im a femrepper trying to keep finding reasons to 'enjoy' my femininity. what makes you all so happy about being women? trans or cis
>>45003007People treat you like a human being? You can be emotional in public and people will sympathize with you? You get to live knowing you are the desirable sex? There's too much to type.
>>45003027i feel like this only applies if youre under 130 pounds and under 5'6 desu
>>45003048there's probably a BMI cutoff, but a skinny tall woman will always have more social value than a manlet.
>>45003007I’m not a woman but I can’t imagine it’s very funYou should take testosterone and become a man
>>45003078>You should take testosterone and become a manif become a man you mean become a short red manlet pooner LMAO
>>45003007i can offer my experience as a trans woman if that helpsi love living as a woman because, for better or for worse, you are seen and treated as nurturing and as a beacon of light and positivity. i love helping people and cherish that if i married a man and adopted children or became a step parent, i would be seen as the parent that you could seek out when life feels hard or you need comfort/supportalthough i think this shouldn't be the expectation for all women, i love being responsible for organising community and maintaining social cohesion. i love being seen as beautiful, soft and sweet. i love living as a woman :')
>>45003099The bar for being a man is pretty low All you have to do is grow a beard which testosterone will take care off
>>45003007it doesn't workt. repper
>>45003126im a little high This Is So Damn Sweet. im going into early education & love this feeling of being someone people and kids trust and im scared that if i do transition that'll go away. not in a creepy way hahah just being a teacher is a big part of my life and i think being a woman is a part of being a trustable teacher.
>>45003027That is completely unrelated to the biological reality of being a certain gender and fully dependent on societal attitudes.
>>45003048Also you can't be too old either. After 30 you are a christmas cake.
>>45003126Seeing this type of thing just makes me more confident I am a man lol. I despised being treated soft and sweet and nuturing. I am none of those things.
>>45004919yeah im nearly 20 & i already look like a clone of my mother if i pooned out i'd look insane
>>45003048It doesn't. Even women who literally have two heads do better than the vast majority of men
>>45003007i just like how I look, desu all the rest is a spook. I feel like a girl so I kind of am even though I'm stuck in an amab body. unironically if I was afab I would almost certainly be a theyfab because I recognize gender roles don't work for at least half of people and I'm just kind of opposed to that
i dont consider myself a woman yet but i want to feel beautiful, be treated gently, be seen as empowered and cool for being gnc instead of weak. i dont want to be depressed nor be expected to be the provider
>>45005218wish i could feel this way abt being a woman lol
>>45005131Aren't like 40% of gen z men incels (classic definition, no sneedy judgement)?
>>45003141thank you dear. atp im super drunk with my bf so i hope this makes sense loli work in education too and i'd maybe just caution that men and trans women alike are often treated as suspicious aliens sadly. i only say this to convey that transitioning just to appear less potentially threatening probably wouldn't be the best idea. i'd suggest you only transition if you want to live your life as a woman 24/7>>45004966are u op? femrepper? just curious
>>45003007If you're a repper, not much. It's ass and the suckiness comes with interest the longer you rep. Take the T now. You'll be happy you did later
>>45003027never experienced this in my life. when i was a kid i frequently cried in class either due to bullying or not understanding the subject and not once did anybody give a fuck. you only know about woman through fiction this is why you want to become one, if you were sensible youd stay a man
>>45005837Oh sorry I am not OP just a random femrepper passing by. I should have clarified.
i take estrogen for like cosmetic reasons but i can understand ftm dysphoria more than mtf, just from a practical standpoint. the way femreppers and ftms describe it sounds like a constant 24/7 humiliation ritual. physically weaker, nobody takes you seriously ever and you are basically completely reliant on the good will of society to not go gigachud and strip all your rights overnight. i guess there were historical pooners and stuff though who lived 24/7 stealth. which is pretty cool imo. but not everyone can do that.
>>45006654Yeah maybe some girls get that treatment but my classmates used to beat me up to try and make me cry when I was a kid. I was like a disease that spread beatings and bullying to anyone who was nice to me too so nobody even pretended to give a fuck.
>>45003007The second I started passing everyone, and I mean everyone, started treating me better. Some just slightly better, most way better.I hadn't even learned yet how to woman and I was already treated better simply for being read as one. Sure, I am ~5'6'' but the literal overnight change was an immense shock.Then there's the legal advantages. I applied to the same job as Ms. Nona that I had applied to as Mr. Anon just a few months prior to FFS. Went from my resume not even being noticed to getting the job. Same company, same position, same work experience. Just a different name and F on my passport.I get why women complain about too much unwanted attention. But I'd rather have that for the rest of my life than another lifetime of zero attention of any kind.The number one thing FtMs complain about once they pass is that nobody gives a shit about them at all. And they're right. That is the life of nearly all men, and especially shorter ones. It's either hatred or indifference as a shortcel. Forever, basically. The only appreciation that you ever get is transactional (if you do your job exceptionally well in the workplace or you've been a good boy in church or some other social activity, but always transactional).I will never actually be a woman and that's fine. But legally and socially I am one. And have been since the facial feminization surgery healed. And since that happened I moved from barely knowing and speaking to anyone to having social circles (plural) and from struggling to even keep a fwb interested to being married. And also got way better paid jobs, at least one explicitly thanks to affirmative action.
my body just feels comfy and i feel like myself. but that's just dysphoria i assume you'd feel the same if you get on T.being a guy always felt gross to me, like i was being seen as this hairy sweaty knuckle dragger, a danger to be wary of. women navigated conversations with me in a way that just made me feel so guilty. like im this threat that has to be managed. idk, now it feels more neutral? like when im not having bdd episodes i feel like a real person, not a stereotype of a gender. im me, when i talk to women it's like im my own person without this extra "warning: moid" sign around my neck, and when i talk to men they're usually normal, and the misogynist ones i usually just don't keep talking to them.
>>45006927>my classmates used to beat me up to try and make me cry when I was a kidthey did that to me to, at least male ones did, females just gossipped. you live in a fantasy world
>>45007220once my own sisters pummeled me on the ground of a mall for like 20 minutes but that mightve just been a sibling thing LOL
>>45007044>being a guy always felt gross to me, like i was being seen as this hairy sweaty knuckle dragger, a danger to be wary of. >women navigated conversations with me in a way that just made me feel so guilty. like im this threat that has to be managed.they say that misandry doesnt exist when this is the average mtf's reason for transition
>>45005837ah no sorry im op i meant NOT transitioning to be seen as someone safe i never meant to compare trans women and men if anything i was comparing trans women and cis women. my bad
>>45007220I got beat up by male classmates as well as female ones. I don't think the girls would have beat up a guy though I agree.
>>45007256yeah unfortunately good for nona but i don't want to be a sweaty knuckle dragging ape or someone women have to be afraid of. if those things are necessary for manhood i'd rather spare everyone of that and continue to be someone people can trust.
>>45007249most likely a sibling thing. out of family women rarely instigate physical violence. ive once jumped one of the girls that used to call me names in class and she stopped trying anything after that. most females are cowardly and easily subdued
>>45007276it's not a necessity for manhood though
>>45003007For me, It's Iyami.
>>45003007Don't make things hard on yourself, use testosterone and be an average guy. Even if you're short and fat, you know, being small actually gives you an advantage: it's easier to get ripped.
>>45005131you say that like that's an issue.
>>45003126bless you
>>45007256i felt the same way right up until i started interacting with men as a woman. and now i get it. i mean, i sorta knew before, hence the guilt, but it's different experiencing it firsthand. women are afraid of men for a reason.
>>45007276you can take testosterone and still be an afab heavenly wombxnly "safe male"
>>45007256>>45007011Yeah, being male sucks, your feelings are always deprioritized and society is implicitly constructed around the idea that males are rapists, i.e. sex segregation. Look up the "women are wonderful" effect.Also, men never receive compliments and if they do, they fixate on them for days. Women receive them frequently.
>>45008959god i'd rather kms. if i do transition i wanna be a cool dude teacher thats like chill & if i dont i want to be a good nurturing presence. i just have to get less mentally ill
>>45009304Male teacher?Prepare for pedo allegations lmao, even worse if they find out you're trans.
