gays and tgrils will look back on them being a feminine boy and say "wow there were signs" but i think this is harmful bc not all gays are fem and neither are tgirls and ppl may think feminine boys are tgirls and stuff
once i saw a terf say, in response to the boymoder red guard art, "notice how they all have the male symbol?" not a good look for the trans community
everything is harmful everything is abuse unless it speaks personally to my experience or has no counterfactuals it is wrong and invalidating
>>44968799Well what are we supposed to do then? Just say nothing at all about our lived experiences from the past?
>>44969372no im just saying like the lgb guys are right that you shouldnt assume fem boys are trans, and also i think some homophobic tgirls would be mad that they share something in common with "grids"
>>44969393do you know what theory of mind is and why people might have different reasons for acting feminine as a child
>>44969219yeah i wonder why the boymoder would have a boy symbol on her hoodie
>>44969413i know>>44969428its a bad look for terfs who think its trans women saying theyre male men who want to kill women
