I have known that I was bisexual since my early teens. I have known that I was either nonbinary or at the very least "gender stereotype non conforming" since a similar age. I have also never wanted to have a monogamous relationship. It has been nearly a decade since I came out to myself and I have always been in a heterosexual monogamous relationship with stereotypical gender expression/roles. There are probably less than a dozen people who know that I'm bisexual and even fewer who know I lean nonbinary despite being an extremely androgynous individual. My partner, who is also LGBT, knows this but has done almost nothing to help me be more comfortable. I'm not going to go into details about my job, however I'll just say that I primarily work around a lot of straight conservative individuals who have very hetero-normative opinions about sex and gender expression. If I were to come out, there is a very good chance that I could lose my job. My job is currently paying for a sizable portion of my education. I feel trapped and suffocated. I do not know what to do, as if I come out and actually begin expressing myself properly I could potentially fuck up my life to an extreme degree, but if I dont I feel as if this shit is going to bury me alive.
I would give you my sympathies but I kinda don't really like poly folks that much so suck it up loser
>>45128937Non-monogamous does not necessarily mean poly. I know its kind of a copout but I figured I'd mention that. There are many different kinds of non-monogamous relationships with different dynamics.
I'm confused now so could you please explain? Cause if you're not poly then are you like, a swinger? A cuck?
>>45129033Poly means romantic involvement, I consider myself ENM because I find the idea of threesomes/open relationships to be very appealing. I would consider myself to be closer to some kind of relationship anarchist.
I mean good for you with that in particular? Everything is pretty similar with me but eh, I'm pretty monogamous so the idea of it is well you get it, I do hope you'll be able to come out sooner than later though, I'm closeted to most people people too so I get it, I'm more likely to get stabbed again over losing my job over it thoughI would talk to your partner more about it since it sounds like they're not really understanding you much in this sense
>bisexual>I have always been in a heterosexual monogamous relationshipoh boy, lmaoyou are not important or bisexual, you are a mentally ill retarded autistic spergglad to know your life is falling apart, subhuman, hope your body will fall over next
