I cant find a dominant/dom switch gf to save my lifeI did have one 3 year relationship with one who turned out to be an ftm.This shit is just impossible. I wish I could be attracted to men. Or dominant myself.
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>>45010639Hi
>>45010645yeah i'm not what you're looking for i'm just fucking with you LOL better luck next time
>>45010645also when you say 14 years you mean on HRT right? cuz if not then gtfo
>>4501064914 years on hrt yes. What else would I mean
>>45010665holy fuck that's a long time any advice?
Now try being an ugly straight 5'3 100% submissive dickwith guy. I play in hardcore mode
>>45010676Not really im pretty tomboyish and a basketcase in generalBrainworms do get better at least
>>45010627I'm a sub 6 years on hrt and I can see this being my future. it already hurts not having this so I don't know how I'm going to deal with it for so long. you're kinda just screwed as a submissive tranny. it's not a desirable thing to be.
>>45010627you are unicorn hunting opthese women basically do not exist, despite what people on the internet seem to think or jerk off to
>>45011648>>45011701i have literally never had a problem with this at all loli don't even have to ask you just have to act a certain way and it brings it out of them naturally
>>45011712???? where the fuck do you find these people
>>45012014literally everywhere lol? almost every tranny i've ever fucked just automatically goes for domming. they're at least better at it than me. maybe everyone ITT lives in the same town
>>45012507I live in a decent size city and the only lesbians I've met trans or cis have been subs or "switch" (spicy submissive) I just assumed the ratio was like 1000 to 1 sub to dom
>>45012798the ratio is bad, but not that bad. if the doms aren't noticing you it's probably because you're ugly or annoyingt. dom
>>45010627At least you're not European, everyone's poly here for some reason.
>>45012831there just aren't any third spaces here it's dead as fuck. everyone I've met has been through friends or off the apps. people talk about meeting people as this abstract thing that you just do, but there isn't really a way to do it. it drives me nuts too because the women I've met call me attractive and cute but like, there's nothing I can really do with that information, and it doesn't help that I'm autistic and somewhat socially stunted and have weird interests that people can't relate to. I think trying to date and have sex as an autist is the real issue it's completely different because nobody really treats me as a person anyway
>>45012798you got memed bro do you just assume those switches won't fuck you or something lollike have you tried it with them?
>>45015473I assumed they would make me top them like my last relationship with a switchnow that I type that out it sounds kinda stupid obviously they're not the same person... maybe I'm retarded
>>45011712>>45012798pretty dominant passoid transbians are ridiculously rare, what? almost every stealth or close passoid ive talked to is a bottom who wont top at all lmao>>45012842NA and everyone is also poly here lol. I have noticed more mono transbians on the apps lately tho so maybe nature is healing >>45012831yeah its also this ngl, supply and demand. pretty top transbians can have almost anyone they want so you need to be bringing a lot to the table for a relationship
>>45015564bro, stealth trannies are rare, no shit top stealth trannies are rare lol
>>45015591however they exist and i've had sex w some, a lot of which said they were bottoms starting off, idk, a lot of people are more fine with it than they think. i mean they grew up watching the same porn moids watch, if they want to fuck you they'll do it
>>45015615are you in a tranny mecca like the pnw or something? i barely even see transbian stealthers at all here, much less ones willing to top
>>45015642yeah i'm not in the pnw but it is a pretty big tranny city so that might be the problem
>>45015642how would u see stealthers?
>>45015753stealth passing people on apps and stuff
