>>45086634
so if a tranny was more frugal and neat you would actually wife that up?

>>45086634
maybe if you committed shed have a reason to clean her act up

>>45086650
one hundred percent. trans women and cis women are both fine by me. i just wouldn’t get into a relationship with a bum ass woman

>>45086634
you could save her probably, but you'd have to love her and it might not be what you hoped. but you could help her. i know i'm like that and i could fix myself for a relationship but it's an addictive loneliness bandaid

you just gotta tell her you're fully willing to take her more seriously as a partner despite her being trans, just that she needs to kinda lock in and get her shit together. you can be more real with trannies about stuff like that they actually take it to heart instead of defaulting to foidrage like cissies

Don't try to help anyone. I dated a hot girl who used to be clean but she saw that autism diagnosis are trending in social media and now she stopped cleaning, pretends to forget to throw things like fucking trash on her desk away and tries to have the most poorly acted autistic fit ive ever seen if i hold her accountable. She makes me sick and the love is gone but I sunk my personal money into my vehicle. It's never worth it to compromise your standards.

>>45086724
Don’t recommend doing this. It’s a big risk if you get invested in someone messy

>>45086891
you think i couldn't turn myself around for love, don't you? it's happened, i'm only a demon when i'm alone... but i'm not trying to hit on you or something i'm just saying i think it's possible as a messy bedroom haver with drug and spending addictions... i know i can throw these things away but when i'm alone there's nothing more appealing that's accessible it feels like.

>>45086914
People who can’t sort out their own lives probably aren’t suitable for a productive long term relationship. A relationship is no different than life, it requires constant problem solving and accountability. I hope you stop the solitary drug use anon, I’ve been there myself. It’s not a sustainable road. Maybe you could find a social hobby to do a few times a week instead?

>>45086663
Honestly then you probably shouldn't date t girls. Almost all t girls have some form of depression or shit mental health that makes it impossible for them to tidy up after themselves. Id say just turn to being gay at that point

>>45086891
you have to be a good judge of character. some people are just chronically aimless, but if they genuinely want to be better sometimes all they need is some structure and the threat of consequences (i.e. a loved one leaving them). if they don't have a desire to change then they won't

>>45086658
>>45086724
i’m not really a broken bird syndrome type of guy. the sex is great and she’s fun to be around, but in a long term relationship i’d end up being her dad instead of her boyfriend and that’s exhausting. i don’t want to fix someone while i’m dating them, that’s wishful thinking

>>45086634
>stringing along a trans women for sex
kill all chasers =)

>>45086634
Sounds like u made the wrong choice op, fumbling