance. accounting is a good major. if anything it is the only good major during this economy. accounting, nursing... and not really anything else? it shows me you are smart and responsible. I have no idea what environmental management is but I can infer you learned a lesson from studying that and maybe not doing the career path you intended to. The pivot to accounting makes sense, it's just responsible. No delusions or thinking the world would save you, just pragmatism.

I am INTJ, I like Myers Briggs a lot. If we were in a relationship, I feel like I'd be more of a dominant tiger mom that stabilizes order in the household and you'd be like the chill dad that just tells the kids to listen to me.
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>>44938234
I have to get back to work this afternoon, training on the boats, but I'd love to keep chatting! How may I reach you?
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>>44938148
also part of my desire to date young men is I enjoy mentorship
my opinion of the good majors

accounting - just solid, you can't fuck it up. do internships during grad school, the best way to get your ROI is the networking opportunities. pivot to finance or consulting and make a lot of money. if you work for big 4, you will always be rich no matter what happens in the world. this job market is tighter than the past but this is the only field actively hiring.
finance - same thing but go to a good school or you're a neutered accountant that will work at a small mom & pop company
computer science - go to a good school, the golden era is over and this job market is rough at entry level. but you'll make a lot of money if you keep upskilling and job hopping. it's just rough and you are easy to lay off.
conventional engineering majors - I don't know why they're struggling to get jobs but this is still a good career path, it will just take more work to land your first job
premed - nightmare difficulty if you are white/asian, if you don't get into med school or residency you just wasted a lot of time and money
prelaw - if you don't get into a top school you just wasted a lot of time and money
sysadmin/cybersecurity - this used to be good, but the job market is tighter. it's not a bad career path at all.

any humanities - complete shit unless you have connections or went to an elite school. don't mess with this if your school is not top 20 US news ranking.

your biggest threat isn't AI but H1B.
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>>44938280
oh shit this is getting serious what do I do

are you a white guy, asian guy, brown guy, or black guy?

I am asian and I'm insecure you prefer white women over me so I usually go for asian guys or white guys with yellow fever
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>>44938394
I am a red headed white guy. I have had great dates (and more) with Asian women before but never a long term relationship.
>>44938325
Thank you for the long form reply :) I love being mentored
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im 24 it feels like a really weird thing where anyone id like might get some sneers but i wouldnt be called a total hag
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>>44938486
forgot to add being with like 30 yr olds is also not a big gap exactly. im equally close to 18 and 30 now
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>>44938453

oh wow lol would you be prepared to date an asian woman? they are ultra conservative, fascist, and hyper elitist. they would try to teach your children calculus at 5 years old if they could.

the culture shock might be a lot for you.

white men and asian women get along well enough, they're somewhat compatible cultures that share values. but the culture shock is jarring because asians are kinda schizo. also asian women aren't submissive at all outside of sex. you might feel like you're being managed by a boss.

also I'm working so I may reply slower.
>>44938486
actually you're at a good age because you're young, you can get anyone, you gotta put yourself out there and date some guys. I miss being 24 because I want to have 10,0000 boyfriends.

I wouldn't think of you as a hag, you're at an age where you just got out of college. like the entire planet would call you young except gen alpha tiktok kids. I think you're psyching yourself out.

if you work on your career, want marriage and kids, you won't ever feel old because your stage of life will match your age.

everyone gets older, you make peace with it
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>>44938057
Is there any way for trans to join at all I have a masters in computer science so I think they might want me is it possible to become an officer?
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>>44938766
>you're at an age where you just got out of college
kinda never went :<
is 25 about as good an age im scared of getting much older
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>>44938807
i went in at 19 with no degree. just also a 91 asvab. idk about prospects as an officer but a degree is a good start for that
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>>44938766
That sounds very exciting lol. I love some culture shock. I am well traveled and enjoy the process of getting to know someone different from me and learning about the world from their perspective. Do all of these qualities you've listed describe you?

Surprisingly the training today has been very chill which is why I'm able to continue responding. I hope I'm not too distracting.

Throwing it out there I'm still interested in talking more off 4chan ~

>>44938807
>>44938825
Trans can't join under the Trump admin so you'll have to wait for a Dem to get in or repress.
>T. 99 asvab enlisted
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>>44938809
I think you should enjoy your youth, date men, have sex with men. Go back to school and work on your career. Then have more sex with men. When you have a big girl job, time to get married and settle down.

>im scared of getting much older
It gets better when you have money.
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>>44938882
Sound advice, sometimes I wish I had fucked more in my early 20s, but some sti scares really kept me from that route, and I don't have any regrets knowing it all led me to where I am today.
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>>44936871
>cougar trans woman
doujins aren't real life
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>>44938880
>I hope I'm not too distracting.
Hm, interesting - you have good manners. I can tell you're either a good person or a high social intelligence sociopath like me. But probably a good person. You probably came from a very good family, or you needed social skills for survival. I think most 4channers are rude and act low class. You're a thoughtful person.

I assumed it would be rare with chasers but some of the men I've met here are actually quite chadly or at least normal. Maybe chasers are better people than people give them credit for.

I can also tell you are very white, dating a tranny is peak white man behavior, you're probably a nice person. Do you have a savior complex? I noticed a lot of chasers identify with trans women because the women are broken.

>Throwing it out there I'm still interested in talking more off 4chan ~
Hmmm I'm thinking about it I just didn't plan to get a guy from here today and don't know if I want a bf rn. Let me explain why I am wary to add men from 4chan. I am mistrustful of human nature and intelligent. I believe in Murphy's law - if it can go wrong, it will go wrong. No one can really fool me because I am too smart.

I add a guy from here, he tells me he is straight. I do some digging around, cyberstalking, finds out he is bisexual and would be willing to have sex with a femboy. Wasted a lot of time and emotional energy. I don't even think it'd bother me that much but he lied.

Another time, a guy drops his discord. I say I'll think about it. Promise I'll add him later. I'll write down his discord name. He promised me he isn't a tranny or repper. I dig around, do some cyberstalking, figure out he is a repper tranny. He (or she) lied blatantly.

So yeah, I'm wary to add men from 4chan. There is a lot you can hide in online relationships.
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>>44939215
idk dude I get more attention from men than I deserve for being an old tranny. being a tranny is a good life.
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I see lots of transwomen date younger. I think because of their male sexuality
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>>44939275
Liberal myth.
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>>44936871
Power imbalance. If there is none then perceived power imbalance. I dont make the rules, you cant control what others think.
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>>44939356
power imbalance is hot
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>>44939275
You sound like my childhood best friend who transitioned. She always talks about how much she loves the attention from men. Very different from the typical online perspective I read.

>>44939268
I took an ancestry test and was as white as it gets lmao. Thank you for the sweet compliments. Growing up between two broken homes is probably what gave me the ability to move smoothly and without conflict between different groups. I don't think I have a savior complex. I've never really wanted to save or be saved, rather integrate our lives for a sum greater than its parts, but so far no dice.

I understand your hesitancy. I faced this recently with a trans woman who revealed more and more unsavory details about herself as we got to know each other through lies of omission and it eventually ended in her accusing me of lying before we even managed to go on a date. Is what it is.

I will be as upfront as I can be with any difficult questions regarding sexuality or other topics. Best to sus out if I have any deal breakers for you so that we don't waste anyone's time.

You will have a difficult time cyber stalking me. The only results for my full name on Google are black men lol, since I scrubbed my social media over the last year, as I am not a fan of what those sites and algorithms did to me (wasted lots of my youth doom scrolling)

>>44939304
Older women imo know how to date better and a man who is open to dating trans women will typically already be open minded enough to date someone older.
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>>44939615
>she loves the attention from men
I've been a tranny for so long, pretty much half my entire life, but the male validation never gets old. Sometimes it can get creepy but I have a high tolerance for it and can keep myself safe. When I was younger I enjoyed wearing slutty clothes and getting hit on. However, men are genuinely scary and unsafe, I've had some unsavory incidents. I could have gotten kidnapped if I was not vigilant and savvy.

>two broken homes is probably what gave me the ability to move smoothly and without conflict
You are like me then. You had to have good social skills for survival, is my impression.
>I've never really wanted to save or be saved
I think I have a savior complex. I'm like a wounded healer. I can be a very calm presence for good people who are kindred souls but I also have a massive bitch side.
>revealed more and more unsavory details about herself as we got to know each other through lies of omission and it eventually ended in her accusing me of lying
Sorry that happened to you. Trannies are more crazy than average for various reasons. I would say they're a product of their environment, though. Society mistreats them. My perspective is if you treat someone like a cornered animal, how do you expect them to act? Not relating it to you of course but broader society.

I also did lies of omission when I was younger, because I said I was a cis woman. Getting caught being a tranny was my greatest fear but it never happened. I was fortunate that my voice was really passing and I'm asian.
>Older women imo know how to date better
Yeah, I think a trans woman is more likely to be ethical when dating younger partners. They are more likely to be cognizant of the power imbalance and be able to work through it with communication.

>>44939364
>>44939356
true 20 year old men should just be my slaves. she can't keep getting away with it
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>>44940250
I could have used your massive bitch side a few years ago. I started dating a woman I met off of hinge. A week in I took her to one of my favorite hiking spots. She held me in her arms as we watched the sunset and as I deeply exhaled she asked if I'd been hurt and I said yes. (Long story short bitch of ex gf gave me commitment issues). When I drop her off that night she cries and says I'm so sweet to her as we kiss goodnight. Weeks pass. As I'm about to pick her up for our 8th date she calls me and says she got a call from her exbf and is getting back with him. Bye. Okay. Two days later she calls me begging for a second chance. I make her go to therapy, two weeks of pain elapse, she gets diagnosed bipolar, never heard from again. Yeah whatever commitment issues were there got super charged from that. I went to therapy for it earlier this year so I like to think I'm healed but who knows lol. That comment of yours just brought that to my memory.
>Society mistreats them
I can see it. She had some pretty odd things that I overlooked (she hung up on me once, lied that the call dropped, then sent me a long text about how she actually just needs space). Before our date I fell deathly ill and she said she really didn't want to get sick so I postponed it and then she blocked me, then 8 hours later texted me that if I didn't want to see her I could have just told her. My previously mentioned friend said she was only acting like that because she was hot enough to get away with it and not to take it personally. I blocked back after that, I cannot tolerate pointless combative behavior in the absence of trust. But I don't wish her any ill will for it.

Both women in these stories, one cis, one trans, were about a year difference from me in age. Maybe that's the problem.

>Good social skills for survival
Wow that is a great way to put it I am stealing that thank you <3
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>>44940599
Actually, I am similar to you. I consider myself an unusually well rounded person but I've been burned in my past by crazies because I did not spot red flags. It's because we both came from a rougher background and are too understanding towards fools. No matter how perfect I am, the average person is retarded. Almost everyone in the planet is retarded. I don't know if you can relate to that, but it feels like I am the only sane person on the planet, sometimes. Everyone is extremely unreliable and completely at the whim of their erratic emotions. I think you failed to spot red flags or vet her properly.

Even successful guys have emotional issues I don't want to deal with.

I'm an unusual tranny because I don't really have many insecurities and I would argue I am the most stable person on the planet. The other person is always going to be the erratic one.

But, admittedly, I was crazy af when I was younger. I had to put in the work because I came from a fucked up environment. I always feel like I have agency over my situation because I perceive myself to be extremely intelligent. Being competent is part of my identity.

My sincere belief is that 99% of people don't benefit that much from therapy because they are not capable of deep introspection or holding themselves accountable. They are just weak and choose to stay weak. The therapist tends to enable or coddle you, unless you are self aware. Almost no one is really self aware.

You're getting to know me more and so that's why I warned you my personality can be a turn off because asian women are very elitist. It's truly a culture shock for white guys.

All of those things you mentioned, I would never do because I have strong sociopathic tendencies. I always believe I have control over my situation and I can accomplish anything I want to do. I am just calm. Romance doesn't make me nervous and I'm not really needy. It's kind of a superpower in the corpo world.
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>>44941269
I've always been a believer in second chances but what these stories showed me upon reflection is that in love you really shouldn't give second chances so soon. I saw the red flags and ignored them. Ah well. At least the dating process in these cases only wasted weeks of time, and not months of even worse years.

My last therapist I only spoke with for about a month. The previous one, 7 years ago, I spoke too for two. I think therapy should be in an and out type deal. Get in, figure out what's happening, get out. Even then despite that this recent therapist was extremely coddling, very wishy washy, the initial diagnosis being confirmed was very helpful for me as was a reassurance that I am in control of my actions, but beyond that, she could not offer me much more. Idk how people can talk to a therapist week after week for years straight. I'd go insane.

I enjoy elitists as long as they are open and honest with me. It's very special to be a part of someone's inner world when they are so high functioning and keep their cards close to their chest out in the world. I'm honestly getting flustered just thinking about it. I was thinking if I was to get back on dating apps "accomplished", "capable", and "intelligent" would be qualities I'd specify I was looking for.

I'm also very curious and would love to know more about how you "put in the work" to transform yourself from crazy to calm.
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>>44941366
>believer in second chances
I don't. Most people don't have agency, most people don't have the propensity to change. They are largely monkeys that react to stimuli like bugmen and have poor impulse control. I try not to be misanthropic, I love humanity but I should carefully keep my distance from fools. I can believe in humanism but not think highly of the median human.

I also sought therapy but I was very hard on myself and that worked best for me. I accepted abject reality as it is, looked myself in the mirror and admitted I was a piece of shit. Then I chose to ascend past my personal weakness and stop being a crazy insecure bpd bitch.

I am very skeptical of therapy despite being a success story. Actually, the reality is therapy can only be as good as the patient. The patient does 100% of the work. It is like a computer with a powerful graphics card, but it can get bottlenecked by a weak CPU. The stupid human is the weak CPU. But the graphics card (therapist) is also very likely to be stupid. The profession does nothing to vet for IQ or even being a compassionate person. It sounds cruel but they really get retards off the streets to be therapists.

You need to be kind of rich and shop around for good therapists.

A therapist cannot save you. They largely do nothing except active listening. It works if you are intelligent, self aware, and hold yourself accountable. It is a dud if both the therapist and patient are stupid. They are both very likely to be stupid.

>extremely coddling, very wishy washy
Most are like this. I don't specifically dislike therapists, I just think most people are incredibly dumb. People underestimate how important IQ is for pretty much every aspect of life. I believe strongly in genetic determinism. You have sentience, I should impose moral agency on you, but your entire life is defined by genes and external environment. Nature and nurture.
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>>44936871
What do 20 and 30 year olds even have in common
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>>44941553
I am the most interesting person alive and any young man would be intrigued by me

but mostly sex yeah
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>>44941575
So what do y'all have in common?
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>>44941580
being attracted to each other and enjoying the sex but you don't really need to have things in common, guys just find me interesting. everything I say is interesting and I deserve attention just for being me.
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>>44941543
>The patient does 100% of the work
Truer words have never been spoken. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink. The Sopranos and the Backrooms come to mind as good pieces of media that explore the pitfalls of therapy.

Proud of you for your ascension btw. You gave yourself a second chance at life in a way. I like to think I'm doing that. I'm not really sure sometimes. I feel in control of my fate in a way I didn't when I was 21. That's progress at least.

I'm also an IQ believer. I am lucky enough to have one in the 130s. I'm smarter than 99% of my coworkers. I've dated people in the 150s and they talk in circles around me. I feel so incredibly stupid day by day and I find it so hard to believe that on paper and in practice I'm one of the smartest people walking around. I like to joke around and call myself the smartest idiot or dumbest smart person you'll ever meet. Sometimes people I meet genuinely can't tell if I'm smart or stupid. I chalk that up to just having Internet brain. One time my brother, smart in his own right, exploded at me for never committing to any opinion or taking any side in an argument. That was years ago and I still give him shit for that loss of composure hah.

I feel I'm rambling a bit, please forgive me, I'm tired and it's been a long day. Got a bit too much sun and my cheeks are pink and freckled.

>>44941553
Liking sex and cuddling and companionship duh

>>44941575
>>44941597
Women with confidence ughh <3
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>>44941645
Calling yourself an idiot once in a while is an indicator of intelligence, I'd say. Intelligent people have imposter syndrome and it's a sign of being introspective.

"The cleverest of all, in my opinion, is the man who calls himself a fool at least once a month." - Fyodor Dostoevsky

I also do this once in a while in jest when I make a mistake or missed something. I almost never miss anything, I think in extreme abstraction and I'm able to have an insane systems level analysis of things. Considering all the second order effects and externalities, etc. My work is extremely high impact, and making the wrong decision is very consequential.

I can also rapid fire a lot of complex ideas and planning quickly from my brain. Many trannies have autism and ADHD. If you can tame it, it's truly a superpower. The ADHD mind can be weaponized. I think Napoleon Bonaparte, someone I'd consider one of the most accomplished men in history, definitely had both autism and ADHD based on his mannerisms.

Actual stupid people rarely call themselves stupid. They are insecure, have dunning-kruger and think they're smart but they're delusional. Almost everyone has dunning-kruger.

They have too much hubris. Everyone on the planet wants to affirm their own cognitive bias. Every single person. I think about that a lot and that's the most important idea to me. People are rarely good faith, and intellectually honest. No matter how hard they try. It's almost inherently against human nature.

The smart man, woman doubts themselves. I doubt myself. Even down to my language I would say "my impression is" and "I infer that" because I don't like being wrong. The way you talk, the language you use, also defines how you think. I also noticed that everyone projects. I don't. People fear the unknown. I do not fear the unknown. People tend to project wish fulfillment on me because I'm a mysterious, charming, interesting enigma. I also piss off insecure people because I like myself.
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>>44936871
20 year old guys are made only for 20 years old girls. Why would you want a vigorous, raging of testosterone and strong man only for you? That's egoistical.
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>>44941645
Also the way I think is why I'm not really fully a progressive. Educated, high IQ people are rarely leftist or conservative. They would skew to be more libertarian. And not lolbertarian like I want AR-15 guns + no taxes. People see it this way because they parrot misinformation and have a contextual understanding but it's mostly a vague umbrella term that I think could really mean anything.

I'm pretty economic right because I believe the optics of humanism are not actually humanism. Most of american politics is a gay larp.

If you're really paying attention, they're playing games with demagogues and manipulating retards. It's the most effective way to control a heterogenous society. Using contentious antipartisan politics and larping 24/7. I choose not to explain further because I am honestly loyal to maintaining the social cohesion of the United States, I don't care to redpill retarded trannies here.

I would call myself kind of a Jeffersonian republican. The core value of my politics is utilitarianism with respect to moral humanism. Utilitarianism>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>leftism. You could call me moderate Democrat or progressive Republican, but leftism is something I'm deeply against.

I'm just progressive on social issues and only when it makes sense. A lot of people are degenerates and need a bit of fascism. I don't respect people who don't see how fallible human nature is. In anarchy, we all become beasts.

The podcast bro I like the most is Vaush but sometimes he has naive takes. Hasan rubs me the wrong way and I don't like any conservatives, they're low IQ.

The economist I like the most is Thomas Sowell.

I'm pretty conservative, all asians are conservative. I am a capitalist but I see its flaws. It's just that there's no alternative solution.

I could sell anyone on why socialism and communism are retarded but I'd imagine you already think it's retarded.

I believe I could fix the country but it's *purposefully* bad. I refuse to explain.
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>>44942080
because I'm greedy, and I always get what I want

no one woman should have all that powerrrr
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>>44942120
>>44941966
I see what you mean with the rapid fire ideas from this post lol. I tend to skew actual libertarian, not lolbertarian, but truthfully I've decided to step back from taking any stances on politics beyond geopolitical wariness of foreign actors. The Iran war ignited such a propaganda blitz that I saw in real time how spending time on one app could skew my opinion in one direction while time on another skewed it the opposite way. I realized I had no cognitive firewall for the power of algorithms and decided to check out.

I'm surprised you like Vaush. Something about him rubs me the wrong way. It might be the voice, or how his appearance, idk something about him makes me feel extremely uneasy and alerts the "danger" signal in my head that I need to avoid this person. The longest exposure I have had to him was his interview with Jesse Lee Peterson years ago. The only political streamer slop I get in my YouTube feed now is asmongold and really that's just my vicarious access to Twitter at this point. I know it's hypnotic slop. Maybe quitting YouTube is the final step I need to take in my social media exit.

I have to go to sleep now. It was great chatting with you anon <3
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>>44942338
>geopolitical wariness of foreign actors
agreed
>The Iran war ignited such a propaganda blitz
agreed and almost everything is propaganda to me, even independent media is compromised by capitalistic incentives or information warfare. I'm skeptical of everything & all information because I see the failure nodes. almost everything is game theory & incentives to me. I believe if you do not think like an evil man, you are destined to be enslaved by them.

it was great chatting with you as well. good night, and I hope you sleep well. we will probably run into each other again and maybe you will be my boyfriend one day. I am pretty easy to spot. if not, have a nice life!
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>>44942338
also my favorite president is Teddy Roosevelt just wanted to share that with you.



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