realistically how long can i hide taking estrogen for, given that I see my parents on a regular basis (weekly at the very least)and also how long can I stay on anti-androgens alone before the health risks become serious/irreversibleI know it varies on an individual basis but what's like a good conservative safe estimateplease give genuine answers i need to figure out when i can start DIYing
you can boymode for a long time and no one will notice
>>45127266is your plan to just wait on starting E until you never see your parents again? DIY now nona you can hide the effects for as long as you need with the right clothing and presentation
>>45127711I'm life-ruining levels of cooked if they find out>>45127716my plan is to start E such that I don't see them again (or only very infrequently in a controlled way where I can prepare) by the time the effects are visible, and to do anti-androgens for however long it's safe to be on it without estrogen before starting Ebasically my question is, how long before it becomes obvious if I have my shirt off for example? how long before it's obvious if I'm not wearing an oversized hoodie or something?
idk how long you can safely take anti androgens alone but you should start e. im ~1.5 years on it (not hondose) and my dad doesnt know. i obviously bind whenever i see him. a binder plus a man bun that shows your receded hairline plus masc clothing should just make you look male. also dont do your eyebrows
Stop seeing these hateful bastards? Also you should start wearing binders or breast tape eventually. Blockers are safe for a year or two if you monitor liver function for bica, but you'll get no development during that time.>>45127796Not doing brows and avoiding explicitly female haircuts is also a good idea
>>45127796A few months? I was only on it for four months before running out (back on it now) but I was having to hide my chest even at that point, also don't take anti-androgen alone, even with estrogen there's a decent chance it'll fuck with your bonesmy advice would be to get xl black heavyweight shirts, it's oversized af on me but it mostly hides it all, avoid coloured and white shirts tho
>>45127814ty for the useful info but the problem is there are periods of time where I have to see them daily and im worried about how constantly binding would affect development during those periods>>45127848it's a long story but basically running away now would severely damage my long term outcomes and make transitioning essentially impossible since I'd probably run out of money for HRT as well. I'm in a shithole so I need to bide my time until I can leave anyway>>45127854this is helpful thank you!
>>45127266certainly don't take anti-androgens alone, speaking as someone who did that for a bit. suppressing T but not replacing it with E is just asking for problems; your body needs one of the two in a decent amount in order to be healthyalso that timeline image kinda sucks. your mileage WILL vary
op hereso I did some research and bica looks safer relative to other antiandrogens in terms of being able to take it for an extended period of time without estrogen since it doesn't hurt bone density. will i be okay if take it on its own for 3-4 months? maybe longer?>>45127950i know having low levels for both sex hormones is unhealthy and i really want to start E but im in a desperate situation unfortunately
bump
>>45127266so you're telling me my 6 years on hrt and the cone tits is the best it can do
>>45128180someone tell me if this is a good idea
take the estrogen. unless they already know you are a tranny there is literally zero chance they will think you are one. and if they do, it is still a very very low chance if you hide it properly.
