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i have fallen extremely hard for an incredibly beautiful woman who i have great chemistry with and i am certain that she likes me too but she is polyamorous (partnered) and i am very monogamous. i can see an emotional train crash coming but i can't tear myself away because i'm so smitten. being friends with her makes me happy but the jealousy will set in fast if we get closer and i'm scared to address the elephant in the room
should i straight up end my shit, how do i navigate this situation
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>>44940227
don't know why im posting about this here
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>>44940227
>>44940239
Go to reddit this transbian agp shit isn't popular on this board anymore faggot with extra steps moder.
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>>44940248
mad because you are balding
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>>44940263
You look like an Italian manlet I'm just happy to see you crash out fagel
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>>44940276
im chill as fuck rn bro im laying in bed drinking a cup of tea listening to coltrane im straight vibing
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>>44940312
Coltrane in bed with coffee would be unfathomably based but you had to be British about it.
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>>44940354
i'm trying to quit caffeine lately. been drinking a lot of decaf but trying to limit it so i dont start hating it. to be honest quitting caffeine sucks absolute dick but i'm trying to extricate myself from the substance-dependency desiring loops
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>>44940387
I wish I could. But I'm so deep into the caffeine and nicotine addiction it's over for both. I'm drinking one right now and it's 2 pm. I've given up alcohol, weed, heroin, and pills this is all i got. Coltrane died at 40 bad liver, geniuses like him usually do but I'm not a genius.
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Bagel selfie
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>>44940409
>this is all i got.
felt hard i stopped doing drugs 6 months ago and drinking 8 months ago and basically just been switching between other vices since
>>44940427
whats up gang

let's get back on topic i didnt come just to blogpost
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>>44940227
Shes a whore move on
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>>44940446
she's a very nice and sweet girl and it's clear that she is poly out of a considered and mature approach to her needs rather than out of greed or excessive desire or what have you. i respect her relationship preferences but it sucks that i'm incompatible with them
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>>44940227
Yes it will be an emotional train wreck. You comprehend what will happen, completely your choice if you want to get onboard the disaster automotive. Some people can do poly, others can’t. You just know. I would never be able to do it, I would also be far too jealous and it wouldn’t feel like a sincere nor unique connection. You’re either gonna have to drop any relationship altogether, bite the bullet and likely asked to get asked to be cucked / cuck another guy, or accept that you can only be friends.
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>>44940227

Yeah so the funny thing is, you arent in control of any of this and it just sucks.

You want her to be with you but she NEVER will.

Not only does the social network of the polycule provide her with the resources she wants right now, but she us totally captured by the ideology that monogamy is cringe and weird and uncomfortable and for hons. You would be seen as fun and sexy as a novel diversion but oppressive and lame as a long term permanent monogamous partner.

Polyamory is all about hierarchy, a bunch of people decide they dont want to settle for one person because they could maybe get someone hotter paired with desperate self hating people who want attention.

When lots of these girls hit 30 they will want more stable relationships but the mental illness will be totally baked in by then.

This is why when you see people trying to normalize sex work, degeneracy, looksmaxxing, and idleness you have to run in the other direction.

Any time these thoughts leak into your head it makes you more depressed and it can destroy you if you let it
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>>44940438
Not much gng, srry what ur goin thru I xperiened similar once n it didn't end well cuh.
Hope ur doin well otherwise peace out
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>>44940483
well i already know that we can only be friends, i don't have any intentions of anything further because i know it's not an option for me and would cause us both more harm in the long run. i'm just not ready to accept that i have to move on yet i guess
>>44940489
>Not only does the social network of the polycule provide her with the resources she wants right now, but she us totally captured by the ideology that monogamy is cringe and weird and uncomfortable and for hons. You would be seen as fun and sexy as a novel diversion but oppressive and lame as a long term permanent monogamous partner.
>Polyamory is all about hierarchy, a bunch of people decide they dont want to settle for one person because they could maybe get someone hotter paired with desperate self hating people who want attention.
making a lot of assumptions here. i don't think she is like that at all and the poly people i have interacted with do not reflect this at all
>This is why when you see people trying to normalize sex work, degeneracy, looksmaxxing, and idleness you have to run in the other direction.
reactionary nonsense
>>44940493
le sigh, we cringe on
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>>44940511
You seem to have a mature mindset about this, you don't need a lecture from the likes of me but there's nothing wrong with your feelings especially when you're considering how it wouldn't work out.
We're all gonna make it.
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du bist judisch
das ist nein
ich mags nnicht
tue das nicht
hoer auf!
hoer auf, ne jude zu sein!
es ist disgustlich
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>>44940248
i've noticed that but why. where do i go
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>>44940511

Yeah okay keep denying the obvious problem staring you in the face that is harming you right now is reactionary nonsense lol.

Yes all poly people are happy and stable and wonderful people. I'm sure they have happy families and children and long term relationships just like monos

seriously why is it politically bot woke to disagree with this obvious fucking cancer god damn. Always with his fucking woke leftist virtue signaling PC nonsense. Yeah so progressive for people to just fuck who they want and never commit to anyone you're RIGHT WING if you dont like this.

You will keep suffering until you're forced to admit i was right
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>>44940227
i just told my current girlfriend that she should dump her 5 partners or whatever and get with me if she wanted to grow up and have a real relationship like a normal person and she did.
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>>44940227
you look exactly like eggwhite but as a trans girl, same fashion, same face, same everything
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>>44940248
Not sissy hypnos calling anything else “faggot with extra steps” stoooop lol
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>>44940952
i don't think that would be a good move for her. her partners are clearly good for her and things are clearly working. i don't want her to break from that to get with an emotionally volatile woman with intimacy issues and a fear of vulnerability
>>44941059
i dont know who that is but this photo is like 4 years old atp



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