Idk like really exactly who I need to talk to for this to be accomplished but like do you think you guys(really mostly just the trans women) could be nicer, not even like to me but just generally.It feels as though one in three troons wanna play the "mean girl" role as a personality or otherwise be unable to stop the nonstop ""trolling/baiting"" and its just really embarrassing, it doesn't work, it literally just comes off as incredibly lowbrow chauvinist aggression to like decide to just wake up and be an asshole to people around u especially if you consider them your friends? Like we really dropping the ball every single time when it comes to optics here or the amount of cases where trannies the larger source of transphobia pushing their peers to self harm behavior and suicide.Feel free to share the most mean things other trans women have said or done to you if interested. Like and subscribe if ur a real nicemoder.
>>45036327My New Year’s resolution is to be nice I’m doing a good job so far sorry for being mean(This doesn’t apply to transbians I’ll always bully them sorry)
Most trannies are actually quite nice IRL. The thing about mean trannies is that you can be sure that their lives and self-image are a complete fucked up mess and they probably hate themselves more than anyone. Which is funny. Always make sure to mock mean trannies to their faces about their deepest insecurities.
>>45036327i mean you have a nice point but once you get around more trans women you relize this is not the energy i want in my life demotivated, undisciplined, lazy girls. I'm passionate about life and almost demand the same from others. Keep shit pushing and support each other
>>45036327I try to balance brvtal unflinching honesty with being laidback and accepting so I am treated by disdain by both mean and nice posters, but I'm not going to deman people change for my sake, that's not how I wanna be in the world
>>45036425You can't rly be supportive if your simultaneously just ego stroking and being an asshole tho, but then equating it to benefitting them I don't think seems like just a poor justification
>>45036448I think people have conflated "being honest" as an excuse to just behave asocially prob due to autism
>>45036510I don't think that's what I'm doing, I don't try to tear down communities or groups, and you can't deny that the pressure to be positive can be stifling to a lot of people. I hope to make them feel included
>>45036548>The pressure to be positive can be stifling to alot of peopleLegitimately what?If it's easier in your brain to just choose to be an asshole over being nice then you are the problem exactly. Being mean, insulting, degrading has literally never been an effective teaching tool
Concern trolling. Optics are a forced meme.
>>45036666Your quads prove otherwise, demonic fuck.
>>45036649I don't consider others as problems to be solved or pupils to be taught so I think our perspectives are fundamentally different here
>>45036686Anon. You don't think those repeating digits signify anything, do you?
>>45036712They signify a funny coincidence. How's your campaign with trans-genocide?
>>45036729Who said genocide?Why do you have genocide on the mind anon?
>>45036688I think everyone should be arriving to learn regardless everyday, if your perspective is legitimately that it's mentally challenging to be nice you need to Darwin , why are trannies the only kind of people to push back against the concept of "being nice is good and chill" there should not need to be reasoning provided for someone to really naturally do it lol
>>45036666I think what's worse than concern trolling is the troons that literally only do troll and bait because their terminally chudbrained and never formulated a real female personality
Hey, to all the people who believe there is something special about me.Maybe i'm wrong about that optics thing.
>>45036327I don't know any trans people in real life but every online trans space (reddit especially) consists of endlessly insulting eachother and thinly veiling it as being self deprecating. Most commonly when someone is venting about a bad physical trait like ribcage, and there will be people in this replies complaining about having way better measurements that the OP. Or someone is sad that they were forced to rep until a later age and people will chime in about how early they got on HRT or that if you transition after X age you're a neverpasser that should die. Don't respond to a post of someone with financial difficulties by talking about how you stealth at a top STEM job (I have seen this).I feel like my mom saying this but before saying something you have to think how it makes other people feel. Appearing sympathetic is a skill girls develop from a young age so acting like a sassy drag queen serving cunt is malebrained if anything. Mean girls still exist obviously but they still have a "empathy mode" switch they can turn on and they usually use it to bully people more.
>>45037018>Appearing sympathetic is a skill girls develop from a young ageHoly trvke
>>45037018i believe that the internet has gotten less empathetic in general, but ive realized its hit trans communities really hard. trans communities reek of constant jealously for one another, finding small things to pick apart in others appearances, and its really just a circlejerk on who can be the meanest. i really wish everybody just got along, as childish and naive as that sounds.
>>45036327It is what it is, one of the greatest lessons I ever learned as a reppresed transwomen (at the time), was that there is no honor among women. I get what you mean though, unfortunately you can't let your guard down around us, maybe things will be better when trans people are more accepted and cis people are less curl towards us.>>45036353this
>>45038045It's a nice wish.
Mfs always be like "yeah but trans girls irl are nice!" Ok? Why don't you be like them then if you make it sound that easy, instead of pretending other people being nice is coming from you directly
>>45038045It probably doesn't help that trans spaces are a lot more early teenagers now where in the past it was mostly more mature people in their 20s
>>45037018>Appearing sympathetic is a skill girls develop from a young age so acting like a sassy drag queen serving cunt is malebrained if anything. Mean girls still exist obviously but they still have a "empathy mode" switch they can turn on and they usually use it to bully people more.This desu plus learning from a young age the social pecking order and your place in it. I don't like playing meangirl games at all and find them tiring, but I have done it in situations where somebody really should've known better because that's part of female socialization. I don't know if that makes me a bad person and I'm coping, but I would like to think it's at least reducing the harm those types cause to others.
>>45038288>but I would like to think it's at least reducing the harm those types cause to others.What types do you mean?
>>45038294imagine an HSTS semipassoid who gets her first boyfriend and thinks it makes her Regina George
>>45038302Okay yeah I see what you mean
>>45036985Darwin? I've barely pushed back against anything you said. You've been insinuating I need to end my life for no reason. I think this is kind of what I meant earlier, that the nice trannies are only pressuring people to be like them in some way and stifle others.
>>45036327I will never be a woman so I'll be an asshole instead.
>>45036985I thought about it more and think I understand it better now. I believe in evolution too, I recognize the social pecking order too, I just don't feel a need to teach others since everything and everyone will be sorted out by the iron laws of nature sooner or later and I want to learn from others more than I want to teach, maybe it's selfish of me in a way but I won't change. Our perspectives aren't that different, it's my motivation that's different.
I'm getting 4chan fatigue from op
>>45037018Yes, autists and flamers and autistic flamers will never fully comprehend sympathy or even appearing sympathetic, which is why trans spaces, including this one, can be inhospitable
It really doesn't matter to me what you feel or how I come across to you. Nice? I'll act nice, but when you get to know me better you'll realize it's just a polite mask and you mean absolutely nothing to me, and you start taking everything I say as a personal attack because you can't accept you don't matter to me. So fuck you.
I'm horny..... 12 different flavors of cock :3
I don't understand. Why would you people ever want to be apart of "the trans community?" just pass or don't. simple as. why intentionally interact with trans people when there are plenty of perfectly good cis people?
>>45036327I'm going to regret putting this out there because it'll lead to something insane. You can boil down a lot of issues to needing only 1 other person to accomplish your goal of external validation. A lover. Everything else is extra. Family followed by friends can come after but even that is shaky ground. Now, people will start having issues when relationship problems co-mongle with identity. If you have problems with your relationship then you may have an double issue with self perception. The good news is that nobody starts out in a relationship. You build your identity and also, maybe a spot for someone else to build around each other. I would start there before trying to FOSTER an entire community. Social media validation doesn't count, sonic discord is for marketing and to brainwash people. Just like "niceness" for the sake of it. Knowing someone is mean often clears a lot of known variables for me. Meaning: if we're going to have teatime then you better act the part, even if some of the guests are rude. Consider the host if you aren't one. If you want to be a host then you should be a good one.
i mean ywah dog if theres any space people are going to be mean on(iregardless of trannystatus) its going to be an anonymous imageboard with no real life consequences for their actions
