>>44938561
ugh ik it’s actually so sad :(

I'm monogamous but I'm also a gigahon manmoder and gigahons must remain giganuns

>>44938561
Trannies are a male sex cult of debauched degenerate men.

>>44938561
I know, right? An ex of mine pitched it, and I shot it down cold. I told him I am a jealous God. Lol. I hope you can find what you're looking for

Just a whole gay male polycule...
swappin' cum and stroking rapesticks and breathing the black mold spores together

>>44938561
if you can't beat em, join em

>>44938561
maybe stop dating faketroons?

>>44938561

Transbianism is a totally failed ideology full of autists.

Women are supposed to be with men. It's the natural order. 99 of 100 women literally cannot be in an LTR with another woman.

Because we're jealous catty bitches

>>44938737
The fact that you see it as an ideology says everything we need to know about your own sexuality, lol

>>44938561
It's a fad, it became trendy to be poly and in theory it sounds nice having several people loving you, maybe like 1-3% of polys will last the next 1-2 years but they will never accept that polyamory is actually not very desirable at all and that for 99% of people it's a stupid idea to do it and they were wrong for going out of their way to jump in the bandwagon. But I do believe it will die down within the next couple years and things will return to relative normalcy.

>>44938752

I've had plenty of relation ships with trans women. I've seen shit and i've cried hard about it.

You simply don't know what you're talking about.

And yes transbianism is an ideology, it's a product of living by certain constraints that paint you into a box of idealism and it fails because you can't have two pretty princess ruling the same castle.

>>44938775
Bait used to be believable dog

>>44938607
>>44938737
yup, it's just gay men with autism engaging in endless hedonism. to call it polyamory is a misnomer because there is no love in an autist's heart

>>44938784

You literally know nothing about transbians and how our brains work. Or any trans person i expect. Typical chaser.

Whenever you have people complaining that everyone is poly when everyone knows no one likes being poly it's evidence of a completely failed system. You should think about the reasons why the system is failing. And some things are obvious when you think about it, polyamory is so rampant and unfixable because the people in this system are acting selfish, shallow, unwilling to constrain themselves.

At the end of the day the monogamous and polyamorous transbians are the same transbians. And when you realize that you shit brix.

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>>44938590
It's incredibly frustrating. There's a singular discord server for trans women in my city where they're all in there together and like 85% are poly. I'd almost rather just be bitter and single.

I suppose there is one part to all of them being poly which means if I want to get laid then there's always a cutie to hang out with but I want companionship more than sex. I just want someone that can life and cherish me as I do then.

>>44938590
My thing is that I have zero interest in the male form. It's not an ideology to me I just like cock and when it's attached to a fem body then that's even better.

>More shameless bumps with my own pics
>Yes I'm an attention whore

>>44938607
Their houses are almost always fucking pigstys

>>44938561
Just gotta keep looking. i had to resort to long distance bc im a chopped lil hon, but ive been w/ my gf for a year

you gotta get lucky and just avoid anyone who is into poly stuff when looking for a partner desu I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years with both of us in agreement to always stay monogamous.

>>44938561
Im monogamous. I like poly as a theory, but Im just too damned obsessive to ever share my heart with more than one person, and too needy/possessive to ever keep a partner who divided their love between me and another. I could do having a third in the relationship as a sexual thing, but my partner's heart is MINE and I want to be in her arms at the end of the day!
>where are the monogamous girls at
Well, Im taken, so there's that. I suspect the intersection of trans women who are dateable and monogamous is very small and a lot of wind up with partners very fast as a result. My gf is very good to me and I dont see myself with anyone else. Im sure thats a common enough story.
>>44938757
I think there is a rampant issue of people getting drug into poly who are otherwise not into it and thats problematic. See also people who use it to bridge relationships, people who are so afraid of being alone that they try to have as many bonds as possible, people who are overadjusting from a lifetime of feeling alone, and so on. Ive seen poly work beautifully. Ive also seen it crash and burn. But I've also seen lots of monogamous relationships crash and burn, too!
When I first transitioned and my emotions started doing things for the first time in years, it felt like every person who I liked even a little bit was "love". I was receptive to poly during that time. Then I found a woman who truly made my heart sing and I simply couldnt even see anyone else since then. I feel like thats not a super uncommon experience for trans women, tho Im sure many never grow out of it...
>>44939416
Very cute pic! ^^

>>44938561
>Everytroon is poly, whyyyyy
Because they are gay men, hope this helps!

>>44939584
>gay men
>not insignificant number of trans lesbians
Weird how that works.
Anyways my gf seems to disagree. And she's cisles before you throw out the "t4t is just 2 gay men" bit. :3

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>>44939618
transbians are gay males they have
>male sex drives
>only date other trannys
>dont seem to care about passing
>have same sexual fetishes and kinks as young gay men
>speak and act like gay men

They are ALL gay men

>>44939635
Glad you clarified down, lol.
I personally disagree, but I know internet arguing is fruitless. I cant personally say Ive met the archetypal transbian described on /tttt/ tbdesu. Most trans lesbians Ive interacted with outside of 4ch dont seem to exclusively seek trans women. And Ive never ever met a trams woman that truly didnt care about passing unless she was already a super luckshit who passed and didnt "care" because it never applied to her. There's quite a few who have given up on it cuz they rolled bad in the genetic lottery, but I think its respectable to say "Im doing what I can and accepting myself either way"
Cant speak to the rest cuz Ive only had one real partner since I transitioned. My gf snatched me up as quick as she could.
Cisles gf saved me from being pulled into the local puppygirl polycule lololooo

>>44939635
I care about passing at least halfway.

>>44939554
>but my partner's heart is MINE and I want to be in her arms at the end of the day
My feelings entirely.

>I suspect the intersection of trans women who are dateable and monogamous is very small and a lot of wind up with partners very fast as a result.

This fucking broke me though. I had a girlfriend I could've seen living with for years to come but I got blackout drunk and acted like a retard and now I'm single and feel so very alone. More lonely than I've ever felt.

Also thank you Nona <3

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>>44939740
>Cisles gf saved me from being pulled into the local puppygirl polycule lololooo
BOIIIIII WHEN UR XISTER SAVES U FROM DA HECKING WHOLESUM TRANNY SEX CULT

Ever since I posted this thread I've just been feeling worse and worse. I hate this shit.

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>>44939759
Lmao. I love my gf. What we have is the most wholesome thing in the world. I already want to marry her someday, but Im waiting a bit longer due to life circumstances.
>>44939757
Sorry, that's so rough. Keep your chin up, you'll find someone else one day who can love YOU and it will be magical. Just work on yourself in the meantime, for the sake of your future gf. <3

>>44938561
Tbh the whole poly wave is another example of human “thoughts” originating from material circumstances, and numerous contradictions between our taught “normal” reality and the material circumstances we live under

>>44940031
>poly dating to have more love in your life: broke
>poly dating to be able to pay rent: woke

>>44939975
Lmao I have no idea what that's supposed to mean also
>Holy shit is that real?

>>44940014
You're right. So fucking right honestly. When my last relationship ended late August I really told myself I was going to work on my problems but I've done nothing. If I'm being honest I don't even know how to work on the biggest problem that I've had in relationships which is after a certain point emotionally I become a lot less attentive than I should be. I tend to get absorbed into work and just lose sight of the people around me.

Epic transbian moment xisters!!?

>>44939766
im sorry nona, i feel the exact same way and its hard :( im very possessive and polyfaggotry and open relationships are a dealbreaker for me. i dont even like casual sex really. never felt as lonely as i do now. desu ive moved away from trying to date atm so i can focus on improving myself and my life, thats my cope anyway T-T

if its any consolation, when i occasionally look at hinge ive been pretty surprised at how many monogamous cute / passing transbians i see on there lately. i think people are finally waking up to how shitty poly is and looking to find their person as they get older. so maybe check that out if you live someplace with other trannies

>>44940014
I think part of it is being in my 30s and feeling like the clock is running out to find someone? I dunno it's just something else that's been kicking around inside my mind.

>>44940255
I'll check out hinge then never used it before. I was about to make a Taimi desu

>>44939091

This pic is accurate depicting me telling you how shit works

>>44940172
Thats honestly a common issue. Relationships take regular effort to maintain after the initial honeymoon phase. I genuinely set aside regular time to be with my gf. Weekly date nights are mandatory for me. Setting aside time to just exist with her and do things together is mandatory for me. Like, it may feel bas to clinicalize it a bit like that - we want romance to come easy and freely... for love to enrapture us and draw us together forever. But we arent built that way. Regular effort is needed to keep the fire going. Bonus points that seeing that effort can mean a lot in and of itself. Seeing my gf literally set aside time for me gives me butterflies and makes me want to tackle her to the floor and kiss her til we both run out of breath and pass out. (Literally how I felt last night when she stayed up a bit later with me just to hang out.)
Regular time and communication, honestly.
Dont worry. Even failed relationships are a learning experience. You'll do better next time. ^^
>>44940262
Im in my mid 30s and my partner literally came out of left field to snatch me up. Life is weird and wonderful, you never know what will happen.

>>44940296
You rock and thank you for the kind words. Fingers crossed I'll find someone that can truly swoon me and this may come out of left field but what I also miss from my ex girlfriend is the fact neither of us were autistic where all of our emotions and actions were normal; no blunt tisms. Just normal interaction. I've only spoke to one other girl since who wasn't on the spectrum and we hit it off so well until she mentioned the P word.

>genuinely set aside regular time to be with my gf. Weekly date nights are mandatory for me. Setting aside time to just exist with her and do things together is mandatory for me.

See I tried setting up stuff like that but it just never materialized and the biggest issue I had with my ex which rivaled the aforementioned was her fucking voracious sex drive. I kept up with it for about 3 months and then just started declining when she'd want to do stuff. It fucking sucks because she is literally the hottest girl that I have ever fucking seen in my life. Still is. She'll always be the one that got away for me I think

>>44938561
>changes her name to Polly
>op not ok with it
Sounds like this one on u Polly is a cute name