For some context I'm 19F and my brother is 21M, we live with our grandmother. We've always been rather close, he helped pay for my hrt when I was young and got me away from our abusive parents, he stopped me from killing myself on several occasions, he's my only real family and I love him. So I was around 17 we got drunk off some lemonade vodka that he stole some from my grandpa and after a while of shooting the shit he started saying how cute I was, so I kind of leaned into it and flirted hard. After we finished the both bottles, I ended up giving him a hand job and he touched my chest before we passed out (it wasn't very big yet, but felt good).We said we’d never do it again, and I've told him I forgive him on numerous occasions, but he felt like he took advantage of me, and hates himself for it. Despite that he’s been really affectionate with me, he gives me kisses on the forehead and calls me his little sis sometimes which makes me really happy, and we've been spending so much time together, watching movies and cuddling while we do. I've enjoyed spending more time with him, and definitely given him at least a few boners so I think maybe I have a chance, he’s said I'm really pretty and yesterday joked that "I would totally date you if we weren't related". I was scared so I didn't play into it, though I wish I had. I think we could even go on dates since we don't look too similar...I just love spending time with him and I wish I could be his girlfriend and make him happy, which I know is stupid, I'm clearly brainrotted by all the incest posts here, but I have never met a guy as nice as him and I don't think I ever will. I don't even really want other men who have asked me out, I want him.The problem is I'm really afraid I might fuck it up because I can't imagine going without his care and affection anymore, since I've become very reliant on it, I don't wanna scare him away but I think I'm in love with him. Do I have a shot? Any ideas on what to do?
Is he into you? If he really regrets it then you might not have a chance, but I think you should go for it.
>>45034105This is a larp post sweetie
>>45034062Please dont try to have sex with your brother sir
>>45034105He says I'm cute, takes care of me, cooks for me, spends time with me and listens to my problems. I haven't been able to bring what we did together up recently, but I feel like maybe we could move past that.
>>45034111>>45034113If you're not gonna take what I'm saying in good faith then honestly just fuck off. I'm not larping, I just wanna know if I've got a real shot with him, I'm not good at this kind of thing and people here seem a lot more experienced with familial stuff.
>>45034128>the good ol "I'm not larping" responseBaby this is 4chan, you're making an incest post. This is a larp. BecUse only in larp world (or in an extremely poor, uneducated city) will you have a chance with your brother
>>45034111Aren’t larps usually more wish fulfillment, this seems rather tame no? OP is retarded, but I don’t think they’re larping.
>>45034128I mean it when I say this please try to get some help you shouldnt try and have sex with your brother
>>45034138>>45034145I live in Vermont. I don't mind not having sex with him, but it's not like we can have babies. I just wanna be with him, he makes me feel safe and comforted. I want him to be happy and it bothers he that he seems so depressed and lonely.
>>45034152Then be there for him as his brother you dont need to have a romantic relationship with him dude
>>45034158I'm his sister, he calls me his sister, I am a girl. I look like a woman, sound like a woman, so I'd appreciate if you not push your anti trans beliefs on me. I want to make him happy in a way that I would also find satisfying, I just don't know how to go about it, he's warm and kind and it feels good to be near him. I just don't know how to know if he's interested in dating.
>>45034169You dont always need to chase what is satisfying for him just be his sibling (read brother) without blowing up everyone's life, it seems like you just want someone to indulge what you already want to do but just for posterity it is deeply depraved. Regardless dont alienate your brother you wont get another one
>>45034062No fucking way. It’s not the same so maybe I’m wrong but is that you Lily?
>>45034179Sorry that's not my name, you're just really confused.
he already feels guilty and predatory for that handjob stuffdont push that role on himsure it feels nice to be the innocent younger sister with minimal blamebut dont put your brother in a morally wuestionable position just to fulfil your fantasy
>>45034202That's why I want him to feel better about it. I don't want him to live with that kind of guilt forever, he doesn't deserve to feel so horrible, not when he took care of me and protected me. He means a lot which is why I at the very least want him to stop feeling so bad about what we did together.
>>45034139>but I don’t think they’re larpingWhy? Lol because the way the post was written? U slow...
>>45034200If you are her, I wouldn’t say I’m against it, even if you’re not maybe go talk to him and see how he feels. Just bring up how you like spending time with him and try to flirt. See how he reacts.
>>45034222I’ve known people who have done semi incestous things with their family, and been molested by an older sibling. It looks like OP has formed a fantasy life around one moment of weakness, this just sounds like stuff I might do with my sister if she were trans and needed the validation.
>>45034233I appreciate the advice but I swear I'm not your sister. Sorry.
>>45034222>>45034244I'm not larping, and it's not the same as when we were teens, he's very physical with his affection. I don't know if he reciprocates it and is maybe repressing, I just know this is definitely different from how we were a few months ago, and I'm liking it. A lot.
>>45034062I am OPs brother, please suck me off in bed again… my dick needs you.
>>45034282It happened in the basement, not our beds you dumbass. Stop larping as my brother please.
>>45034174Curious if you think incest can actually work?
>>45034386Not it cant, him larping as a sister was bad enough too btw but trying to have sex with a relative is next level
>>45034386does it even matter if they're both guys? the biggest issue with incest is fucked up offspring, which isn't an issue here
>>45034062Yes.
>>45034420Plus tranny incest is pretty decent. If she started E early then she probably passes so there isn’t actually all too many downsides if they do end up dating.Plus she clearly wants to make her big brother a very happy man, why not let her? No harm in a bit of familial comfort…
>>45034397They already had sex, it was minor but she gave him a hand job and he touched her tranny titties so they are already in incest territory.
>>45034729He gave him a handjob but you could come back from that in theory before ruining the relationship forever
The way I see it there are multiple things going on. 1.) your brother feels guilty, even though it didn't hurt you. Maybe he feels that way because in his mind he did take advantage of you, he waited until you were drunk or so. You can reassure him that he didn't hurt you, but you can't see inside his mind and he has moral autonomy. Be aware that repeating that may cause feelings of guilt (where you see them as justified or not) in him again. It might be his mind's way of interpreting his discomfort at the incest.2.) you seem to share a deep trauma bond. that's the kind of extreme circumstances that can lead to the classic anti-incest instincts not functioning. you seem to be coping well without incest right now.3.) at your ages, romantic relationships (unfortunately) are not that stable. Imagine you date for a few months/years, and then break up. You've lost your lover, best friend, and brother. Alternatively, you can have a brother-sister relationship which will probably last forever, through thick and thin. Bear that in mind.At the end of the day, it's your (plural) choice. Either way, you should probably talk with him about it; in case you decide against persuing a relationship it could still be fruitful to put the question to rest.
>>45034723honestly, considering the parents aren't involved and there's no chance of introducing problems with offspring, why not?the societal rejection of incest is mostly down to procreation, so taking that out of the picture there's not much reason to avoid it really.
>>45035512i agree with this and think that in this scenario the best option is probably just to explain everything.really, even if he doesn't want to pursue a relationship, i can't imagine based on what op has said already that his brother wouldn't at least understand his feelings, even if it ends up not being reciprocated. it'd be difficult to break the friendship/brotherhood they have, so why not confess? at the very least you can say you did it and not have any regrets later.
>>45034128there's no "good faith take" on degenerates like you
>>45034062that's hot. the one advantage of being a tranny is that we never have to worry about getting pregnant, i mean in general, but also that'd mean the only bad thing about incest is completely out of the equasion, go for it nona!!
>19F>FJUST TWO OL' GAY BOYS WHACKIN' THEIR WILLIES
