does my face forever doom me to be a hon and never able to date a man? i just want a guy to be interested in me outside of sex and it's the most impossible thing ever. only get approached by women irl and i hate it so much. i wonder if its my midface being 0.9 or my goblin nose or what. i try to dress nice, skincare, eyebrows, shave, voice train, etc. and it feels worthless. i have too thin a frame and too masculine a face to be attractive to gay/bi men or something. i cut my hair because of all this awhile ago. i want to be comfortable not being with anybody or having friends, but trying to have a social life preoccupies my brain too much. i cant focus on my studies. heres an outside photo with awful lighting so if anyone would like to help it isnt off. https://litter.catbox.moe/mkc5mgewzto9q4al.jpg
You know you look better and more passable than 98% people here, right nona? Please grow your hair back
>>45114958i think you have a good base to be pretty op, you might wanna get filler in your upper lip but some makeup and growing out your hair could do you a big favour. right now you look like a lesbian, which is probably scaring guys off!
>>45114980I agree with this one, you pass perfectly, men just might think you prefer girls
>>45114958please die fast okay
>>45115087respectfully, i think you're a little delusional. the only reason you look mentally ill is because your expression in these pictures is very severe/standoffish... if you feel like your hair is too straight now, you can always curl it/style it yourself! i know i cannot be truly unbiased, given the context of where i've seen these images, but if you asked me to describe the people in these images, i'd say the pic in your OP is giving 'scandanavian/nordic STEM student, a bit cold, not very sociable', whereas the vibe of these two images is of a regular woman in her early twenties...
>>45115087oh okay this is a passoidbrag post
>>45115147>>45115154okay so i need therapy and a better personality?
>>45115172and to grow my hair again?
>>45115087These pics are really cute nona, please love yourself, you don't look cold or not sociable. To me looks just a bit camera-shy
>>45115213thank you this means a lot to me. thanks to everyone itt. the sad people idk what to say i genuinely have no friends i think its because of my appearance most of the time idk how to talk to people now or make them feel better im sorry.
>>45115172i don't think you need a better personality, just a better expression? you would be surprised at how far it can go. i'm not attractive and manmode 24/7 but i try to keep a gentle smile on my face whenver i can and people from all walks of life smile at me, come up to me asking for directions, engage me in conversation unprompted kindly. even if you're feeling bad, it's good to keep a pleasant smile on your face.
>>45115244is it possible to look weird when you smile? i put this face on 24/7 so i dont come off as more dumb/ugly looking but maybe thats in my head. i think your advice is good generally though, ill try it out
