>>45120920
>she had a trans boyfriend
There you have it

>>45120931
What do you mean by this

>>45120942
You know what I mean

>>45120942
Trans women are women but trans men aren't men. You can crack her id you feel so inclined

>>45120920
be nice to her and learn about her interests and share them with her

>>45120954
That's not what I meant stfu

>>45120954
This does not answer the question of 'how.'

tell her point blank you think she's cute and ask if she wants you to take her on a date or cuddle or something

>>45120963
This is my current approach but I do not think it is working. I have voiced interest in hockey (I do not care much for sports) because she is a fan.

>>45120976
This could fail and make her not my roommate (worst possible case)

>>45120920
Tell her you think she is cute and that youd like to go on a date with her, then be kind and honest with her and share about yourself and ask questions about her etc.

>>45120990
You need to transition

>>45120990
No risk, no reward. While that may open you up to an unlikely worst case, it is probably your only shot at dating her, which isnt gonna happen unless you take the chance. Moreover, even if you get rejected she will probably just be polite and say no thank you and go on being your roomie, which is the normal thing to do in that circumstance

>>45120995
Once again I do not want to creep her out. I have done that before accidentally (not with her).

>>45121012
While I understand why you think this is a good idea, I really do not want to risk losing her as a roommate. I could do this if I were more sure, but as it stands I have no idea how receptive she would be to that.

>>45121015
If shes the type of person who reacts to being politely asked out by getting creeped out and fully moving appts then she was never going to be a good roomate to begin with desu

>>45121067
I am being anxious because success here is very important to me. I genuinely do not think I would be okay if she moved. Hence, I would like a way to test the proverbial waters first, or a way to subtly make it more likely.

>>45121109
Ok then perhapse try flirting with her a bit more explicitly first, ask to get coffee together or watch a movie and cuddle up a little or something like that to test the waters as it were

>>45121157
I could probably do the movies thing. I'll ask her later today if she seems to be free and I'm not too anxious. I can think of some she might like. Thank you anon.

>>45120920
get yourself drunk as fuck and just be yourself
if you arent funny while drunk idk maybe kys
if you are funny while drunk but she doesnt want to hang out then beg her to ig
maybe get visibly depressed and cry a lot during one or two before getting to talk to her, preferably drunk as fuck
if she thinks youre retarded then you get drunk as fuck

maybe watch lots of movies everyweek(i just started doing it with old horror movies, ive seen like 6 movies this week ig(alone :( )) then ask her if she wants to watch some movies with you
then get you both drunk and you sex her

>>45121472
one or two weeks before getting to talk to her***

>>45121480
>>45121472
Cisfoidanon, Please dont listen to this rambaling alchaholic

>>45121472
I assume most of this is a joke, but alcohol could help. I think cider would be best (I like cider, beer feels too platonic, and wine feels too personal), so I will get, offer, and drink some.

>>45121499
That seems reasonable

cook a meal for her and light some candles and turn on some Depeche Mode. if she’s still oblivious, make a move on her and see what happens. ideally, this will end in you making sweet love with her down by the fire. do not expect her to top. if you do not have toys, eat that girls shitter like an apple fritter. like, REALLY eat it like its your last meal

good luck sis

>>45121510
I could do maybe the first four sentences of this at some point, but probably not today.

>>45121510
also, if i may recommend a meal for your date, sear chicken and braise it in its own juices. top it with cowboy butter with garlic bread and glazed baby carrots as the sides. easy romantic meal that works every time

>>45121531
i believe in you nona. youll probably have to be pretty forward with her. trans girls are very guarded and sometimes autistic as hell

>>45121532
I have meal ideas, and will mark this one down with them. Thank you, anon.

>>45121539
I am also autistic, though I do not know her status on that front. I think she is cautious too. For example, she never leaves her room while I have a friend or friends over.

>>45121562
np! ^^ and yea, it sounds like she needs some major TLC. i hope everything goes well and you end up with her

>>45120920
dating a roommate is a bad idea, don't shit where you eat.

>>45121680
I see the outcomes as, with other options between these;
1. Things go well and we form a long term relationship. We stay in each others lives for a while. (Best case.)
2. Things go poorly and she moves immediately. (Avoid at all costs.)
3. I do not advance, nothing happens, and she moves after a while. (Also bad.)

She came home, and said yes to movies. I will let you know how it goes, if this thread remains when I am next free.

>>45121871
Yay! <3⟡+⋆∘˚⊹ ࿔

>>45120920
>>45121871
Kys cisfoid scum. You’d be doing your roommate a favor.

dont listen to the anons saying to risk it and just ask her out, you have to gain her trust first or you'll probably scare her off. start as friends and build slowly from there

most trannies are extremely submissive and vulnerable so just aggressively flirt with her and do things that make her blush

>>45120920
Whatever you do, don't say that her transition aspirations are bdd and plastic surgery is supporting muh patriarchy.

bump

bump

>>45123216
We wait for you on baited breath cisfoidanon

>>45123334
She's obviously having piv with her roommate atm.

>>45123412
Honestly, i hope so! <3 i wish her the best even if they just kiss ⟡+⋆∘˚⊹ ࿔⟡+⋆∘˚⊹ ࿔

Ok so we got drunk and watched Fargo and shepassed out and she's laying in my lap (on phone) and I think this is the best I've ever felt and I'm just sort of touching her hair

I'm not sure if this means anything moving forward but it's really really nice right now

>>45123552
awe <3 i hope this isnt a LARP bc this is cute

Op, how was the smex?
Did the troonie peenie goosh in your vag?
Was the cum thick or did it dribble out like water from her peenor?

>>45123552
Ok this is actually really sweet.
Is she conscious? You’d better not be touching her hair if she’s actually blacked out cold. Consent is important.
Could you say exactly what happened step by step? What’d you two talk about? Why exactly do you like her in the first place?

>>45123569
In more civilized times you would be put in the stocks for this prurient display of lewdness.

>>45123559
It is not if i understand the term correctly

>>45123573
She is not but she did intentionally lay on me and seemed fine with it before she went to sleep. I ordered foodand we shared ciders (two towns) and we watched Fargo and we talked about music for a while and then she laid her head in my lap and went to sleep (I amadmittedly not very good at telling stories while drunk)

>>45123596
Lol I live in the town Fargo is set in.

And I don't know she's really sweet and shy and seems so sad all the time and I want to make her happy. I like the way she smells and I like how she walks and I like how her hair feels (discovered this today) and I like her name and i like a lot about her frankly

>>45123596
Extremely cute and fargo is a great t4c date night movie. Very proud of u cisfoidanon it sounds like shes got a crush on u desu

>>45123573
passing out on someones lap is consent for them to play with your hair. It's not like op's sneaking into her room at night to pet her.

>>45123612
Yeah, the mfer that said that is autistic.

>>45123605
if you actually cared about her youd fuck off and never show your face around her again. youre only going to make her miserable.

>>45123605
Ignore the other shithead. You seem great and like you could make her happy

She is making noises in her sleep. Oh my God. I really hope this becomesa thing instead of an event. Thank you 4chan

>>45123605
>>45123630
Just be mindful that being a tranny makes one sad and discussing certain things might be hard.

>>45123638
this is beautiful, I really like reading your updates. if I had someone like you in my life that would be pretty good.

>>45123638
congrats. youve manipulated her by to her proposing a friendly time together only to get her drunk enough to where shes fallen over and unable to say no.
youre a predator and a freak. i hope youre pleased with yourself.

>>45123638
This is so adorable just keep showing ur interest and maybe actually come out and tell her if ur feeling brave enough and you can make this a thing <3

>>45123650
Ignore this retard

Spare her please.

I'm gonna die why can't I have this

>>45123650
Fuck off, as long as she's not a divine afabulous type she's fine.

Blump

>>45120920
GIWTWM

>>45123552
good job I almost thought you were too autistic

>>45121109
Organize a date together but don't call it a date. And if the vibes are right, tell her how you feel? There's always gonna be some risk involved, that's just part of liking someone

>>45121472
Is your piece of advice to drug her roommate so she can rape her...?

bump 4 based + please let it happen 2 me

bump bc this is the 2nd best thread other than the crossdressing one right now desu

>>45120990
How about you do it the normal way and say that you find her quite attractive and would like to go on a date. It's really not that complicated man you just got to have the confidence. And quite frankly people who are males of birth are always happy generally when they're approached instead of them having to approach.

Be honest, but also reassuring that you can keep it in your pants if they're uninterested. I've asked plenty of my friends over the years to try romance with me and the ones that said no are still my friends because I maintain boundaries and the ones that said yes even if it didn't work out it was amicable because we recognize that we're good as friends just not romantically compatible. You'll never know until you try. But simplify stay simple with it and be honest and that's that.

Good luck gamer

bwomp,, i NEED an update OP !!!!

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Gently touch her fem-ish twinky boy body until she creams a little and instinctually starts stripping your clothes off

Apparently this thread is still open (unexpected). Now that I am less drunk, I think I can tell the story exactly as dryly as before, but in more detail.

She came home around five thirty. I asked if she wanted to watch a movie, and she said yes. I ordered some indian food, (she mentioned she liked it a few months ago,) and went to the store to get ciders. (Tangential, but again, I cannot recommend Two Towns enough.)

When I returned she was in leisurewear. I set up Fargo and we ate food and watched it. This part is hard to remember because I was extremely anxious, and moreover, I was worried that she might notice that anxiety. The food was quite good, and by about half way through the movie we both were a little loosey-goosey, which helped.

After the movie, we started talking about music. I hear indie rock sometimes from her room, and I also enjoy indie rock, so I figured it would be a good topic. Apparently she likes The Mountain Goats and The Weakerthans, the former of which I knew and I think everyone knows, the latter of which I am not familiar with and she recommended an album---Reconstruction Site.

After that I could tell she was getting a little sleepy, but we kept talking for a little while and then she put her head on my shoulder and then on my lap. I started playing with her hair (I did ask first). Pretty soon after she was asleep. She made really cute little noises after about twenty minutes, give or take. She also drooled a little.

Because of that, I was a little concerned that she wasn't getting good sleep. After about another thirty minutes of just sitting there looking at her like a creep I managed to extricate myself, get a blanket for her, and return. She woke up blearily but went back to sleep really quickly when her head was on my lap again. (This was around eleven.)

I have no memory of falling asleep, but her phone started making noises around six, and we both woke up. She seemed maybe nervous. (I'm bad at judging these things. She didn't seem hurt or scared of me. It seemed more that she was nervous of herself in relation to me.) She said something to the effect of 'I had a really nice time. We should do this again.' I went to make coffee and she took a shower. (I have no idea how her hair can dry so quickly. My curls take about six hours to air-dry.)

We drank some coffee and talked about music again and she seemed to calm down once she realized I wasn't mad at her. She did her makeup around eight and left for her job around eight thirty. I work at home so I remained here.

Again, thank you /LGBT/. I was in no way expecting things to go that well on the same day I made this thread. I still don't know if this will mean anything going forward, but it was really really nice and the prospect of doing it again makes me admittedly a little giddy. I've been smiling an abnormal amount today. I am fighting the urge to ask her again today because I think that's considered bad form and I don't want to screw things up. I appreciate the continued advice, too.

I'm so jealous I'm gonna cry but that's really sweet if true, happy for you both OP

>>45123639
I have heard this before and will continue being cautious.

>>45124708
You and me both.

>>45124926
I believe that was a joke.

>>45120920
>she is transfeminine
that's not a thing. your roommate is a hulking rapehon of a man

Very jealous of this, but also happy for you, OP. I hope it keeps going well!

>>45128964
Oh my god thank you for the update!! I'd be careful not to go too fast with explicit signs but keep showing steady interest, these are good good signs... Hopefully more cuddles in your futures, I believe in ya. Godspeed, OP

>>45128984
Well, let her have a pussy bi hulking boyfriend then

err
um
I mean
transgirlfriend

>>45128964
This is really cute and makes me very happy, have you talked with her any more today?

Bump

I couldn't sleep and see this thread again. You people really want to keep this open, it seems. Nothing more has really happened today (yesterday, I live in the PST zone). She seems to be less anxious around me then before all of this, I suppose. I listened to the album and liked it, and I said as much to her when she got home today. She seemed surprised I listened to it, even though I told her I would.

I managed not to ask her again, as I said, for fear of pushing things or making it weird. I worry I already made it weird and haven't noticed yet. I also worry that I coerced her into something she didn't want like some of you said, but I think she's happy with how things went. I'll try to be careful about that going forward.

I'm not sure what to do next, although I have ideas. I hear that transfeminine people tend to be very shy and cautious, so I feel obligated to start things, which I'm wholly willing to do but suck at. I guess that's a thing for future me to think about. It seems a bit weird to feel strongly about someone and not express it as it comes to me, but I know that's how these things work. I've been a little obsessed with her over the past few months and I guess it reached a boiling point. Again, I cannot express how thankful I am enough. I guess truthfully I am something of a creep, just not a particularly malicious one.

Anyway, I'm happy to talk about this more but I worry that this thread has overstayed its welcome. I don't really want to take up space as a sort of intruder here, or bore people to death.