im tired of pulling my bf on top of me or moving his hands to my tits! i want his sexuality inflicted on me, not inflicting my sexuality on him! i wanna be groped and choked and plapped without asking!
>>44966361based hsts thread #673make the transbians jealous and seethe
>>44966361I think this would work better if you told him instead of us
>>44966381what do i even say...
>>44966381If you tell him the next time he does it you just know he only did it because you asked which kinda ruins it. I want him to lose his self control and be overcome by his lust for me so he can't help himself, is that too much to ask?
>>44966361its a turn on for men to be desired and for you to visibly want it
>>44966404That you want him to lust for you instead of you having to always initiate things. Communicate>>44966435Okay then break up with him and start dating guys until you find your loving pervert randomly instead of just talking to the guy you already like and are dating. Why would he change if he thinks everything is going well?
Unfortunately there are only a few solutions to thisLock into your life and become so attractive that he literally cannot resist you if he triedOrFind a different boyfriend who sees you that wayUnfortunately this is usually a case of the first option. If our partners lose interest, it’s not their fault.
>>44966464I'm not breaking up with him our relationship is amazing other than this.I don't want to leave him just because our sex is kinda meh, sex is overrated anyway.
Let me guess he FTM?
>>44966435You got to tell him what you want. Tell him you want to be seduced and ravished. Hell give him porn or erotic novels or whatever the fuck of what you want to show the type of experience you are okay with. He doesn't want to be a pig to you so he's being respectful. Just express what you want and maybe you will see his unleashed lust. Give him a chance to express this side without shame and if he's into you then you will get to see it more often.
>>44966522but Joe Biden said sex is the most important thing for a long-term relationship
>>44967055I've shown him some of my favourite romance/smut stories but he just said they were boring and that he didn't get how I could even get off on them.
>>44967125Autists need clear communication, just tell him what you want
have you considered?
>>44967138Fair enough, I tend to forget that. Dry discussions about what makes me tick in bed tend to be pretty uncomfortably for me but I'll make the sacrifice for some improvement :)
>>44967172I think it would be kinda fun if for some reason I had an arab bf
>>44966372>The transbians will get jealous because someone has a boyfriend!!Did you hit your head?
>>44967012Mine (>>44966435>>44966522>>44967125>>44967182) isn't. He's just a cis guy that's pretty vanilla as far as I know. He did do shibari on me a few times back when we just started dating though.
>>44966361Gay men dont like tits, im sorry OP
Why is the thread this long. You cannot talk or manipulate a guy into ravishing you. If he wanted to he would. It’s that simple.
>>44967012She said boyfriend, not goyrlfriend.
>>44966361op im like u but i met my bf when i was like 2 months into transition so im starting to think he just likes twinks instead of boobtwinkst. boobtwink
>>44967531Please OP, stop wasting your time. Lock into your life or find a new BF. If attraction and sex is important to you DO NOT convince yourself that it isn’t. Don’t settle for a lukewarm relationship because of bad self esteem.
>when your Kinsey 1 boyfriend is only sufficiently gay enough to blap your asshole and try to get sex over withLMAO