if someone thought that trans people should be given all the gender-related healthcare they want/need whenever and wherever for free and that they should be able to use whatever bathroom/play whatever sport etc whatever they want, would use preferred pronouns and so on, checks all of the boxes for material/social support and such, but personally thinks that trans women are men and trans men are women and that a cis man being with a trans woman is gay and vice versa (absent any negative association, just descriptively, they would never judge or disparage anyone for their identities or choices), if you had to choose and could only choose one or the other, would you consider them an ally or a transphobe?
>>45125218Transphobe because thinking trannies will always be their birth gender is a transphobic belief
>>45126307It's better to assume someone is transphobic and then it turns out they're not than it is to assume they're an ally and they're actually not, like for your own safety I'd assume everyone is transphobic until proven otherwise
>>45125218definitely ally, they only disagree on definitions it seems which is like who cares (though the sexuality thing is uberretarded)