i have noticed that most trannies struggle with basic executive function (cleaning room, eating, applying for jobs, etc.), what causes this phenomenon? myself included
>>44960099autismadhdit ruins me everyday and hopefully i'm not a tranny
>>44960099little to look forward to as stupid children. most normal sane cissoids make it through because they are offered many delusional fantasies of the future. trannies are ambivalent to the future when they are young.
>>44960099I’m schizotypal+schizoid that accounts for most of my lack of self care. Sure other troons have similar issues.
>>44960099mental illness, unironically, but that's okay in certain contexts if your working on itI have a none autistic trans gf so she cooks and cleans a lot actually, goes out on town with her girlfriends like any stacy
I can function normally but no one wanted to give me a proper job so I just gave up and stayed home to clean and take care of the kids.
>>44960142there might be something to this, i was so apathetic about everything as an adolescent and avoided social interaction largely because of the dysphoria>>44960149giwtwm, i’m in college and i still don’t cook or clean that much but i really ought to learn the former and more actively do the latter once i have my own place.
>>44960139you're here which means you're a tranny>>44960164I can function normally at work or school but not at home
>>44960189I guess I'm backwards
>>44960189yeah i know basically /b/ femboy thread ruined me and now i weep everynight but that's a long story
>>44960099today i spent the entire day in bed only ever getting up to go wash my hands like every 30 minutes or go in the bathroom and shut all the doors just to sit on the floor in total darkness so that no light would reach my face. oscillating between crying fits and going online to try and block out all thought (unsuccessfully). at around 4pm after doing this all day long i started to have intrusive thoughts about being molested, as if that's like my brain's only way of coping with and trying to calm myself down from when i get this upset, and so i touched myself (for like 10 minutes) and then took a nap (for like 2 hours). i can't stand being in my body i can't stand it just the feeling of living in it makes me start to panic and it's like this desperate clawing feeling that there's absolutely nothing i can do to shake. it's this all consuming feeling of disgust and shame and loathing and terror and desperation. i don't wanna be this thing anymore. that's the reason for me
>>44960099It's because transwomen need a man to lead them, to ground them to reality. Most trans women either have too many mental issues, lack a cock or most importantly, don't pass.
>>44960322why not change your ways
>>44960099Neurodivergence and upper-middle class privilege, anyone who tells you it's not a combination of these two things is lying
>>44960099im too disabled to do anything but the most basic cleaning/straightening of a small space without risking injury and agonyi eat as much as i can and still i gain almost no weightim too disabled to work any basic job i could get as a 40yo hs dropouti can only stand about 45mins on a good day; walking around a store or something; rather slowly; i can hold up slightly longer on a good day; but i cant carry anything more than my purse or push around a shopping cart or pick up anything more than 5-6lb without risking injury mainly to my fked up wrists; and anything over that becomes a likely risk to my spine; if not from fracture then straining my existing fractures or other tissues like discsi can only partially care for myself; i cant safely do a shower unassisted alone anymore; i can make instant microwave food or something very simple on stove like soup or ramen or kassiedilla; i cant cut or prepare most thing for actual cooking due to aforementioned ruined joints; i cant even cut my own steak without being seriously hurt with a week of crippling pain from attempting iti lost my disability funds after i got married in 2024 so im entirely dependent on my heavenly beautiful wife for everythingbut im usually ok at home on the days she works and i try to make things easier on her in caring for me however i cani sleep in the day during the week so i minimize being away from her; mainly for emotional reasons but also just safety as i could possibly have a fall or other issue; and i feel safer and happier even if shes asleep atleast shes still with mewe both are extremely codependent as we are made to be and wish to be; but she is thankfully able to maintain her career and give us a pretty comfy life without alot of serious worries outside of my health and medications most of the timei doubt i could ever work or even be hired for a normal jobi might try to be a yt/vtuber someday but i cant rly sit at my desk for that kind of time consistently
>>44960601>>44960605Apologies, neurodivergence, upper-middle class privilege and larping as disabled, forgot to add that one too
>>44960531i'm really trying. i just get so upset i feel like i can't breathe. if i could just be a normal looking person there's so many things i'd want to do with my life. i don't spend every day like this. today was the worst in months
>>44960601most people who dont clean up are lower class
>>44960678Yeah they usually go from upper-middle to lower once their parents kick them out kek
>>44960322Do you also get jealous of girls? The worst I've been is standing before a rose bush for a couple hours, struggling with my own thoughts.
>>44960099>basicu ass lol
>>44960099who's the artist? looks like the same person who did picrel
you already got the answer in here so the question now is why are most disabled
>>44960099For me I'm always working and don't have time to clean, I do a seasonal cleaning 4 times a year.
>>44960099How much cleaning are we talking ? OCD is a bigger mental illness than gender dysphoria. There's a middle ground
Those activities just doesn't provide any resource anymore, If I don't need consumer goods why would I make them, If I feel fine breath black mold why would I clean
>>44960601honestly this lol i know trannies from very comfortable backgrounds who are like this and it's simply because they were spoiled and never really had to get their shit together. they don't clean up after themselves because their parents did it for them and they don't work because they never had to since their parents let them live with them and nobody is gonna hire a 25 year old with zero employment history. it's funny because they'll always vehemently deny their class privilege and even make up stories but you can tell pretty quickly once you get to know someone how they grew up.
>>44960099CPTSD perma-nuking our dopamine function.
>>44961123Fuck yeah, boymoder art that actually looks like a boymoder and not a loli anime girl.
