>IF YOU WANT TO BE A GURL YOU CAN BE A GURL>Fall for the meme>take HRT>years pass>get FFS>All things considered fairly content with how I look, aesthetically pass >Have nothing in common with women in terms of brain, personality, hobbies, interests, sociability, literally anything besides appearance >realize I'm not even transsexual I just hate myself and everything about me What do you even do from here.
>>45039619You know what to do. The final solution, the one where there is no coming back from. Detransitioning and becoming and anti-transition activist
>>45039628If I was femalebrained I wouldn't have a problem here to begin with.
>>45039619another humblebrag thread
>succeed in achieving goal>"wtf I don't meet the external criteria for wanting what I want"You don't have to justify yourself. Becoming content with how you looked was your goal and you should be proud that you achieved it. You belong to your own self, so it's perfectly fine to be who you want to be just because you want to.Your neuroticism about this is very female brained at least.
>>45039724Boo hoo it's not another greentext Twitter screenshot or fetish/chaser bait thread.
>>45039619>take HRT and pass within a few months>transition socially and at work, accepted by others>hobbies are so fembrained (yoga, crafting, taking baking classes) that I struggle to meet single men>still haven't dated anyone :(
>>45039619you are terminally spooked, bust those ghosts and be happy
>>45039886My goal was to escape being an autistic male and become a woman. I failed miserably.
>>45040036I don't believe you
>>45040048I don't know what I can do to convince you.
Nona you do not have to follow stereotypical gender norms just make sure you have a passing voice and ur good
>>45040099You can only convince yourself because you are being neurotic
>>45040111I can't into voice training. Makes me want to kill myself. I'd like to, that's my one other regret. I'm not seeking to follow stereotypical gender norms but the fact I don't follow anything at all is very damning.
>>45040175Detransition then lazy bitch
>>45039619Yeah Nona I feel for you I don’t pass and am a manmoder but I do go out sometimes femme presenting, I think of myself as nonbinary because I am definitely malebrained but then a normal cus male isn’t drawn to look and act and feel more feminine. Anyway I’ve been on hrt for a few years now and it’s kinda getting apparent that I’m always going to look very male and not approach at least androgynous twinkhon territory, and the women and more passing transwomen I interact with definitely don’t treat me like one of the girls, I can tell the mentaly group me with the guys from their body language and small tells. So I’m glad I’ve never gone out and told everyone I’m connected to
>>45040207I tried for months and still made no progress. I already "detransitioned," I don't call myself a woman or consider myself one.
>>45040251Stop taking hrt?
>>45040281I've tried several times but I'm pain sensitive and can't get over the barrier of the three months it takes to detox. I'm not trans so why does it matter if I still take it.
Im transitiong out of self sabatoge
>>45040175yes you can>>45040207>>45040281kys
>>45039619So you have the good part of a woman and not the bad parts?Wife material