>download real dating app instead of a chaser one for once>get a ton of likes and matches>"omg i pass">all but 3 of them unmatch as soon as they see the note that says im transis it over? like genuinely how are you meant to get a boyfriend as a tranny if even being a passoid doesnt work? i need to feel a mans hands on me soon or im gonna kms
dating apps are superficial engagement bait
What happened to the few interested left?
>>44979511living in a society is superficial engagement bait.
>>44979511yeah but im a trans woman in a small town in england i dont really have other choices
>>44979532im like, talking to them currently. i doubt theyll stick around though
>>44979500If you actually pass, take being trans out of your profile. You can go on a first date with them and then decide if you want to keep seeing them first and then tell them (over text). That way they get to know you as a person instead of a trans stereotype. You have to be super careful though and don't do anything physical or accept anything (letting them pay for things) before telling them. But you have to be super careful.
>>44979634oops dont know why I typed the last part twice. But yea if you don't want to keep seeing them after the first date, you just turn them down and don't have to disclose. That way everyone in your area doesn't see you are trans first too.
>>44979634Rape behaviour>>44979500Nona chasing after men who aren’t interested in trannies is misery. You can get one to love you, but every moment around him you’ll worry about every little feature of yourself being wrong, but since he didn’t really sign up to date a tranny you can’t even lean on him for comfort about it because he just doesn’t care about tranny stuff. Just get a chaser it feels so much better. If you get a good chaser you can lean on him for comfort about the specific issues you have. Also, like not everything you hate about yourself is a relationship ruiner, he probably won’t care if your WHR or whatever is a bit off. Plus it’s nice to feel special and not just like what got picked because he couldn’t get an actual woman
>>44979634im not doing that. its soulcrushing enough to have them match then unmatch, why would i want to get attached to them before they cut me off for it?
>>44979674idk where to find chasers though
>>44979500Try getting matches as a short man.
>>44979686It's one date, you don't need to want to marry them, just to be interested. Plus you can get a better idea from talking to them if they might be accepting. Otherwise, you're probably better off just trying to date off the apps. Go to clubs or hobbies and meet someone in person. They will see you over time and fall for you and then they probably won't mind as much when you tell them. >>44979674You're just trying to make it easier for chasers to find her. As long as you aren't kissing them or sleeping with them, or letting them pay for anything, a first date is just like an introduction. It's worked for me. I've gone on a bunch of first dates where I realized the guy wouldn't be a good fit, and I didn't have to disclose to him either. I've also gone on dates where I liked him enough to disclose, and he was ok with it. Plus you avoid the gross chasers more by not disclosing first on the app.
>>44979738i get a perfect idea of if theyre accepting based on if they unmatch or not
