>be me straight mtf (18)>live in omega red state but have pretty left leaning friends>develop a crush on a supportive bi guy friend>been driving him around and hanging out with him for a while>driving him home from a hangout>the topic of dating guys gets brought up (we both have been single for our entire lifes)>he says he wouldnt date a guy because he is worried about what people would think>I ask him if he would date a trans person>he says no because he doesnt want to be seen as a chaser>kinda freeze for a second then quickly change the topic>dropped him off at his home 30 minutes later>starts crying on the way back to my placewhy did I have to be born in this fag body. why couldnt I just be normal, I could probably be his gf if I was born normal. I just need to get it over with and rope.
girl are you stupid that was a cue for you to jump in and advocate for both him and yourself. you can still be his gf
>>45046018I live in a very red state too as a bi cism, and I would date a cism, or a transgirl, but I also get afraid I would be ostracized by my very religious family
>>45046018Omg girl he is in to you, you were supposed to say "whats wrong with being a chaser? Or something"
>>45046212>>45046018My bf who I didnt know was a chaser initially indicated to me that he was interested by dropping that when he's depressed he seeks out femboys on grindr (men arent always the smartest)Eventually he just revealed his feelings for me, but I speak from experience when men say this stuff its because they dont know how to flirt
>>45046018uh oh looks like there's negative outcomes from a culture of insisting everyone attracted to you is a predatory monster wuh oh whoopsie doodle LMAO
