i made a friend here once and i feel like ive just been chasing that since tbdesu. miss her. im usually too avoidant and autistic to keep a friend but when it happens its special. all i can do is try to be there and be kind, i guess
>>45114681i need to kms
What are you like
i met the BEST most easy to talk to girl on here once and we were getting on super well for like a week or two a year ago and then we both found out there was a 10 year age difference so it immediately endedngl i'm still depressed about it.every other person i've added it's purely sexual or it just fizzles out immediately and doesn't feel fun.siiiiiiigh
>>45114821>every other person i've added it's purely sexualI hate that. I wish I had a tranny friend but every time I try to get one they are like ”uwu mommy change my diapers :3” or ”let’s play with pee and compare gocks :3”
>>45114821>10 year age differencebetween what and what
>>4511486419-30 actuallyshe had assumed i was like early 20s because of music taste and demeanor i guess, and when the topic finally came up i immediately said something like "oh this is creepy we have to stop" and we carried on the conversation as usual with some joking about it, but we never talked again after that. ...idk if it bothered me more than her but she never messaged me after that 8(>>45114861ehhh i mean sometimes it's mutual and has more to do with how/where you meet.it's just much easier to find common ground through sex talk
>>45114882that's not a problemyou're an idiot
>>45114901>you're an idiotthis is not news to meidk i think it's always on the younger person in that situation to push against it being a "problem."...and i would assume if it didn't bother her she would have said so.but then again, you know what they say about assuming...
>>45114882>it's just much easier to find common ground through sex talkWtf no??? It makes you look like a gooner if you try to get to know someone by talking about sex and kinks
>>45114931poor phrasing.i mean it's easier to find a sexual connection than a friendly one.finding a person you're physically attracted to is just faster than feeling out friendly compatibility.
>>45114922nah it's the oppositeit's not a problem by default until someone makes it a problemit would be weirder if you said "you're too young" and then backtracked
>>45114953okay so *not* showing concern for an age difference is *not* a red flag?further context: we met in a kink thread and our conversation sporadically turned non-sexuali know what you're getting at though
