Welcome to /hon/general. A thread for transfemmes who do not pass and are visibly and obviously trans and biologically male. Manmoders, transbians, part timers, AGP’s, HSTS’s, nonbinaries, John50s: all are welcome. The main requirement is that another’s instinctive first response is to refer to you as “He”. You know who you are.Come on in, Honey. Let’s chat.QOTD: What are you going to be for Halloween?
>>45108904Why is there so many threads for us?This is already served by mmg .
I am going to be a (sexy slutty) Fremen.
>>45108904>QOTDI've never been able to celebrate Halloween because it's my brother and dad's birthday lmaoBeing fully-socially transed now is still a lot of adjusting but I'm trying my hardest to appreciate the benefits because they're really big. It's crazy how even though I've had my chosen name for 5 years now it's finally instilled itself into my head as my actual name. I'm also really appreciative I've been able to make some new friends quick since my decision to socially trans was the last straw for my few remaining pretrans friends. I'm really struggling though with when it comes to hanging out with them because they're all cishet and want to go to regular bars and nightclubs and I'm worried about my safety since I've found people aren't afraid to confront me in public when sober never mind if they're drunk. Do I just have to go in and hope being in a group with them is enough social protection or what?
>>45108904>QOTDI'm gonna be shinji and my bf is gonna be kaworu. It was my bfs idea.
>>45108993> Do I just have to go in and hope being in a group with them is enough social protection or what?I wish I knew Nona I manmode everywhere aside from goth and queer clubs, or on hikes sometimes, and at the beach, the most normal places I’ve been have been museums and once a punk (but not necessarily queer) bar and it is just weird af having all the stares, not fun definitely feel the vibe of the room uneasy with me but no one has ever gone up to me and been like what’s your problem. with a group it should be way different but I’m always alone or with my girlfriend.
>>45108939I feel like MMG is more from people who aren’t currently presenting as anything other than male, this is for people who try but still fail.
>>45108904>QOTDNothing, I am a disgusting freak and hate being seen in public.Anyway, does anyone have any ideas for extreme experimental ways to try to become more feminine whether that be some obscure biochemistry hormone stuff or otherwise? Because I'm starting to wonder if I should play around with ethinyl estradiol to see if it will actually work with my broken estrogen receptors.
>>45108939>>45109144This
>>45108904>What are you going to be for Halloween?sally nightmare b4 xmas, thankfully im hosting so everyone knows im a tranny and i don't have to deal with the humiliation again
Im a man and thats irreversibleMen cannot bevome womenOnly if you stop it at pubertyBut I’m a real man with a fetish so I never bothered until my mid 20sNow it’s too lateMisery
>>45109256Felt Like I wish it were fine to just openly be like yeah I’m a feminine agp man on hrt why it gotta be so complicated
>>45109222>>45109144Oh okay understood. I'll leave this thread then. I hope I can be as brave as you someday.
>>45108904>QOTDI want to wear a maid outfit. y'know, as a joke haha. I think it'd make me feel pretty. but my cishet bandmates want me to wear this wretched thing because they want to wear tracksuits and be vodka-drinking slavshits. they don't seem to understand why I don't want to wear this.>>45109243the first tranny I fucked was dressed as Sally. thanks for the memories Nona, i hope you look adorable and get cracked at the party <3
>>45109392No you’re quite welcome here, this thread just casts a different net, you fit in the vent diagram
>>45109393I don’t understand how so many guys are ok with not being sexy
>>45109437masculinity is sexy tho
>>45109455Yes but like shapeless baggy clothes are not. Show off those bods boys
>>45109455it can be. I'm personally not into it, I generally prefer feminine or androgynous features. but our guitarist is an absolute smokeshow, he's lean and athletic with abs and well-defined muscles. and yet he insists on wearing the same baggy clothes everywhere he goes. at least I do it because I'm kinda lumpy and self conscious about my figure. the straights simply have no fashion sense.
>>45109606>>45109494i think it's called having class maam (man)
>>45109318And I fucking triedBut the fakeness was too much for me
>>45109393the dumb tracksuit dress is kinda really ugly
>>45109149Pic or this is fake
>>45109634Drop classShow ass >:]
>>45109751I am not posting my disgusting face to 4chan.org to be permanently embedded onto the internet forever.
>>45109693I knooowPeople can sense the fakeness and it creates a gap between us But then it’s weird and uncomfortable to be like “sup dudes, check out my cute new jewelry”I want to be one of the girls and one of the guys at the same time I’m a man with both a masculine and feminine soulFeels bad man
>>45109392Yeah I mean, I sometimes think about going back to boymoding, it’s really a shitty choice. :/
>>45108904I'm going as ET. No makeup needed!
>>45108904Or maybe I'll go as a mummy wrapped in gauze, so nobody sees my horrible man face
>>45109809Then show your body, a good dress maybe
>>45108904A pirate one day, Kim Possible the nextThe other day I was pumping gas, and a homeless person came up from behind me saying "Excuse me ma'am". I'm ignoring him because I hate interacting with people, but he gets to where he can see my face and says "Oh I'm sorry sir"Also, I haven't been on 4chan since like 2016, what the fuck is up with this new captcha shit, you have to do this everytime you post??
>>45109947Is fucking disgusting but i bet there's no better option. Discord is shit
>>45109930eww no
>>45110069Then suffer in silence.
>>45109712it's hideous and it makes me feel like the punchline of a tranny joke :(>>45109930>>45110069do it anon, send an outfit that felt nice to wear! here's me last winter wearing my favorite shapeless comfy hoodie
>>45110529I don't wear fem clothes because I'm too much of a freak
>>45110529You look lovely.Up on me
>>45108904i got a sexy slutty dress with a lacy cape gloves and ballet platform heels, gonna hon out to the max on this holy day!
>>45109144every time i check out mmg it's full of namefags treating it like a discord chatroom, and the few pics i saw on it all featured ppl girlmodingI'm a manmoder but this place seems more chill
It's so over for me.Honmoding and still get called SIR.I am just an eternal SIR to everyone no matter how I dress or play-pretend.>>45110919Wearing them won't change anything, just makes you look like a transvestite.
>>45108904this is so stupid, hons are full she/her
>>45111025Drop a photo. Let's see it.Cis man here open to give scores.
>>45111027We may go trying to present as she/her yet our true nature makes us be gender as he/him.
>>45111027Was going to post a follow-up to this >>45108993 but now I’m honestly confused, how many here are actual honmoders and how many see the word "hon" and jump at the thread to hate on yourself? I’m not trying to be rude, I just thought this was a bit more of an advice/support thread for very visibly trans but still socially transitoning trans women, not just boymoders again. I go out everyday in a full face of makeup, hair done, etc and the only people that don’t gender me male are my work colleagues and I guess friends too. I really yearn for a space like this since there are some struggles my few other trans friends will never get but every time one of these threads pops up it seems to be only 10% women like me and 90% the usual boymoder breed. Not meaning to moan, I just wonder what the real ratio is at the end of the day because these threads are nice to see as someone who barely browses this place much anymore.
>>45110919I seriously doubt you're as much of a freak as you think you might be, anon. do you want a hug?>>45110970hehe thanks :3
>>45111174THIS IS EXACTLY MY POINT!people just use "hon" to mean "tranny I hate" and everyone here hates themselves, and the target of derision may be still exclusively boy/manmoding or not be a hon at all (and then they start using "manmoder" to mean "tranny who doesn't pass" whether or not they are living and presenting as a woman or trying to)
>>45111174This warms my heart Nona I admit I manmode most of the time but I do go out in public sometimes feminine presenting and visibly trans and like your case the only people who acknowledge my femininity are allies being polite. I don’t get to be one of the dolls. I respect your tenacity it’s a pain hiding my chest under layers but it’s that or take the heat everywhere I go. Everyone pays a price but you get to choose the price. I’m trying to girlmode more often and spend time in towns where it’s more normal. A dilemma I have is I feel like I can’t manmode in a place one day and femmemode the next
>>45114471>A dilemma I have is I feel like I can’t manmode in a place one day and femmemode the nextI understand this a lot, this was me before I moved out of my hometown to socially trans fully as I couldn’t dare to present in any way feminine there (tiny town of only a couple of thousand combined with living with unsupportive family plus zero supportive friends). It’s difficult but you can’t let it persuade you that manmode is reality and the rest is just crossdressing. Travelling/holidays really helped me in the short-term as I could afford it and fortunately had a couple of supportive friends in nicer areas of the world but I really hope moving ASAP is an option for you in the long-term. As I’ve rambled above, it’s far from perfect (I’ll probably be forced to manmode again to find a full-time job as I’m getting no luck searching being visibly trans) but I’ve been surprised by how nice the average person is once they do get to know me. As terrible as strangers can be, I think the whole "woman trapped in a man’s body" idea is still easy to sell on cis people if you look/sound nice enough and carry yourself femininely enough no matter how unpassing you are, and I’ve started to really feel accepted even if it’s only by a small group right now. Really really hope you can find the same <3(I really appreciate these threads because I can say this sorta stuff without having to worry about being reposted in a hon cringe thread lol)
>>45108904Hon general?? Wtf a thread died for this, hons dont deserve a thread they can just post in threads made by passoids This doesnt sit right with me, 4chan is already for social outcasts so there doesnt need to be special threads for the lesser trannysThey can still watch from afar and interact with the scraps from passoids, like old pictures/archived threads ppl here are so masochistic I think some might even enjoy the thought, pathetic cucks
>>45115900are transgirls this mean to other trans?
are there any dating sites you can use with an anime pfp
>>45109393try jersey maid maybe?https://j-fashion.fandom.com/wiki/Jersey_Maid
>>45108904>transfemmewe still using this term in the big 26?
>>45115756I personally would like to be able to manmode in a place one day and femmemode the next, my masculine and feminine sides are quite strong, I guess that makes me nonbinary, but it feels like enbys are considered the least valid by society and that puts me straight into “crazy gross crossdresser” territory with most people
>>45116299I heard once that if during the course of transition, you notice that women go from being nicer towards you, to being mean, it’s a sign that you are starting to pass, because women are mean to other women that they consider competition. So maybe the shitty cattiness transwomen show each other is the most fembrained thing of all…
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how do i stop manmoding, it's starting to hurt too much to be viable anymore
>>45123943Is it being afraid to start at all or being afraid of just the social transition? I manmoded for years before switching but I spent time making progress in private with makeup and clothes and such. There’s a lot of part-timers in these threads so maybe you can look to them for inspo?
>>45124149fear of starting i guess. i try to take care of my appearance like hair and nails and brows so i can feel a slight bit of comfort but i've never owned a single item of women's clothing or done makeup. the thought of going out in the world like that or even existing in private is terrifying and nauseating because i know i won't like how i look. but i want to bad and i feel sickeningly jealous of other trans women who get to express themselves how they want because they were able to get over the mental blocki've been on hrt for 5 years now and i've watched people i know come out and start hrt and eventually pass and live full time as a woman while im still in this state, it's the most alienating thing i've ever felt.
>>45115900why don't passOIDS just hold back on the attention whoring i mean you've posted the same pic for years just take a break
>>45109144yeah mmg is full of good looking passoids who use the manmode label as a soft launch for transition, enterely not the vibe of someone who knows he will never pass but still takes hrt because the bdd is too much to handle sober
>>45115900ooohh nooo my suicide bait thread got archivedGo fuck yourself "woman", let the real men have a thread for themselve, gaygen doesn't count
