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Why do I keep falling for mentally ill trans girls
What's my problem
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>>45001061
Are you 5'9"?
Is your dick 6 inches?
Do you have a broad frame?
Are you strong fat
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=efjc146v3hA
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>>45001061
Because they are the best women out there
Now if you'll excuse me, I need to get ready for my next therapy session
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>>45001076
No
Bigger
I guess?
I'm lean
>>45001082
>I need to get ready for my next therapy session
Are you single
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>>45001061
When is it my turn for someone to fall in love with me, then...?
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>>45001094
You bigger than 5'6" at least?
A broad frame would be like having broad shoulders or something.
You have an amazing cock size.

I don't mind lean guys, but I prefer a bit buff. I'm also attracted to other moidly features, like hand veins
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>>45001111
It's okay I'll fall in love with you
>>45001112
Yeah
I'd say so, yeah
Well I have that and also a deep voice
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>>45001094
>Are you single
Yes but I actually quit therapy last year
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>>45001136
How do you deal with emotionally needy trannies?
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>>45001143
Can I listen to your problems and help you figure things out
>>45001144
I do my best
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>>45001061
you want to fix them, just give in, pls fix them, they need it
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>>45001061
same. but im trans as well. however, idk if im some kind of woman or jyst a weirdo in estrogen.
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>>45001061
this is like lightning a lantern a night
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>>45001178
I'm trying, I really am
>>45001204
You're a woman, don't ever doubt that
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I hate threads like these.
Randomly giving out your discord feels unpleasant.
There's a high chance they don't live in the same country as you.
All of this causes cancerous yearning...

I'm the girl who asked the height questions. I'm in Canada
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>>45001232
Why is it always the US, Canada, or the UK?
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>>45001216

hmm hard to think im a woman qhen i look nothing like one. feels like a larp or something..

im also not really feminine in the slightest and somehow have never tried feminine clothing despite being a year on E.


like, genuinely, have no idea what i am lol
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>>45001238
First world countries that are somewhat permissive.
Don't know why a lot of EU trannies don't post here, except for the eastern european ones. I see them a lot more on discord, reddit, tumblr and the like. Are they that more well adjusted than us
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>>45001232
I yearn too
I want to make you happy
I hope I can at least put a smile on your face from all the way over here
As much as I'd prefer to scratch your head and feel your smile on my lips, I'm happy just making you feel like it's worth it to keep waking up in the morning and doing all those boring chores you hate every day
>>45001240
You should be more confident
Try out some clothes, even from the safety of your room
I know it might feel wrong and you might feel a sense of shame about the whole thing, but it'll get better
You don't have to let your inhibitions win
Plus dressing better is nice, fashion is pretty cool
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>>45001260
Cuteeeeeeee.
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>>45001260

>>>45001240 (You) #
>You should be more confident

kinda hard to be confident heh. especially because i don't even know if i want to be a woman or not. i don't really yearn for wearing feminine stuff or girlmoding, just am lonely and somehow let agp get the better of me

the only thing i know is that i don't wanna be a man and that id like a more feminine appearance than what i have right now. besides that? no idea.

especially after i started ssris and had a good part of my dysphoria blunted :/.
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>>45001249
I live in a woke wealthy country so I would assume I would find at least a few people but it's overwhelmingly those 3 places
>Are they that more well adjusted than us
That's not been my experience with the ones I've met lmao
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>>45001296
Yeah, it's gonna be a tough path to walk, but I believe in you
To me it sounds like you're a girl who wants to be a girl
Even if you're not really drawn towards feminine clothing I think you should still try it, I'm sure you don't really have any particular style to how you dress at the moment
So try it out, see how you like it, experiment, try to see yourself as a woman, even if it's hard
You also have to let go of all the 4chan terms, they do more harm than good
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>>45001076
6'1
7 inches
Yeah
Yeah
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>>45001061
oh hey, i look like OP’s pic and did time in a mental ward. You into older (passing) trannies too? The relationship MOST likely doesn’t make it half a year but it’ll be fun :^)
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>>45001061
Most men don't really love mentally ill women. Whether knowingly or not, they almost always tend to just use them, lead them on, and drop them when they find someone mentally stable who takes less upkeep.

Truly loving mentally ill women is an artform, it takes mastery of patience and it takes a heart that is paradoxically both *kind* and deeply steeled to the sorts of pain that're wrought by breakdowns and splits. Few men care to learn this artform because they only view these kinds of women as training fodder. Dolls you can fuck for a while before throwing into the dumpster. Marionettes. Toys. Things that attach to you and don't let go till you pry 'em off. They don't understand the beauty of a mentally ill woman's heart, how perfectly and beautifully fragile she is, like a porcelain mask.

I love mentally ill women. I don't merely "keep falling for them," I don't prey upon them, I love them. I've loved many, and I hope to love many more, or, more ideally, just one more. I love weakness. I love fragility. I love the honesty of brokenness, how you can slice yourself bloody on any jagged shard of her persona. I love how soft their voices can be, how weak they are, how they can shake and quiver when you're atop them in bed. I love the myriad sorts of depravities found within. I love their capacity to love, and I love their inextricably connected capacity to suffer. I love their minds, how they think, how they feel, their intensity, and their weaknesses. I love them so much that it hurts. Nobody knows how to touch a heart better than me. Nobody knows how to see into that pitch-black darkness better than me. Nobody will ever love a mentally ill woman better than me.
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>>45001421
Your observation is explored in attachment theories. Finding someone who is secure attachment (basically low maintenance) is the key to eventually healing and nurturing the anxious/avoidant/(high maintenance) partner (women, man, cis or trans).
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>>45001249
im eastern european but im a manmoder gigahon so there isnt any hope for me
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>>45001404
Of course!
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>>45001436
I'm aware, more or less. The reason many of these women suffer tends to be because they self-sabotage out of weaker relationships without realizing. That, or they're just being used. Either way, they end up getting dropped after their first few breakdowns, and the cycle just repeats again and again, till the person loses their mind over it. I've seen it happen, I have. A person can destroy themself with a thought like "I'll never be loved."

I've seen people get better, as well. Alongside me, even. I know that the mentally ill can have upward trajectories, they just need the right impetus and the right kind of person beside them. More often than not though, the exact opposite tends to be the case. Mayfly relationships begin and end within the space of a season. Love isn't love, it's just another setup for a disappointing payoff. The prevalence of situationships where one side's being led on, too. Iteration after iteration after iteration, these people are often damned to the worst kinds of crowds. Inevitably, you even end up with masochists and whores who end up losing the requisite self-respect to even find a relationship like the one you're posting. Instead, they just seek abuse, seek those mayfly relationships, and let that become their life till their conscience eats them alive. Just how it goes. Some prey will give themselves their predators, in the end.
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>>45001061
>>45001421
i wish guys like you actually existed. youre most likely trannies larping as their dream boyfriends. in reality men will dump you once they realize how much of a burden you are or the second a real girl gives them any attention
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>>45001471
West coast?
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>>45001493
I'm quite real. Quite male, too. Disappointing, I know.
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>>45001493
I'm real, I exist, I'm not just text on a screen
I'm a man, I love being a man and I love mentally ill trans girls as much as it pains me sometimes to love them
I do agree that we're a rare type of person, like the other anon said, most men who seek vulnerable people are out to hurt them even more, so I wouldn't recommend seeking us out
I've dated both cis girls and trans girls and I can confidently say they're both girls to me
I would never switch one for the other on a whim
Regarless, I hope you haven't had to experience that kind of treatment yourself and if you have then I hope you can find a good guy who'll help you believe in love between men and trans women again
>>45001494
No, I'm sorry, nona
You sound lovely and beautiful and I will remember you though <3
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>>45001493
I'm a guy like this but the caveat is that I'm mentally ill as well. I've tried dating sane people but they just don't get it and it's not something you can explain.
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>>45001534
it happened to me thrice. either you two are a statistical anomaly or im just an awful disgusting gigahon not worth the effort. maybe both
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>>45001537
I believe you need to be a bit mentally ill yourself to love mentally ill women
What kind of illness, anon? How does it affect you?
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>>45001543
You're worth it, nona
I think there's just a lot more awful guys out there
I hope that doesn't discourage you from seeking a real meaningful relationship though
It can be a beautiful thing with the right person you just gotta find that one
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>>45001534
>No. i’m sorry nona
Tragic. Next time i’m riding my toy I’ll think fondly of what you could’ve been. c’est la vie
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>>45001556
relationships are only for pretty people. all i can experience is heartbreak and disappointment
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why do i keep falling for trans girls that are poly or do not want any commitment (from me) for the foreseeable future
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>>45001534
wait are you that Texas 31/32 guy who post daily on soc
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>>45001545
AuDHD which led to me being depressed since before I can remember, and a lot of interpersonal trauma.
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>>45001561
I need you
>>45001563
You deserve love and happiness, nona
Don't lose your hope
If you do you'll be doomed to feel that way forever, if doesn't have to be this way
>>45001570
It happens, I've dated lesbians before
You just gotta learn to move on and not let it pull you down
>>45001574
No, but I've seen the guy
I'm in my mid 20's
>>45001575
I'm sorry, anon
Have you been taking steps to manage it better? Medication? Lifestyle changes? Some people to talk to when you need?
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>>45001599
i never lose hope. hope is the only reason im still alive. im actually a huge optimist and no matter how naive it is i still believe i might experience happiness someday
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>>45001599
how does one move on when there is nothing to move onto ?
i felt like i could easily move on from this type of thing when i was actually actively dating people but ever since i transitioned it has been nothing but being positioned as the friend to maybe sometimes fuck. it’s been 5 years without anything more than that. i genuinely sorta just feel like killing myself often cause it seems an impossibility.
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>>45001599
>i need you
if you’re hot post contact and let’s flirt (50/50 maybe we meet up for a hot night or two in the future unless you’re close).
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>>45001603
You will
Just don't be so mean to yourself, okay?
You owe yourself some kindness
>>45001613
I think you need to be okay being by yourself
I don't mean expect to be alone forever, but learn to enjoy your time, do new things
People will come
You seem to at least have some success even if you're still far from the ideal life you want to be
Also consider entering new spaces, maybe you need a new pool of people who are more compatible with what you're looking for
Just remember to not wallow in resentment and sadness over your condition
>>45001615
My disc is Eco.7 !
And if anyone else needs someone to talk to about stuff I'm open to chatting about whatever
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>>45001061
bait
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>>45001633
im not mean to myself. truth is not mean, at least i prefer it over delusion
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>>45001633
i was okay with it for a while, but it gets to a point.

i don’t think there’s really anywhere to go that will put attractive monogamous people in my life, the community is kinda cooked for anyone who doesn’t want to just fuck around like crazy.

i also don’t know what new things i could do, everything either takes money from you or is a slog

kinda hard to not wallow in this and feel like transitioning was kinda a mistake lol



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