I am 192cm, fit, a student with good grades and a part time job and put a lot of time into making sure I have plenty of interesting hobbies and don't come off too autistic in conversation. I live in a big city so I'd imagine the sample size of people I get is pretty decent. I've been on most apps for 2+ years, been going to bars in the summer & fall, and I've still only ever met maybe 2 or 3 people genuinely interested in a 'normal' monogamous relationship who weren't completely insane. Maybe it's an issue of trying to date within my age group and it would resolve in time but for some reason, I doubt it.Where do you even find normal gay men if they exist. I can't imagine wanting to date someone with a sub 20 body count is too ridiculous but here I am.
>normal gay menDefine this term
>>44972621Men who are attracted but who don't participate in the 'lifestyle'.
The gay dating scene is full of neurodivergent individuals trying to fulfill whatever fantasy theyve conjured up at the moment that they think will make them happy for the next 15 seconds until they see a new shiny object and chase that instead.
>>44972852God, I hate moids. Gay men prove that men are all sexual degenerates and the fact that somehow acting like this is now acceptable if you do it to other men is retarded
>>44973481It's why gincel became gincel, because he didn't want to immerse himself in total depravity. Bottoms will fuck 50 men by the time they're 22 and then decide the universe owes them a stable relationship with a normal man when they've already ruined themselves in every way possible.
>>44972591I dont know, ive never used apps or clubsThat said, apps are full of undateable people because they accumulate, and the good people get fished out early. Also a lot of better quality guys might just not be on them at all
>>44973951So you don't go out? How do you expect to meet anyone without the pretense?
