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QotT: What's something you fantasize about that you would never want to experience in real life?

QotT 2: What's the most confusing experience you've had with someone else's perception of your sexuality?

FAQ:
>Am I bi if I like women and femboys/traps?
>Am I bi if there's this one member of the same-sex I'm desiring, but normally I like the opposite sex?
>Am I bi if I sexually like both sexes, but only interested in romance with one of them?
Yes, sexual attraction to both sexes is bisexuality.
>What's the difference between bisexual and pansexual?
Only difference is that our flag is prettier.
>Am I bi if i have periods where I feel only attracted to women and others where I feel only attracted to men?
This is known as the bi-cycle and many bisexuals experience it.
>Am I bi or am I 'prison gay' or porn addicted?
'Prison gay' is not a real thing and porn addiction does not alter your sexual orientation. You are bi.
>Am I bi or pan if I like trans people?
Both are able to be attracted to trans people.
>I think I might be bi but I can't tell. How can I be certain?
Just make a point to check out members of the sex you think you might be attracted to and see if anyone grabs your attention.
>Should I be harsh on myself?
You should be kind on yourself. Few people will do it for you

Previous Thread: >>45002636

Resource for Bisexuals:
https://biresource.org/
The Bisexual Manifesto:
https://bimanifesto.carrd.co/#manifesto
lgbt inclusive friend server, join if you want:
https://discord.gg/gejUmDBzMG
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>>45076430
>QotT: What's something you fantasize about that you would never want to experience in real life?
Have a man turn me and my girl into his live-in full-time slaves as part of his harem.

>QotT 2: What's the most confusing experience you've had with someone else's perception of your sexuality?
Some people can tell I'm bi and some are completely surprised, never know why.
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Do women hate bisexual men as much as people online say, or is it an exaggeration?
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>>45076769
it's a meme
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>>45076769
In my experience they do
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>>45076769
Some do, some don't care, but some are super into bi guys. I like the third group (and they like me!)
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>>45076769
It’s extremely polarizing, majority hate it but a few love it. Keep it under wraps unless you know for sure she’s a kinky degen fujo who’d be into it
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>>45076791
I remember when my mom found out the guy she was seeing was bisexual, she looked utterly devastated. I honestly think women are less disgusted by pedophiles than bi guys.
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>>45076921
larp
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>>45076942
lol no it was funny though. I walked into the living room and my mom and sister had that look and vibe like they had to tell me my grandma died or something. After that I knew to never tell a girl I'm a bisexual.
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>>45076921
Well yeah, because women want to be fucked by real men and real men aren’t turned on by other men.
Gays aren’t trying to fuck them so they’re not a threat and it doesn’t matter
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>posting weak ass bait in the bi thread
Nostalgic
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>>45077000
ive seen manlier gay men than straight men
gay men usually put more effort into their physical appearance and look strong and chiseled; meanwhile the average straight man has a big pregnant belly and b cups and an overall doughy build
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>>45077000
>real men aren’t turned on by other men
yeah, only imaginary men for sure
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>retards still taking the bait
At least people weren't retarded back when I posted
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>>45076430
>q1

Being gangbanged while looking like a femboy. Just the amount of work before and after to make that sort of thing happen. It'd probably be emotional before and after and yadda yadda. Otherwise it's fantasies about stuff that is impossible like transforming and such.

>q2

People just don't usually ping me as bi. It doesn't usually come up in conversations.
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>>45076769
In my experience they either love it or hate it - very few are neutral or indifferent about it. Unfortunately the hater group seems much larger than the lover group
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>>45076430
>QotT 1
Guro or actually getting raped.

>QotT 2
Got beaten up for "looking like a faggot" by a group of strangers out of nowhere way before I was more open about being bi.
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recently found porn with someone who has almost my exact body and it feels weird as fuck to watch.
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>>45077642
I like to watch porn with people who look just like me and my wife.
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>>>45075166
>maybe i will now that u mention it but also im pretty confident im heterosexual
Haven't you always been open about being heterosexual?
>so like i dont wanna intrude on any spaces here ykwim
You're always welcome here. Didn't you start posting here because the folk in the mtf general were just generally unhinged?
>i know ive been popular in the past for my ahem “assets”
You have a very pretty face.
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>>45077420
>gurofriend in the bigen
I love how guro friends are either the worst most bigoted pieces of slavic shit in existence who enjoy it because they hate women, or the most diverse and accepting group of people who enjoy it because they think insides are pretty and separate it from sadism, with absolutely no inbetween.
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>>45058588
I... I can see her nipples HNGGH!!!
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>>45076769
>*taps the sign*
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>>45077957
Look at all those virtue signaling bi women. They know they wouldn't date a fag.
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>>45077957
>only 53% of men would date a bisexual woman
That doesn't align with any version of reality I've ever lived in. Men love that they can talk about women to their woman. Is this exclusively boomers or some shit?
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>>45078019
it's some bait shit data from the uk
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Test
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>>45078292
icle
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>>45076800
>unless you know for sure she’s a kinky degen fujo who’d be into it
ITS ME THEYRE TALKING ABOUT ME I LOVE JACKED BISEXUAL MEN
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>>45078310
Gay boy.
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Here's the full article:
https://yougov.com/en-gb/articles/55602-two-thirds-of-straight-women-are-unwilling-to-date-a-bisexual-man
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>>45078019
>>45078359
https://yougov.com/en-gb/articles/55602-two-thirds-of-straight-women-are-unwilling-to-date-a-bisexual-man
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>>45078317
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>>45078388
Yeah... thats me...
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>>45078690
You're probably wondering how I ended up here
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I love my boyfriend. He's so wonderful in so many ways. I want to spend my life with him, and be with nobody else.

But I'm a stupid bishit so I just crave women sometimes.
I kind of miss being too traumatised to actually enjoy sex. This shit sucks.
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>>45079055
the way that ive dealt with this is by dating people that i really like and then it's less of an issue
like, i will date them because i like them specifically and im not overly concerned about gender, etc
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>>45079088
It's not an issue often! Cuz I do really like him.
It's just that being with a woman is different, and I miss that.
I know this is probably entry level shit but it's the first time I've actually had a stable long term relationship with a guy, so it's a new experience for me.
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I thought my dick was dead due to heavy HRT usage and a lack of willpower to masturbate or have sex, but my partner quickly proved how alive it still is
The human body is fascinating
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>>45079125
congrats on your boner

>>45079110
i think it is kinda human condition to want what you can't have, and not really a bi specific thing
look at straights, they do the same thing but it's more like i want to fuck a girl with big tits, etc
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Do you still stalk your ex’s social media profiles?
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>>45079088
This stops working when you stop dating and commit. Good luck.
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>>45079440
longest relationship was around 7 years

>>45079435
im still friends with some of them, i don't stalk any of them
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I always fapped to traps and tranny porn since a teenager, but never found any guys attractive irl until this year at like age 34. He was black and cute as fuck, seriously thought he was a girl at first. Unfortunately he was much younger and had a boyfriend. I don't think I'll ever be with a guy given my extremely low rate of attraction to them, but it was nice to experience it outside of porn and feel okay with it. I never had a reason to be openly bi since I never planned to act on it, but if it was him I would have went all in.

Anyone else only experience attraction to either sex very rarely?
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>>45079465
Commit means marriage
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>>45079492
it's ok to have a type or only be attracted to some small amount of guys
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>>45079552
Of course, it just happened waaay too late for me. I missed the window for dating femboy twinks.
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>>45079574
u are 34 that's not that old
u aren't like the grandpas hitting people up on grindr yet
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>>45079604
Yeah but it was a very rare instance of same sex attraction for me, don't think it will happen again anytime soon. It was just a cool experience.
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>>45079492
Not really. I think I'm probably a 3 or 4 on the kinsey so I see what I consider an attractive guy almost every time I go out. If anything, I feel like being bi has let me recognise that women aren't really that hotter on average than men, despite it being the modern online meme consensus. Though it may be more difficult if you're only attracted to a certain archetype of guy who doesn't really exist IRL much
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>>45079125
I was on sertraline and it was fucking up my boners, but I'd still jerk off and power through it. Eventually my boners went back to normal.
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>>45079968
THIS is the getaway driver you hired?!
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>>45064793
i got distracted bu t im back thank you for fulfilling my wish !!!
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>>45079435
I would never date someone who uses basedcial media
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>>45078359
>>45078381
I mean I am unwilling to date straight people so I can't be too mad I guess.
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>>45080297
I'm unwilling to date cishet women because most of them hate bi men. Found that through my own lived experience and the poll just corroborates what i already know.
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>>45080381
Yeah that's so fair. I just find most (cis) straight people pretty retarded and when it comes to sexuality and gender stuff so I just don't bother. I'd date a straight trans woman though.
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>>45080430
>I’d date a straight trans woman though.
like me?
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>>45079574
You still have some time anon, I’m in the same boat as you. Just stop wasting time and do what you want to NOW before you’re 40 and you’ll be good
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>>45080297
I understand your reasoning, but damn that narrows down your dating pool significantly
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>>45076769
It’s pretty much as people say but as others have pointed out there is also a significant number of women who prefer bi men, most of them are bisexual, a lot are fujos (whether true yaoi reader fujos or the more archaic pre-weeb form where they just like watching guys kiss and/or fuck). These women are in general easier to get along with and less likely to cause drama (though it’s impossible to completely avoid that with women, hysterics will happen at some point). Straight, “woke”, and especially feminist women have to lampshade their homo/biphobia because it admitting to it essentially invalidates most of their positions about oppression politics by outing them as entirely self interested and still being extremely bigoted
>>45078011
Yes they would, bisexual women (the ones who aren’t larping straight women) are by far the most likely to want to date bi men, in fact they have a stronger preference for bi men than gay men or other bi men do. Every woman I’ve seriously dated was bi and even the majority of women I’ve had sex with were bi.
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>TQ1
Getting gangbanged by strangers. But the reason I wouldn’t want this is the risk of disease rather than the experience itself.
>TQ2
Other people insisting or insinuating that I was just gay, especially when my mother did it after I’d been out to her as bisexual for more than half a decade and at a time when I was dating one of her female colleagues, which she deliberately interfered with. It doesn’t bother me so much when strangers or acquaintances assume I’m gay because I’m a bit androgynous and wear jewellery and women’s jackets/boots but when someone who knows me and has seen me date, fall in love with, and even get my heart broken by women and still insist I must be gay that I find it confusing and annoying. The next person who does that to me I’m going to do the same shit back to them constantly until they leave my life and never come back into it.
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>>45076769
Some do, some dont. If she does then she is not the kind of person I want to be with anyways. Girls get a sense than I am different that’s why they like me. But I only tell them im bi if it’s getting serious. Not a single girl I told (~10) ever had a problem with it. Some wanted to explore with me.
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>>45077000
its incredibly manly to want to fuck a mn and not effeminate faggots aka women
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>>45076769
i love bisexual men, i want a bisexual chaser bf desu
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>>45080430
>I'd date a straight trans woman though.
Same, cishet women are foids and straight trans women are queens.
>>45080646
Queen detected.
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Movie starts in 3 hours (9 PM GMT / 4 PM EDT)!!
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See you there!
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>>45077795
I used to be a gurofren but I kinda repressed that side of me. I only like really specific things and am disgusted by others so it was always hard to find porn/imagery I liked anyway.
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>>45080646
How big is your cock?
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>>45083397
why are you like this
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>>45083397
Elite level flirting right here
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>>45083397
bruh
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>>45079435
I check on her and everyone else I cut out of my life maybe once a year
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i miss Chiang kai shek
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>>45083732
-20,000 social credit
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>>45083397
Found the size queen.
>>45083732
Average bisexual shower thought.
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>>45083397
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>>45083397
small leave me alone
and i DONT top and i wanna get it cut off
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>>45082955
starting in 10!
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>>45084246
Why even respond with the actual answer lmao, now he's gonna keep doing it
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>>45084403
As if the first 5 (You)s didn't already guarantee that
So many morons
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>>45084246
>cutting your cock off

Bro...
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>>45083109
Understandable repression. Since you're bi though you have the magic power of only ever looking at male guro, which ime always leans more toward the artistic. Alas, finding good community for that is literally just finding decent individuals in possibly unrelated places.
I'd post some examples, but y'know. Bans.

>>45082955
Tell me honestly 4chan, is this discord worth going to because I do like me some horror movie night.
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>>45085001
it's a movie server mostly join if u want it's not that deep lol
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>reading about dead celebrity
>personal life
>sexuality
>[insert fag hag celebrity] confirmed [dead celebrity] was gay.

every time
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>What's something you fantasize about that you would never want to experience in real life
being v-coded as a buff prisoner's tranny prison wife
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>>45085206
name more than 1 example
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>>45085289
>v-coded
I had to look up what that meant but wtf
I hope that's not an actual thing
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>>45086174
Let's just pretend it's not but try not getting convicted of anything
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>>45086383
I'm not trans, so I wouldn't exactly be on that end of the code anyway if I were to go to prison lmao
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>>45086399
It's still good advice regardless
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>>45086409
True. I will consider not going to jail in the future
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Self inserting in femboy on female hentai again.

I need a fucking girlfriend.
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>>45086517
post socks
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>>45086517
I wonder if more or less women would be willing to date a straight femboy than they would a bi man
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>>45086989
women love femboys unironically, and bi men
you're probably just ugly
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>>45076430
>qott
most of the porn stuff I watch
>qott2
Not many. They just assume I'm straight.
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>>45087107
Ehh, I think you're wrong. But it was a sincere question. I would guess more women are okay with fem-ish men today due to things like K-pop and such being popular, but I imagine it's still a minority compared to ones that exclusively like masculine men
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>>45087107
>you're probably just ugly

Stop reminding me.
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>>45087487
don't want to be a prick but someone has to point out the obvious
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>>45078317
I LOVE CHUBBY BISEXUAL MEN!
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>>45087727
>tfw lanky big dicked nerd
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>>45087725
I'm trying. Getting washboard abs is so fucking hard.
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>>45088862
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>>45089002
I never understand why people post this for conventionally attractive people
Obviously people would have sex with hot people
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>>45089169
I agree that the person in the pic is attractive, but it would still be a minority of people who would be down to bang an androgynous looking twink(?)
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>>45089169
you're autistic
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>>45089305
You're in a bi thread
>>45089549
I'm on 4chan, of course I'm fucking autistic
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>>45089559
are people not allowed to like things and express it?
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>>45089559
>You're in a bi thread
Sure, but like the other anon insinuated, it's not meant in a serious way, it's just a funny reaction image is all
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>>45089598
You're more autistic than I am if that's your takeaway from what I said
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i played pool for the very first time the other night it was fun
>>45084427
anon finds out what sex incongruence is
>>45084403
i like to educate the masses
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>>45089660
ive been taking my meds! god bless zoloft
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>>45089688
>i like to educate the masses
About your penis size...?
Fair enough, it's your life I guess
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>>45084246
Please don't it off, you're such a beautiful woman with your penis, how else am I supposed to ever play with it and have it inside if gorgeous girls like you start getting rid of it?
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>>45089752
I know this is almost certainly ragebait, but it made me want to vomit a little bit regardless. Genuinely the grossest way to type that stuff out, bravo
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>>45089752
>>45089023
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>>45089776
>tells a woman she's beautiful the way she is
>oh it's not ceratinly a ragebait
Ok. You're head problems are not mine to deal with. If I wanted to bang a chic I would but I also like penis and I only want it from true, more feminine women.
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>>45088862
>You've got your mother in a whirl
>She's not sure if you're a boy or a girl
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>>45090019
If you're too autistic to understand to understand what's wrong with your previous post, that's on you
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>>45076430
>Join server
>Introduce myself
>say hi
>get kicked
????
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Movie starts in 2 hours (9 PM GMT / 4 PM EDT)!!
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>>45090448
>>45089776
Trannies are delusional. This is the bi thread because there are two binary genders. Mutilation is not good for you.
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>>45091436
go make your own thread, or maybe just kill yourself instead
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>>45091436
I'm a regular cis guy, you're just weird and creepy dude
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>>45091445
>>45091540
>they never call you a liar

Please do not harm yourselves. Self mutilation isn't healthy.
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where did this weird troll come from, is it that gincel fag?
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>>45091734
No idea, but definitely someone projecting unhappiness about their own life onto everyone else
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>>45091734
>dont cut your body up
>weird

Also forgot to quote >>45091661
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wish the jannies gave a fuck on this shit board
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>>45091792
Me too. So calls to violence like this were banned. >>45091445
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>>45091839
Aren't you 31? Get a fucking life man
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>>45091893
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>>45090448
You're just too fat, lazy and ugly to point out what's wrong with it.
>to understand to understand
Ok retard breathe calmly next time, I didn't mean to cause you a fit, only had to say that I'll only take dick from a woman.
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hi friends, i recently started defining myself as "bi" even though I'm not really into men - i like sucking dicks and playing with my ass, but I mostly dislike other men, and in general I much prefer having sex with women.
Is this "normal"? like, does it make sense that you like to fool around with dicks but don't really like what's attached to them?
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>>45092967
Thats pretty much me. I am enamored by women in every way. But im hypersexual and love having sex. sex with men is fun. I even like some men's bodies...but Im enamored with penis and things in my ass feel amazing so...sex I have. I have never had the slighest romantic or emotional attraction to a man.
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>>45088862
who?
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so, bigen:
r u huffing the boy pits or girl pits?
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alive website?
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>>45095047
We so back
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>>45095114
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>be me
>go on date
>he says i look even prettier in person
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>>45095214
I hope you fugged
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>>45094710
neither! am i the only person who thinks thats gross? maybe ive just never been in love enough? just the thought is making me gag

>>45095214
ouu shi
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>>45095225
we did his dick was big and he had nice biceps and a hot body and he was even cuter in person
he only lasted for 10-15 minutes though baka
>>45095340
>ouu shi
fym ouu shi
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>>45093523
>>45092967
what about trannies?
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men don't want me
women don't want me
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>>45096276
fish fear me
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>>45096276
What song is this
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I'm starting to realize I'm gayer than I like to admit but I'm stupid picky about the types of guys I like. Also with my ex bf one of the things that made me break up with him was seeing sexy women irl and in vidya and thinking I was missing out and really wishing I had a gf. I still like women, I think they're attractive but I can only really fall for women who are more dominant and tomboyish. That and I think pussy is gross. Before I started HRT I could reasonably fuck while not thinking about how I'm fucking pussy but now I have zero desire for penetrative sex whatsoever and feel more submissive in all aspects of my life. I think a guy would be best for my situation. I wouldn't see it as ideal but if I loved a man I would stay loyal to him and I wouldn't repeat the same mistake as my ex. I would stop wishing for more and just accept who I have in my life already and be reasonably happy.

Do I sound like I'm coping hard and a huge asshole?
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>>45096981
>Do I sound like I'm coping hard and a huge asshole?
not really

>I would stop wishing for more and just accept who I have in my life already and be reasonably happy.
there's nothing wrong with having standards but yeah, there is nuance there
like if u are just dumping/ghosting over nothing that sucks
but if ur partner is shitty and u leave that's reasonable right?
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>>45097010
>but if ur partner is shitty and u leave that's reasonable right?
He was not great. Neither was I, I might've even been worse than him. But I'm thinking about him again and while I never want him back I'm realizing I dumped him because
1. I didn't want to be seen as gay anymore
2. I thought I was missing out on women
3. Our conversations and sex got really boring
4. I got uncomfortable whenever we got genuinely intimate instead of having weird kinky sex/if we were having a heart to heart
5. He was rather childish and annoying. I mean so was I, but still
Other than #5, all of these either have to do with external shame, narcissism, settling into a life with someone. I feel like I was simply not mature enough to be a good boyfriend. And now I'm worried about making the same mistake with another guy.
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>>45097066
people aren't joking when they say relationships are a lot of work
i think it's good on some level to reflect where things went wrong, but also if you weren't happy in the relationship there's plenty of people out there and surely one of them will mesh with you
but yeah, don't just give up and leave if things aren't perfect either
you seem to have a handle on your issues, so i would say to address them and be open about these things with your future bf or whatever you end up dating
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>>45097115
>don't just give up and leave if things aren't perfect either
For sure. I almost thought I never addressed my problems with him but we had one or two talks about the stuff he was doing before I decided I had enough. I still feel just awful though, like guys are still my second choice and women are the real prize I'm after, even if for most of them there would be pretty big compatibility issues. It feels like I'm being disrespectful by default. Also sorry I'm all over the place, I'm only now thinking about the logistics of a relationship on HRT.
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>>45097149
so long as your partner isn't a chud or something i don't see being on hrt being that big of a deal
def be upfront about it when you meet people though to weed out the weirdos
maybe i exist in a bubble though
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My 9 month long distance gay relationship went tits up yesterday and I couldn't even come here to cry about it
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>>45097611
Should have sprung for the long distance sync sex toys
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>>45097611 (cont.)
It was December 2025. I met a guy through TikTok. We added each other on discord and talked a bunch. He was a very cute Twink who liked me back. There's like 2700km between us but regardless, we grow real close and affectionate (the biggest mistake). He was very sweet and loving but not without flaws. A big issue was his very brash sense of humor, which I often took offense to which led to us arguing a bunch. I wasn't perfect either, as for the first few months I led him to believe on two separate occasions that I was just leading him on and wanted to replace him with some girl in real life. (I wasn't and I didn't mean to, I was just indecisive). After the second time we made up and I felt determined to make it work with him more than anyone. Then we were good for a while. I got a job mainly to save up for seeing him and we set a deadline for a meetup. Now fast forward to a few days ago. We had a recent argument but I didn't think much of it because we usually bounced back from such incidents. But he just stayed dry. I keep trying to get him to talk and then he just texted me to leave him alone. So I did, for one whole day. It was agonizing, checking my phone constantly, trying to see if he would say anything. I eventually caved and reached out and begged him to talk. Then he said it: "we don't fit." Fair enough, maybe it's the cold hard truth. The worst part was that he said (after I asked him) that he felt this way for a "while" but just kept texting me because he liked texting me. Not only that, but he admitted that he had someone else on his mind, which was already enough for me to impulsively block him. Most worryingly, during that short conversation he kept saying that he wanted to be left alone for "a few weeks" to "see how it plays out". I basically read this as "yeah just leave me alone and let me shoot my shot with someone new and if it doesn't work out then we'll see." I quickly connected the dots and blocked/removed him everywhere.
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>>45097876
how does one meet another through tiktok and build a 9 month relationship from it. please i need tips
>I basically read this as "yeah just leave me alone and let me shoot my shot with someone new and if it doesn't work out then we'll see.
good read
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>>45097916
It was pure dumb luck (or should I say misfortune?)
We both liked deltarune and metal music. I followed him once and got ignored, then unfollowed him. Then maybe a month later he ended up reaching out to me and then it began.
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I really wanted it to be him bro :(
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>>45095927
what about them? best of both worlds, obviously
also I asked my question right before the php meltdown so asking again:
>hi friends, i recently started defining myself as "bi" even though I'm not really into men - i like sucking dicks and playing with my ass, but I mostly dislike other men, and in general I much prefer having sex with women.
Is this "normal"? like, does it make sense that you like to fool around with dicks but don't really like what's attached to them?
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>>45097066
Sounds to me like you used reason 1 & 2 as a way to justify wanting to break up, when 3 to 5 were the real issues
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>>45098477
>like, does it make sense that you like to fool around with dicks but don't really like what's attached to them?
sounds like meta attraction
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>>45097916
its luck, i met people online and built relationships and dated some of them for quite long time. it was always just trial and error.
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>>45077795
Apologies, inherited an IP from a b& range, so I couldn't post.
To me it's mostly interesting for how it would feel (on the receiving end), not blood or organs necessarily. Not trying to sound edgy - death doesn't bother me too much because I spend more than two decades thinking about it, even how it would feel.
Bit of a masochist and sometimes I can gain pain immunity that turns severe pain into pleasure, so there's a sexual component too. Still, would never do shit like that one Asian who had himself beheaded during orgasm.
Not been too much into it anymore recently and maybe that's for the best to keep SH thoughts as far away as possible.
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>>45095927
>what about trannies?
me>>45093523

I dont do trannies. no need. I like women for women and men for men- no need to confuse the issue
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>>45098477
>is this normal
I wouldn’t overthink it. You like what you like and you don’t need to justify it to anyone.
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BIGEN DAILY HALLOWEEN MOVIE MARATHON: DAY 22
>L'inferno (1911)
Movie starts in 3 hours (9 PM GMT / 4 PM EDT)!!
https://discord.gg/EmACbfGt8 (be 18+ and be nice and read the rules)
¡¡¡BE THERE OR BE SQUARE!!!
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>>45101370
i heart snail girls
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I love women
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I signed up for a French beginner evening class. It's a lot of fun, but fuck me is the connection (or lack of such) between spelling and pronounciation huge
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>>45102076
I'm going to start French classes too in December...the pronunciation scares me.
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>>45102213
I don't find the pronunciation itself that bad, but that might be due to my native language having a lot of similar sounds. I find it easier than Spanish at least
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>>45102256
>easier than Spanish
Huh?!
Spanish pronunciation is one of the easiest, similar to Japanese and Italian it's very syllabic and the vowel sounds are very easy. No weird diphthongs.
I guess Spanish grammar is pretty annoying though...
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>>45077957
OOF
at least, we still have a bigger dating pool than gays hehe
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>>45102329
>Spanish pronunciation is one of the easiest, similar to Japanese and Italian it's very syllabic and the vowel sounds are very easy.
Depending on what your native language is, sure. But mine (Danish) doesn't have rolling R's and is less clearly pronounced, but instead has nasal sounds, soft R's and excess letters etc. like French does.
>I guess Spanish grammar is pretty annoying though...
It is in terms of sheer volume yeah, but I will grant that the rules are also extremely firm, so if you do know them then you rarely get surprised by anything grammatically. So I definitely get where you are coming from with Spanish being easier for most people, but again I think your starting point matters a lot also.
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indians did an optics nuke for all brown men fr
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qott: I would like someone to threaten me with a gun as I find this hot but probavly wouldn't want this irll
qott2: two best friends, one thought I was a fag, one thought I was straight. Both argued. Odd
https://discord.gg/lostcord
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>guy that im dating is just as much of a degen as i am
>>45077742
>Haven't you always been open about being heterosexual?
i tried to psyop myself into being bi bc i felt lonely being a straight tranny but after my threesome w another woman i just dont think im attracted to femininity like at all
>You're always welcome here. Didn't you start posting here because the folk in the mtf general were just generally unhinged?
well yes but i also liked the attention
>You have a very pretty face
i was talking about my assets below the waist but ty <3
>>45077957
if u think thats bad try being a straight tranny
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I LOVE JACKED BISEXUAL MEN!!!
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>>45103127
me too anon if only they were in my dms
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>>45103127
IM WORKING ON IT!
>t. unjacked man
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8FPbQLVrOJU
applies to bis
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>>45076430
>QotT: What's something you fantasize about that you would never want to experience in real life?
While I was single and in one of my many hungover from a past relationship, I used to fantasize about Hookups as a bottom to a man, tried but never came around to it. I don't fantasize about it anymore though, I've move on to feel more dom who can switch, and way less into masc men than before (more a bisexual range of cis women to trans women with femboys and crossdressers in the middle)

>QotT 2: What's the most confusing experience you've had with someone else's perception of your sexuality?
Classic bisexual discrimination with a cis girl that I dated once. A lesbian friend had her gaydar going off charts with her, so I think she was repressing and projecting that repression on me.
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>>45103127
if only you loved coming up with something else and being a person with a bit of imagination
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>>45103127
real same
unfortunately it seems like none exist in my country
t.aussie passoid
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>>45103127
Don't listen to >>45103362, we appreciate you
t. jacked bisexual man
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>>45103312
id rather die alone than settle sorry
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>>45103312
Strongly disagree. In the past, I sorta went along with partners who seemed nice or met through friends or who started as fun hookups, but they weren't really great relationship matches for me. Inevitably got bored and had to break up with them.

I then did some soul searching, became really picky, didn't start another relationship for a couple years until I found the right partner for me. Absolutely the right decision. Should've kept things casual with every other partner before.
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A woman aggressively complemented my extremely long hair at the store today
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I need to slim down maybe 4 kgs. the next 2 months are gonna suck
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I'm a short and fat bisexual man so I get no dick or pussy
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>>45103312
>"Even when the LGBTQ+ community is supposed to rise above capitalism or gender roles"
I swear socialism/communism is the most succesful psyop against non-straight people ever. These morons have no idea how shit life is for people like us under communist regimes
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>>45104253
Because historical "communist" regimes weren't actually socialist in the slightest and in fact tended to be made up of very socially conservative people?
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>>45104283
I can't believe people are still doing the "it wasn't REAL communism" bit
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>>45104332
Because it fucking wasn't. Communist societies don't fucking have bureaucracies or hierarchies let alone totalitarian governments.
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>>45104350
I'm well aware, but the fact that they never manage to reach that point and instead have devolved into totalitarian states every time is more than enough reason to abandon the idea. I'm not even strongly in favor of capitalism or anything, I just don't think a superior system exists (at the moment anyway)
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>>45103362
...I also love whimpering blonde twunks.
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I'm disinterested in sleeping around or polyamory
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>>45105342
I would worship Wallace.
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>>45104426
I'd like to think this is me but I don't whimper and maybe I'm not as muscular as I think
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>>45104350
It was a real *attempt* at communism

>>45104393
Trvke
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>>45105741
as would any bisexual worth their salt
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>>45104253
That wasn't necessarily BECAUSE of the Communism though.
Russia had a culture so fucking regressive that even after 40 straight years of giving women education and social status and making them workers instead of mothers as a primary role, Russia STILL hates women so universally that they take trench wives and decriminalised wifebeating. They were never not going to stone the gays.
Cuba was from a culture with hardcore machismo, so naturally it kept that into its communist era. Castro actually admitted that was a mistake now that that culture has changed and his daughter's pushed for some very progressive reforms.
China didn't care about the gays for the longest time but started to see LGBT advocacy as a foreign influence, give it time and they'll find a more home-grown way of expressing it and we'll all be back to normal, China demonstrably does havs a gay culture.
Yugoslavia basically followed the same timeline as Western Europe because of course it did, it's in the Balkans.

If you had communism occur in an LGBT accepting culture, the results would probably look pretty different.
I'm not even a Communist, I just think people don't put enough emphasis on culture to understand behaviour.
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>>45076769
Most hate it it, and the ones who say they like it will use it against you later. Best advice is never reveal it
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>>45091792
>>45091839
The lack of moderation is what makes 4chan special. You have to learn to ignore the trolls and bigots if you want to use a website that allows this amount of freedom in what we say.
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>>45104195
I need to drop seven, but I'm waiting til after Halloween. Good luck anon!
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>>45076430
>QotT: What's something you fantasize about that you would never want to experience in real life?
>me on the left
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happy friday bigen
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>>45106444
I want you.
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>>45107238
ffs, anon. I was just about to end a cycle.
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>>45109898
Curious cat!
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>>45109898
it's too fat.
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>>45108494
Lies
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>>45110463
Are you ugly or something? I said I WANT you.
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>>45110678
>Are you ugly or something?
I think I look decent

I am processing a breakup however (I'm the same faggot dumping about his long distance relationship from earlier)
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>>45110761
Sorry to hear about that bud. :( My long distance relationship ended four months ago and I havent been the same since. Hang in there, okay?
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>>45110838
Thank you anon. Anon-hug for you. :)
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i wish i have anon-hug
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>>45111005
Anon-hug for you too :)
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>>45111005
Anon-hug for you too, times two!
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>>45109898
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does anyone have any idea why i always have such insane chemistry with dysfunctional addicts and men with bpd
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>>45111637
You have what's known as total retard syndrome
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>>45111595
good post ty
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>>45111637
what were your parents like?
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>>45111595
Cute pussy
>>45111637
I'm gonna go full armchair psychiatrist and say your childhood was either one where your parents didn't give you enough attention and affection, or one marked by unstable hot-or-cold type relationships between you and them. As a result, you crave the intensity of attraction provided by people who have messy and unstable lives themselves, as people with more secure attachments don't immediately jump into flirting/a relationship at the first sight of attraction, and are thus not able to immediately fill the void that you feel in your heart.
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me and my girlfriend are both cis women, shes a lesbian but im bi and had dated a guy and a tranny before her. i found out today that when she told her mom that id had boyfriends in the past she literaly said ew. her mom has been really homophobic in the past but what the fuck is happening? it feels like i am hated in this regard nomatter who im with or what i do
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>>45111891
they could have done a lot worse but overall they were pretty okay; my mom is very controlling and neurotic however and whenever i seem upset about something she just comes across as very cold and irritated
my dad is better in the fact that hes less neurotic about what i do but hes quick to anger and was prone to outbursts when i was younger + im afraid to be myself around him
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>>45111977
Put no weight in the words of bigots
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https://chub.ai/chats/186312069
this I can only fantasize as I might die irl
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>>45107497
bisexual bottoms have learned to be clever
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>>45111977
She's probably just a bitch desu
Don't take it personally if she is intent on hating
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any other bifags hate frosting? every store bought cupcake is 50% frosting and i am tired of it! Shits too much! You could cut frosting by 90% (picrel) and get a well balanced desert but they never do it! Frosting tastes like shit! whipped cream would be fine tho. i can see a cupcake with whipped cream but frosting? too thick. ruins the cupcake, i always remove it.

>>45113015
wow okay yeah thats something. lowk got me a bit hard desu but you fumbled with the "actually i am immune" shit. Are you south asian by chance?
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>>45114379
are you the terminally online person saying desu in every other thread
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>>45114379
To me frosting is often the best part. Or just whipped cream; both are amazing really
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>>45114394
no im not. whatareutalkingabout. oh shiz i didnt realize i said desu my bad. off the cutwaterz rn kekek

>>45114414
we should have kids and let them settle this? whipped cream is a better fit but frosting is gross! To thick and sweet. whipped cream is soft and the only acceptable option.
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I must be the only person here kind of hyped for this game, and this turned me off.
https://www.patreon.com/tenshideve/posts/name-is-coming-172951082
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>>45114379
Frosted cupcakes are D-tier compared to profiteroles or eclairs.

>>45111595
pic rel for balance
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>>45114379
>this cupcake too frosted
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>>45114831
Visual novels are for fags (derogatory).
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Brain can I stop dreaming about him please
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>>45115466
I wish femboy hooters existed. That way I would at least know where to find a femboy IRL
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>>45115699
tell us about him
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>>45117689
I did here >>45097876
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2 hours and 8 minutes left in my shift. Ugh! I wanna go home and aggressively masturbate to gay porn.
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>>45100739
watching The Mangler (1995) and then Ginger Snaps (2000) in here, starting in like 5 min
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>>45115466
me on the bottom right
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>>45120928
Cute frog
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>>45120928
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Goodnight bisexual men. I love you.
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>>45122380
love you too anon, gn
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>>45123039
I assume only AGP gooners actually do this
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>>45123136
clueless
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When was the last time you guys got caught jestergooning and had your cortisol level spike? Mogged by life type shi
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>>45123646
Jesse what the fuck are you talking about
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I didn't dream about him last night

Yay
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>>45125587
Next step is to stop talking about him
Not even trying to be sassy here, it's just what you gotta do
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>>45125651
Tbh I mainly made that post for the bump
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>>45076430
>bi, male
>most of the people i've dated have been women
>kind of suck at the apps, so just happened that way, that and some bad experiences
>mates of mine dragged me to a gay bar couple of months back
>not actually a big fan of crowds or, well, loud music
>also a retard who thought it was a good idea to wear jeans and a football jersey so felt like i looked out of place
>fuck off outside to go for a smoke
>bad habit, i know, but meh i get stressed
>couldn't light my stupid cigarette
>qt french guy there
>flicks his lighter and I lean in
>get chatting
>very cute/10
>go out on a few more dates
>it was raining last time we met, and he gave me his jacket when i left
>doing this for around 5/6 months
>offhandedly called me his boyfriend
>was kind of teasing him a little about it but then i was like yeah sure man, that sounds nice
anyways i think i have a boyfriend now? genuinely actually feel like a school boy with a crush, feels good anons
i need to learn do more boyfriend stuff idk what i'm doing just smitten af
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>>45126315
God this was a cute read.
-I love bisexual men
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>>45126315
Cute story anon, hope it works out for you two
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>>45126315
i need to go out more so things like this can finally start happening to me. happy4u anon!

>>45076430
>What's something you fantasize about that you would never want to experience in real life?
makeout sesh with my attractive straight friends.
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>>45097876
Uhhhhhhh...
He reached out using the fucking spotify messages feature. I was right on the money. He says that he has been texting someone new for the past 2-3 weeks and they had sex immediately after I cut him off, he didn't even like the sex, hasn't been feeling the same for the past few months, is questioning his sexuality and that he hasn't been taking the "relationship" seriously and he doesn't "feel anything".

I was genuinely just taken over by a parasite this whole time. I'm not sad anymore, I am disgusted. It feels weirdly cathartic.
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>>45128676
Sound like he’s kind of a cunt. Good riddance, anon.
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Come hang out with us in Twinks and Femboys General (18+): https://discord.gg/5zDKSw4Pg

>>45126315
good stuff anon, and impressive for staying off the apps

>>45114379
i usually remove most of the frosting, they add about 10x what is needed
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>>45128676
hope this helps you to move on anon
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>>45076430
/bigen/ can i get some help?
i'm not sure of my sexuality but ive suspected i was some sort of gay or bi for a while. it sounds stupid, but i've been noticing i feel more gay recently when i felt more attracted to women before (ie my sexual fantasies ect, feels embarrassing to say.
for context and you may stone me if you like for it i'm a tranny and it might be the test blockers that i take but i think (if it exists) i might be on the bi-cycle and it's fucking me over
can i get an informed opinion from the fags in here? (don't know if there's a bi slur)
thank you
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>>45129302
I'm not trans or using hormones, so take this with a grain of salt: anecdotally you can find many people on this born claiming that their sexuality changed upon starting hormones. I'm guessing they are telling the truth, given how much other shit hormones affect.
How is it fucking you over though? Like are you just uncomfortable with the idea of being bi, or is it something more concrete?
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>>45129302
sounds like the bicycle to me
almost all of us deal with this or something similar
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>>45129338
changed to my phone from pc because I went to bed
to be honest I think I'm fine with being bisexual or whatever I am
I beat myself up about it to be honest
its fucking me over because it was unexpected i suppose
one of the reasons I said I was trans was because I was having lesbians fantasies and now all I can think of is hot men or whatever (because im autistic and terminally alone)
it's all kind of fucked to be honest but it sounds pretty fun to be fucked
haven't started e yet but I've also seen testimonials from people that day they liked men after starting
I just needed some advice thank you both
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what is everyone dressing up as for halloween?? im going as junko enoshima from danganronpa :o
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>>45130282
i gotta larry.
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>>45130282
>>45130491
both of these are great
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>>45123136
my gf does this with her tits and her big cock and balls unironically.
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>>45131450
her boobs are big enough to do that?! im 6 years on hormones and im no bigger than a b cup
>>45131430
thank u
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>>45131450
>my gf does this with her tits
Oh, I guess cis women do it after al-
>and her big cock and balls unironically.
Nevermind, I was right on the money lmao
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>>45131538
she's an e cup, but she got implants
>>45131559
cis girls do it too, i promise you. my own mother does it.
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>>45131598
>my own mother does it.
... why do you know this?
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>>45131632
i've seen her do it? seen my aunt do it too, and a sister. my family is very odd.
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>>45131653
I am left with more questions after each answer lmao
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>>45131688
ok, i'll make it even weirder. my mom and girlfriend did it together so my mom could see how bouncy her implants were. my mom knows my girlfriend is trans, and knows my girlfriend fucks me up the butt, or as my mom put it
>so are you both plumbers, or just the customer?
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>>45131738
banger line i can't lie
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>>45131897
right?
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>>45129226
If there's one thing that annoys me it's that he got laid

We had convos about how we wanted to pop each other's cherries. I abstained from irl dating just for him. I hate the idea of sex with strangers. What a fucking waste man.
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i love twinks
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Sooooo... What do I do now. How do I find a cute local boy and strike up a real connection with him lol



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