image is me and i’m very upset about it. before i transitioned i would repress it by telling myself id be better off just looking like a feminine guy than embarrassing myself trying to look like a girl. now im a luckshit stealth stranny and i take pride in that in a weird bootlicker “im one of the good ones” way. Ive had 3 boyfriends come out to me as trans in the span of a 2 years, and each time i wanted to be happy for them, but its really just disappointing to me. the way I thought about myself before transitioning is the way i think about them now, they’re honestly just better off as men and i don’t want them to embarrass themselves. I think part of me just don’t want them to succeed honestly, like i want to gatekeep passing. I know that’s lame but it’s not like I don’t have reason to feel that way, the way they’ve each talked about women was weird, like making woman driver jokes when i accidentally crash in game or not liking that i have friends who are men. but that was fine w me at first because that’s what i wanted, kinda misogynistic men who can really affirm my gender. and then they figure they’re trans and Im just there encouraging them as they do cringe shit. my last ex sent me bikini pics at what looked like a very busy beach w a shit ton of red necks, 3 months on hrt w puffy nipples, freshly shaven chest with a five o’clock shadow, frizzy ass bob, and a half assed tuck. more than any concern i have for their safety, it always just kinda disturbs me whenever any of them make an attempt at trying to pass and I eventually feel like i have to drift away from them. i kinda feel less safe around them than i did when they were cis men, but they seem to think it’s the opposite, so I just text them every few months so they don’t know i don’t like them even as friends. is there something wrong with me /gen
>>45122965Just date trans guys.
>>45123002i would but i like penis
>>45122965I think if you're stealth you need to reconsider how you are finding these men. If you're disclosing that you are trans on dating apps, thats going to attract chasers. Half of chasers are reppers who date trans women to live through them, and eventually transition on them like your pic related.
>>45122965no they seem like creepy hon skinwalkers, but you do have very bad standards for men if you're get this many reppers
>>45123095i have to lower my standards because every guy who i actually like rejects me once i tell them im trans
>>45123080how else do you meet guys ToT
>>45123231make them fall in love with you before telling them, or just look for normal bisexual guys if you want to be honest and upfront
>>45123234someone on r/straighttransgirls suggested going on a date without telling them, just don't get physical or accept anything from them. Then if you want to keep seeing them, tell them (by text). That way they start to fall for you and see you as a person instead of as trans first>>45123246what this person said
You are a transbian. You are naturally attracted to trans women
>>45123270Yeah don't listen to redditors. This is how you get hate crimed. If you aren't a real stealth passoid (has srs) you disclose on the first date or before the first date
Cis women can suss out fem men. Are you too autistic to?
