my friend's not taking her HRT. she's really dysphoric and cooked in some departments (brow, adam's apple) but way prettier than me in others and I hate watching her ruin herself. on top of that she just moved a state away so visiting her will be tough and I need to talk her out of this enbyrepping thing but idk how
I see no difference other than she stopped plucking her eyebrows, doing makeup and shaving. Skin texture maybe. But maybe it will get worse.
>>44969502i mean idk the hairline looks a bit different
how old was picrel at the time
>>44969502that's not her. also you are faceblind
>>44969502The hairline is def moving up. Tragic if you ask me.
>>44969508you'd have to ask the original poster I'm not sure. if you have to ask just get on hrt asap, everyone's different and a growth spurt like that could hit at any time in theory
>>44969500trans girls should be in the washroom for an hour a day at least and watch that drag queen show regularly if they want to even start complaining about not passing because of bones or whatever
>>44969511Yes it literally is the same person, the lighting and hormones are different. Same skeleton and proportions.
>>44969519Most of the dudes in drag shows don't pass at all and look like nightmare clowns with beards. If you want to learn makeup you need to look up cis women's tutorials.
>>44969502>I see no differenceBased blind anon
>>44969536I meant it's not the person talked about in the OP. who no one has even acknowledged yet you're all just gawking at the picture
>>44969519>trans girls should be in the washroom for an hour a day at leastWhat does this mean
>>44969555skincare, styling hair, makeup, etc.
>>44969555to stare at cis women doing their makeup I assume
>>44969556Oh ok. I do my skincare, i dont wash my hair, just brush it. I dont wear make up, but i do mascara.Im battling herpes, so my skin is very dull and poxed
>>44969557Depressing, best not to acknowledge other human beings
>>44969559what do you mean you dont wash it??? i dont mean everyday but like every three-four or something you dont wash it??
>>44969563shampoo is not a biological necessity, no
>>44969556Never learned how to style my hair or do makeup in 7 years it makes me wanna rope
>>44969563If i wash my hair it goes very frizzy and hurts my scalp. I go to the hairdressers once a month
>>449695531. They should have posted a less misleading picrel2. How are we supposed to actually help her regardless? We don’t know anything about why they’re repping or why they trooned in the first place
>>449696131. picrel is a perfectly relevant demonstration of the problem at hand2.a. she trooned becuz dysphoria2.b. I actually don't understand a word of why she's repping. I was trying to convince her to fix her hondosedness when she said she hadn't taken her pills in a while and I asked why and she said she met a theyfab and then started gushing over how androgynous they were I asked how the fuck is that relevant and she said there's no hope in her being physically feminine so she'd focus on being socially feminine and I'm like jesus fucking christ at this rate you are going to be an old fucking man and no one will consider you feminine, you do want to live in this body for longer than the next two years right? then start acting like it. everyone changes, physically, mentally, you can't stop it, you can't ignore it, you can only decide how. that seemed to convince her but I text her today to check in and she says "I'll continue my dose when I feel like it" DUMB FUCKING SUICIDAL RETARDED BITCH AAUAUUUGHH
>>44969500i remember the post of op imgit was so fking tragicshe was so pretty and went off hrt and i think even took t so she could try to have a baby via surrogate ivf with her husbandoatleast thats my memory of what she wrotei hope she was able to undo the damagewhat beautiful shiny hair she had
>>44969918>even took tWouldve caused less damaged if she shot her foot with a gun, insane
>>44969756repping but woke
>>44969756What the trans community definitely needs is another optics nuke
>>44970405
>>44970446This actually works on a lot of misguided tranners, they think if they become pretty they've somehow harmed cis women, because they believe the terf rhetoric.
>>44969500drug her and then inject her with a large amount of undecylate
>>44971065>drug herhow
>>44971137idk
>>44969500I remember picrel lel
>>44971160nice. that'd probably a bit unethical anyway. although, letting her keep masculinizing would also be unethical... hm...
>>44969500she's self harming and won't process the consequences until they arrive at her door, sorry OPi did this once because i thought i was gonna kill myself at the end of it and i thought people would care enough about me and my transition to intervenein the end i didnt and just ruined my life even more beyond repair, still deal with the fallout todayit's a pattern you can grow to counteract/reason out of over time, i see a lot of younger ppl online talk about sabotaging and destroying themselves but they never stop to think about the consequences at the end of the tunnel, because the pain is overwhelming and in the present, but it hasn't sunk in yet that it's a completely pointless venture with no payoff that leaves you holding heavier baggage by the end of it all
>>44971291Wise words, i wish i couldn't relate
>>44971291is there anything anyone could've said to you or done for you back then that would've made you reconsider
>>44969918iirc she had no partner but was obsessed with the idea she might want kids in the futurei dont think she took anything, we were discussing clomid and stuff itt butshe was quite obsessed (like actual ocd-tier psychotic obsessed) around her fertility, hope she found help>>44971332no idea really, i'll spare the trauma dumping but probably not i only have my personal/relative experiences to project from so, idk if better friends, support networks, help, family, anything might've changed how i felt
