welp. I have officially rejected 4 transbians because they dont even make an attempt to voice train and sound like men. they wont even TRY to. 4.WHY DO NONE OF YOU VOICE TRAIN? Please enlighten me. I dont fucking get it. how are you bitches even living like this. im so tired man
>>45150556https://voca.ro/17213syGvtAT
>>45150573was going to be mean but your voice is actually super good
>>45150573mogged, i kneel
>>45150573average "trans woman"s voice circa 2020
>>45150556>>45150556me and most transfems ive known dont bother voice training because were in really lgbtq+ accepting spaces where noone gives a shit. voice training also just really uncomfortable, so when basically noone cares why would you bother with it
>>45150556I don't believe I ever sound like a man and nobody ever tells me I do sound like a man
>>45150617I mean I voice train cuz hearing my moid voice voice sucks and it is so much more uncomfortable than practicing
>>45150617>me and most transfems ive known dont bother voice training because we're faketransfixed
>>45150617what about dysphoria
I am trying I cant figure out how to make it pass I want to die
>>45150634everyone experiences it differently, i dont have problems with my voice, your mileage may vary
not a transbian but after transitioning i just ended up with an okay voice without any kind of trainingi don't know how or why
>>45150573Voice training final boss
how i picture peoppe who identify as transbians
https://youtube.com/shorts/3qbUI9xiujI?is=Z0FAQFO0AxDP21ao
>>45150655This is just hatred to have this horrible of an image of another person who is similar to most of us
dont encourage them OP. my voice passing alongside being employed are the only two things that make me stand out from the other trannies as desirable
>>45150652just truetrans things>>45150655they wish they were that attractive
>>45150617faketrannywe don't voice train because its too much commitment, but we're still self consious about it, no sane person is going to hear our manly ass voice and hon apperance with greasy hair and go ooga wooga real woman? get a fucking grip>>45150634they don't get any, because they're le hekkin vxlid liliths.
>>45150667tbf I have this image of almost all trans women, atleast personality wise, all of them ive met have been sex pests
>>45150655you're not far off, they tend to be uglier though.
>>45150675 I actually look like a cis woman, even though I didn't want to cuz I feel men are more attractive
>>45150556did you start liking men after transitioning or were you gay prior
>>45150667cry about it retard
>>45150684The ones for attracted to women are sex pests. Trans women who are fully attracted to men and would be gay if they hadn't transitioned are much more natural
i voice trained and pass irl :)
>>45150673they're worse.
>>45150689wtf are you even talking about?
>>45150711I've always wanted to be a big tall man at least six feet
>>45150708Im stelath and i have a cis wife, but I hate other trans people, tried to befriend 4 now irl and they've all ben perverted and cross boundaries and want sex. I honestly cannot stand 99% of trannies this baords been further proof of how disgusting trannies are esp the transbians
>>45150718yeah? and you also wanted to get laid but couldn't so you faketrooned. tale as old as time
>>45150727do you have srs? how did you and your wife meet?
>>45150734I have srs, met in middle school, dated just as we graduated
>>45150727I knew I blow it by transitioning cuz I should have just worked at being a gay man. problems was I couldn't get it up very well and most gay men didn't like me that much.I can accept the internet out gay man but not an out trans woman I think being tranny is disgusting
>>45150728Actually our transitioned early I had been older I wouldn't have done it and had to regret it
>>45150694i was mostly straight before transitioning and im bi now. why?>>45150709where are you and why do people like you not exist in california>>45150672i genuinely dont know what to do at this point. i wanted to date another trans woman for the mutual struggle and understanding but im not attracted to the nerdy autistic dude / flamer fag voice that virtually all of them have. i literally have no choice but to date cis women or men if i want to be actually fully attracted to my partner. oh, and im monogamous on top of everything haha. this is hell, im in hellt. OP
>>45150750the only problem with being trans is majority have given us a horrible image, sadly the reality is a lot of weird fucking freaks claim to be trans
>>45150768and those types are always the loudest and want "rights"
>>45150768If you know my real story you wouldn't believe it
>>45150778what?
>>45150573my bussy is wet holy
>>45150757im in midwest… passing trannies dont exist in blue states tbhon
>>45150624You don't believe you ever DID sound like a man? is that what you're saying?Have you ever heard a man speak and then look him in the eyes, firmly projecting from your chest and diaphragm and say, "You sound like a man?"
>>45150556I think transbians are just unlucky because your attraction and gender aren’t linked
>>45150757I have the same problem, it's the biggest reason I'm single. I would love to date a trans woman for the same reasons as you, but I'm just not attracted to most of them. It's rare to find girlmoders at all, even rarer to find someone who doesn't dress like a teenager, and pretty much impossible to find someone who is monogamous and has at least voice trained to some degree.I'm not sure if my voice passes tbhon, I get told I have a nice voice and don't have any issues with passing irl, but I still feel weird about my voice.
>>45150814drop disc
>>45150556my voice is kinda androgynous (actually my voice didnt change at all post 9years old) so while I dont sound like a girl, I dont sound like a man, and even after talking IRL people still gender me female so I'm kinda sweeping it under the rug for now, I still hate my voice, but its so fucking hard to voice train,
>>45150556me
>>45150556why would someones voice ever be a problem? who cares? shallowest thing ever. if anything they dodged a bullet. why would u ever date someone who cares about what you sound like and doesnt love ALL of you. especially as a transbian
>>45150853I transitioned at 23. I had a ridiculously ugly masculine dudebro voice and im at the point now where i dont remember the last time I got misgendered, so i must be doing something right. other trannies have absolutely no excuse not to at least try, its genuinely nothing but laziness and ineptitude. and frankly priviledge if youre even be able to live your life like that without getting invalidated and discriminated against and hatecrimed every step of the way as a girlmoder>>45150814op here, waow youre literally me what the hell. I feel the same about my voice, im not saying mine is perfect but its enough to get by and most ppl dont even try :( im guessing u dont live in cali..
>>45150814theyre 10/10 in every category and have a masc voice that's enough to drop? weird and shallow
>>45150912its literally not that easy, people have different voices, it can be nearly impossible for some
>>45150912Nope sorry, I live in Europe... I seriously need to move to America, every single trans woman I've been interested in lives there.>>45150914They are most likely not a 10/10 in the categories that matter to me if they have never bothered to voice train. I don't mind a clocky voice, but if they have never made an effort to voice train they most likely have not put effort into anything else and don't pass. And I want to date a woman, not someone who only identifies as a woman and nothing else. I don't think that's shallow. Someone who doesn't pass at all and doesn't girlmode is going to have a very different experience from me and I think that would make us incompatible.
>>45150896forgive me for not being attracted to the voice of a masculine man coming out of a woman. i dont think that's "shallow". that's like saying someone is shallow for not wanting to date someone morbidly obese or bald or prohibitively hideous. unfortunately i need to be attracted to someone to want to fuck them. sorry? do you think a cis lesbian wants to fuck a woman who sounds like an autistic dude or a gay man? because they dont. when im attracted to a woman I expect and desire a womans voice. i dont know why thats so shocking and evil to you peopleif you want to date other transbians with man voices then fine, go ahead, i dont care. but that is not something i want or can even tolerate
Im voice trained but I'm unfortunately an unemployed depressive video game nerd loser in her 30s
>>45150912>its genuinely nothing but laziness and ineptitudeI have to agree, as its not something that is actively troubling my life I just cant make the effort, I still hate it, and I even went to a voice therapist, but after 6 months of no progress I gave up (there are no others where I live so I cant even try to change to see if the problem wasnt me).
>>45150950I'm unfortunately in the same boat currently although I wouldn't describe myself as a loser. If you want a someone to talk to you could drop your discord
>>45150556Everything has to change at once, or else "nothing has changed"they're waiting until some mystical day when they're surrounded by some vague group that wants to talk about what a girl they are, and then when they have to accept that when they speak they'll out themselves, they will develop the determination to start trainingIf they start trying to find more ambiguous ways to dress, on their way to feminine, they can permanently postpone any more effort in the hope they can avoid changing one small thing too much. If any one of those small things change too much, they're faced with the contrast between how they look and how they'd like to look, and that will instantly frighten them back into the patient arms of jeans and graphic tees, unwashed hair and vocal fryno is the answer, all the trained-sbians are probably so deep under cover that they've conditioned their own memories of male life out of their mind
>>45150978sassafras0691
>>45150617i literally turn green with envy and a bit of smoke comes out of my ears when i hear a passing voice from a tranny. not a transbian tho
>>45150686m-mmm-mmm-mm... mm--mo-moog *gets shot*
>>45151122https://voca.ro/1391seb5ciCE
>>45150675ok but I know trans people who haven't voice trained with people who love them so what nowthis conservatism rebranded for trannies is so annoying I hate how prevalent it is on this board
>>45150947be attracted to whoever you want idc but you're stating it in a way that is intentionally transphobic and highlights your disgust with people who don't fit gender norms, which is something you should work on
>>45150556i love transbians with male voices. they're fine and hot
>>45150556https://voca.ro/11lRXu0m5E1D
I voice train. To be honest I don't understand transbiens who dont voice train whatsoever, I get not making the best effort because it is difficult but I can't really understand why a trans woman who doesn't voice train could live with herself. I don't think this is a transbien specific phenomenon, though, I knew plenty of straight trannies who didn't voice train either and just had fag voice.>>45150655It's true. I'm transben &nd This is what I look like.
>>45151209Holy youngshit
>>45151229i didn't get hormones until 18 lmao im a typical t-raped lateshit
my throat is wrecked from years of heavy smoking and abuse. i'll smoke a pack of spirits on my day off from work in conjunction with an eighth to the face. so not a good candidate for vocal surgery either.
>>45151244Your voice never dropped you're probably an intersexshit giga passoid im happy for you
>>45151251>retard that doesn't know the difference between a woman's voice and a prepubescent boy whose voice never dropped from t
>>45151251not going to use my male voice bc dysphoria but I can assure you it dropped
>>45151258lolol sweety. it'll still be within the same harmonics. it's not drastically different and those with an ear on them can already hear the undertones of it.the real reason most of them don't voice train is because people will harass you for it. they'll call it fake.
>>45151258Conveniently wont post male voice, larp
there's this one dyke that makes fun of my voice because i'll display my full range based upon how i'm feeling. sometimes she'll do frog voices or other weird things as a means of mocking my voice. some people can tell the mood i'm in based upon the tone of my voice. vocal range expresses a wide range of emotions. locking yourself into a specific pitch comes across as fake to laymen because it lacks the emotional depth of your natural voice. for some trans people this is black pilling because it ruins things like singing for them. they try to sound like a female singer and subsequently their singing lacks emotional depth.
>>45150556>>45151122https://voca.ro/1n12DHHG4mjY
>>45151170>your disgust with people who don't fit gender norms, which is something you should work oni have nothing against people who refuse to conform to binary gender norms. that is all well and good for them, and power to them. even transbians who dont voice train. but yes, i will admit that extreme deviation from the norm of a gender (like a trans woman having a mans voice or being very unpassing) is extremely offputting sexually and a massive turn off for me personally. to say thats wrong and "transphobic" is policing sexuality. this is the same thing as calling a cis lesbian transphobic for saying she hates dick and wants nothing to do with it, and that argument is never going to go over well
>>45151268only bc I'm a good personhttps://voca.ro/1nvJHNZqBCcf>>45151264idk what you mean by harmonics but my voice is the same as any cis male
>>45151289I did voicetrain but yeah your voice is a very high pitch tenor so your results are definitely unattainable for most
>>45151289the note. like going from middle c to a higher pitched c, but it's still c.
>>45150573mogs me
>>45151292>>45151298idk about pitch but that's not the main thing in voice training it's resonance
>>45151289https://voca.ro/16QZalOb3UYm
>>45151273>they try to sound like a female singer and subsequently their singing lacks emotional depth.this is still something that makes me terribly sad even with a trained voice. t raped my voice hard enough that i will never be able to sing in a voice that feels like my own :( ill never be able to really do karaoke or sing along without outing myself. singing in an operatic soprano is the only thing that feels kind of okay to me, as even if its still distinguishably male it can still be beautiful and feminine
>>45151309then you're not understanding why someone could clock your voice.
>>45151309That voice already has very little natural body and resonance yes. In addition to sitting at a high pitch.
>>45151311your voice literally passes>>45151319the "body and resonance" is definitively male though>>45151312this a million x. I spent a lot of time singing and despite that I still can't really do it. I've recently been watching content specifically about that and have learned some techniques that hopefully fill the deficit but none of them truly replace just having a cisf voice
>>45151328My voice is clocky yours is unquestionableGood job training though it really isnt that hard yeah. But theres definitely a limit to what it can do
many of you miss subtler things like cadence and rhythm. resonance is only a piece of it.
you guys ever hear the bee gee's? why don't the bee gee's sound like women?when many of you try to voice train you just end up sounding like the bee gee's.https://youtu.be/uQ9_MwZIaoc
>>45151351that lowkey sounded like a woman to me initially
>>45151354to be fair. they look like the og boymoders.https://youtu.be/XpqqjU7u5Yc
>>45151361what the I thought the bee gees were black
>>45151364nope. just looks like your average boymoder.
like ya, they have range.https://youtu.be/I_izvAbhExY
>>45150556barely
>>45151351https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Falsetto
>>45150556desu I only voice trained so I can make girly moans when having sex with other transbians. If it wasn't for that I probably wouldn't care.
>>45150556i'll probably get the surgery and start doing it after that
>>45151311>https://voca.ro/16QZalOb3UYmhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hHesF06OCTEHoly fucking shit Kylee Bylee posts here?
>>45151311https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K0aBBdfJaskYou're her. I recognize that voice
>>45150556It's difficult, like genuinely. Not that the rest of transitioning can't be difficult especially if you're putting effort into it, but it's a different kind of difficulty. You spend however many years talking just naturally and now you're trying to change that entirely? It's not exactly an appealing proposition, plus you have to deal with the fact that you're flat out going to sound like a flamboyant fag for a while if you start trying. Some trans women don't even get out of that type of voice regardless of trying too. That's not to say I don't understand why you'd want a passing voice on a trans woman but it's a hell of a lot easier said than done.
>>45150556Voice training is really just pandering to cis normies Plus ppl r just gonna say ur voice is "fagvoice" anyways there's like no winning unless ur voice is legitimately that of a cis female, makes more sense to put efforts into physically passing first instead of just being >Literal male doing a girl voice for some reason?
>>45152052opposite, voice training takes precedence. if you voice pass then you pass online, over the phone, in person (of visually passing enough). If you pass visually then you only really pass in images and video where you dont make any sounds
>>45152052>Pandering to normiesIf you don't want society to perceive you as a woman then you're not trans.
>>45150556i can't stop noticing that picrel is kiki ash's artstyle and handwriting, and the trannies in the bottom left of the thought bubble look like mae and hazel
voice training is the easiest part of transitioning and the fact everyone is crying about not wanting to do it shows we are absolutely going to the camps
>WHY DO NONE OF YOU VOICE TRAIN?I've definitely tried and I'd like to think I've had decent success, though I'm technically bi with a preference for other women so I dunno if I countWhat I want to know from people here is how can you tell when your voice actually passes (and I'd prefer not to post a recording here atm)? I've asked a bunch of people that I'm out to such as family and medical professionals and they all say my voice passes but I'm still paranoid I'm being hugboxed or they only mean it in some dumb "everyone is valid" kind of way. How do you manage to overcome the last bit of self-doubt in the back of your mind every time you speak? I'm fairly confident about my voice but still not 100% and I don't know what to do about it.>>45150617>>45152052I'm sorry but if someone doesn't even TRY to train their voice I'm probably going to question your motivations for transitioning and not really see you as "valid". Voice is one of the biggest aspects of passing and sounding male would be a major source of dysphoria for any legitimate trans woman.
>>45151249doesn't seem to be a very popular thing to get that surgery, i've heard it can fuck up your voice for good, but the training probably feels less forced. and helps prevent getting clocked from coughing/sneezing
>>45150556I'm technically bi but anyway I voice trained then slowly untrained myself because the conscious effort of maintaining a voice was suifuel and my natural voice was androgynous enough to pass as plausibly female I guessI got vfs recently though so I have to work on it again
https://voca.ro/11MDu8q4yyaZ
>>45152609nope
>>45152441U sound mad lolAnger is malebrained
>>45152118You don't pass as a girl in person unless you yk actually look femalePhysical transition and then voice if it's that badDoing voice first is just gonna nuke your chances of ever passing unless you fucking move somewhere entirely else kek but ig I shouldn't say that cause my voice was naturally never deep to any degree
>>45152732hard disagree, i can go out not presenting feminine at all and get gendered female just based on my voice/height. One time it was in poor lighting in a convenience store where I literally had facial hair (growing it out for electrolysis) and got gendered female by the customer beside me in line lol.Idk what you mean by "doing voice first nukes your chances of passing" that statement just doesn't make sense.
reqs for gf:must pass in face and voice and body (penis optional)make more than 75k a yeardress normallytall
I don't voice train because I don't pass either way, putting on a fake voice isn't going to push me into passing territory so it's just a waste of time
i'm a voice trained transbian but i'm in class rn so i can't post vocaroo i'll post it later though. i also have complete moid sexuality though so i don't hit on ppl usually>>45152820>fake voicei genuinely do not understand this mindset. your voice is made from a physical flesh object that you are manipulating naturally. saying it's fake when you train it is like saying your muscles are fake after going to the gym natty. i know for some ppl their voice is tied to their identity but even then it's like yeah being a freak of nature is part of my identity atp and yet i'd still rather not be one
>>45153030it's fake in the sense that it's not your natural speaking voice
>>45153121if it isn’t your natural speaking voice then you didn’t voice train
>>45150556it was literally the first thing i day from the first day of my transition, every day.i dont get why anyone would not do it
>>45153156i literally worked on it for like 3 years before even touching E, i was so scared of becoming a hon
>>45150556i feel like the mic is giving me a weird lisp but i’m not feeling high effort today so, here you go ig:https://voca.ro/1ffJi78BGPas
>>45150912im getting vfs (again) today. If it works will u date met. norcal
>>45150992wow this describes me.
>>45152052truke, its like a gatekeep. Nobody actually gets a passing voice, but it shows you did the requisite suffering and time wasting to be respected
>>45153745You sound like a pooner
>>45153951so like a man? cool cool i'm ok i'm fine...time to start training hard again
>>45152804Yes, we can find you a man, sir
>>45153885that's fucking retarded
>>45153885whisper sirens hazing ritual
>>45153975idk abt a man but a twink is fine too as long as he voice trains to sound like a woman
>>45154012what does this mean
>>45154028>Hazing rituals are humiliating, dangerous, or illegal activities required or expected of people to join or maintain status in a group, regardless of their willingness to participate
>>45154056oh yes this is true but also hazing rituals do help people get together and increase group cohesion. There is a reason boot camp is so effective.
>>45151925pretty crazy u were able to clock them off a 10 second clip
>>45153156>>45153679>i dont get why anyone would not do itexactly, its like the one thing you can actually control, why WOULDNT you at least try??? literally like half of actually passing (and 100% of soulpassing) to normal people is voice, even when i was an ugly hon i was getting gendered right a lot bc of my voice. BILLIONS must voice train, hell even a lot of the gigasneedy highbies have trained voices now, i dont get why its not trickling down>>45153766op here, hii, gl with surgery :) yeah drop disc. ughh i still rlly want vfs desu, i get by fine with my voice but i want it to be higher pitch and my coughs are hideous and yelling can be challenging and i want it to be unclockable..
>>45154077>so effective.at what, stripping you of individuality or the ability to think for yourself and making you easy to boss around? lol
>>45154183can u drop urs. someone knows mine and tracks when I post it here.
>>45154193those are all good qualities, actually, for like 95% of the population.
>>45154206LMAO
>>45150556>>45153745hey it’s me again, this time with my manvoice for reference. i plan to really lock in to voice training for once and see what i can dohttps://voca.ro/14o03TVetNOr
>>45154194kk i made a burner :ppearlsareforladies
>>45150798also midwest can confirmstandards are low for women in general here so even just being skinny and white means ppl will treat you nice
>>45154488where in midwest…
>>45154505stl:3i can pass with effort but only if i don't speak i wish every day that i started voice training sooner
>>45154534 im near chicago >_< if u still wanted to talk anyway drop ur disc
>>45154183>i dont get why its not trickling downwhat don't you get about "too much work"
I don't have issues voice passing in day to day but I don't really have a standard voice, I kinda just wing it. I didn't like formally train when I transitioned so I didn't lock in how high to speak.https://vocaroo.com/1nybolEjUX9o
>>45154559hmm talk abt what? no offense but there a like tons of ppl from chicago here u could talk to and nobody in my city :/
voice training isn't real it's a scam everyone lies to me it's impossible
>>45154608idk just bored
>>45154412>pearlsareforladiessent
>>45154640this is true, but you can train to have trannyvoice, and for most people that is good enough. You don't really need to pass, you just need to convince people you want to be treated like a woman.
>>45150573>>45150580>>45150589>>45150608>>45150617most would be transbians dont have a reason to identify as anything more than a femboy BTW
>>45154950this is why i don't want to do it. i don't want to go through the mid period of having a fucked up gay hontra voice.
>>45154958yes but its almost easier to be a non passing low effort tranny than a femboy. >>45154979no I meant that hontra/sabre voice is the end goal and all most people can hope for
>>45155022i'd rather die than sound like hontrasabre mogs hontra voice wise
>>45155028and face and body and politics and content wise
>>45155073yeah besides the carribean slave plantation
>>45150556>how are you bitches even living like thisi so rarely use my voice to speak to other humans that it just doesn't really come up. i think about it maybe once a week. i do voice train sometimes but i can't bring myself to raise my voice up to full speaking volume if i'm not talking to someone so my soft indoor voice gets better but it instantly breaks when i go beyond that
>>45155086based. the boymoder, neet, unvoicetrained, no makeup skills rut is impossible to break out of
>>45150556I mutemode and manmode because I have genuinely negative money I can't even afford laser. Cause I'm a heavily drug addicted lateshit I smoke a ton and need extensive surgery and even then I'll be a twinkhon at best.Nonetheless I am technically straight cause I never dated a woman and have a boyfriend.
>>45150757> i was mostly straight before transitioning and im bi now. why?you were straight but now want that bussy worked. i see it every day
>>45156361idk. i really wish i could date men, im tired of trying to date transbians and being disappointed every single time. but idk if im even a real androphile at this point. ive gone on multiple dates, my last date was with a fairly decent looking lanky 6'3 guy and i still felt nothing for him. granted he came off as pretty cold and cynical and pessimistic which i found really unattractive, but still. he even brought me flowers. i feel like anyone with real stranny tendencies should have felt SOMETHING and i didnt.its probably for the best though, im not really a stacy doll or whatever like most hussies are and I dont pass well enough to keep a man around. ive never even kissed a man before and i doubt i ever will
What I dont get is doing voicetraining AFTER starting hormones. Like theres no situation where you interact with someone with an untrained voice and pass, but at least with a trained voice you can pass over audio medium like phone calls or videogames
>>45157597Are you implying that trannies should wait until they get voicetraining down while actively on tpoison? Rotting not just every part of their bodies but crucially enlargening their larynx? Making the whole voice training a sisyphean affair?Literally the thing that changes the most after puberty is voice, second voicedrop is the most important part of second puberty
>>45157597getting hrt is way easier effort-wise than voicetraining
>>45150617people like you are non-binary imo
>>45157648what the fuck are you talking about retard reread my post or something>>45157715but it's useless for meaningfully passing