please be specific and detailed. my mom is kind of a centrist but my dad and sister are high-key maga. i dont live with them currently because im in college but i do have to go back. also ive been on diy so im afraid "just dont come out" isnt a valid option because it WILL be VERY obvious. i dont know man. i want to get electrolysis and get on an ffs waiting list but that takes insurance. any advice is appreciated. probably?
>>45123191it won't be obvious anon, just dont do it, boymode for a few years. if they notice thats how you come out
>>45123191are you dependent on them financially?
>>45123191“Hey mom can you sit down with me I have to tell you something. This is is really hard for me to say and I feel very very vulnerable right now. I want you to know that I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about this and that it’s not something that I decided on a whim. I’ve thought about what it means for me, my future and our family. Mom I’m transgender, ive had these feelings for along time and I think you should know”Wait for her reaction, if the reaction seems bad/confrontational/ etc then don’t tell her your on diy, just respond with something affirming like “I understand why you would feel that way, it makes sense from your point of view why you would think that, still this is my decision and I’ve decided this is how I want to live my life.” If it’s more inquisitive like “okay, well what is it you want to do about it?” Tell her then like “I want to take hrt” if she’s like okay cool, then tell her you’re on DIY, if she’s confrontational about it don’t tell her.
>>45123191>my dad and sister are high-key magado not under any circumstances come out until you're financially, socially, and professionally independent from your familyget the fuck out of there girl
>>45123198im now realizing it wasnt obvious at all from my original post but ive actually been on diy for a while and right when i went away for this semester is when it was kind of reaching the point of being impossible to hide anymore>>45123204kind of? i mean they mostly pay for my college but its with the help of my woke grandparents so i dont think i would be left completely dry if my parents cut me off
>>45123245id love to never come out but its pretty much physically impossible given that i either have to1) tell them2) come back and have it be SO OBVIOUS from the diy that they can tell anyway (probably worse than option 1)3) stop diy (not happening)
>>45123239i second this. definitely tell your mom and then your dad separately. worst case scenario she tells him for you
>>45123191just don't lol. listen to >>45123198, it'll be better to just have them find out logically
>>45123191tell your mom, tell her while you're alone, if she accepts you you've already got a foot in the door, then you all can tell dad or sister but never both at the same time.. my parents were both maga republican jesusfreaks before i came out at 15 and got on hrt at 16get on medicaid, medicaid should cover it, idk what state you're in you'd have to look up what they'll do but ik they cover it in any blue state
>>45127193successfully told my mom today but i kind of flubbed it and was wishy-washy as fuck. sorry. i said idk to almost every question and then cried.
>>45123191send them shit like picrel from time to time on "accident" so they start thinking you're a fag and then hit them with "actually I'm a gigafag, aka a woman"
>>45123191just let her "accidentally" find your diaper bag next time you're home.
