>Boring Edition4chan /lesgen/ is different to /lesgen/ which is now a troll thread. This is the /lesgen/ by the community from 2013 onwards before the many splits. This thread is for all women that love women, made by women on 4chan.Ignore & report terminally online lolcows that have tried to derail the thread with raids and fake accusations for 3 months. Ignore their attempts to start fights between generals. Do not respond to or refute them if you want to be able to continue posting.QOTT>Do you get bored easily? If so, how do you deal with it?>Would you date a girl that you found boring or who lived an uneventful life?>What sorts of things or situations do you find boring or exciting?Discord server(s) not required but optional:>https://discord.gg/A97zDvs2Qsold: >>45134873
>>45171665I don't get bored because it's friday on lesgen
>>45171665>>Do you get bored easily? If so, how do you deal with it?There's always something else to mask the tedium of death's sluggish approach>>Would you date a girl that you found boring or who lived an uneventful life?There's a difference between a quiet life and being boring. I'd never date a boring girl>>What sorts of things or situations do you find boring or exciting?Visiting new places and watching spooky movies are excitingFilling out paperwork and enduring the discord drama of people with no real lives are boring
I just got done with my 10 hour workday. Gots no time to be bored and no time for hoes
>>45172331What kind of job has you working 10 hours a day? Jfc
>>45172773In marxist terms I help facilitate transfers of fictitious capital following the standards and regulations of state and non-state powers
>>45173266I'm so sorry, sounds soul crushing
>>45173427They can't crush what was never there
I'll never waste a girls time by dating her but I'll pine for love a lot that's for sure
our time together is not boring it's just a little calm and rural like a warm relationship
>>45173266>>45173589poor poor thing>>45173594oh hi charlotte how is it going?
Is it weird to just kind of want to be fingered? Like randomly? By a stranger? She doesn’t even need to be that attractive and I’ve been thinking about it a lot in class for some reason
>>45173627Hi it's going bad tonight desu but I'll be fine, I've been unable to lock in for a while so I am feeling emotion that I usually block out very well.How are you
would u date a girl that writes a bunch with in notebooks with no intention other than release?
>>45173639it's kind of weird I would say but everyone is different
>>45173655yesi think it's good for us to do that
>>45173648not doing so great myself but I will manage I spose, just really ppl being petty and things getting too much at timesI'm sorry I hope u lock in
>>45173697what do u mean?
>>45173706to write words that only ourselves and God will ever read, i think it helps us be better people and alleviates mental illness
>>45173735yeah id love that desu i dont write anything super edgy but just feelings and stuff but still
>>45173698We'll live I guess nona..Id like to die peacefully in my sleep tonight but I have too many things to do first still.Off trip but is me
>>45173741>i dont write anything super edgyi wish that was me.....just a sweet diary full of feelings and stuff. reading my own entries tests my capacity for self-forgiveness that's why i try to address some of them to God it makes me cry more but it doesn't make me feel as hopeless
>>45173747sorry but I hope it's a nice sleep instead
>>45173873id write with you and you dont have to show me if u dont wanna
>>45173913thank u.....laying in bed writing it's comforting to know another sad nona is writing too even though i wish no one was sad it's better to not feel it alone. but if you knew the things that go on inside my head you'd (smartly) distance yourself from me like everyone eventually does, the diary stays shut and buried in a drawer
>>45173996as long as you dont harm me idc whats in ur head
>>45174010i never intentionally harm anyone but ppl keep getting lovesick over me and i think it's a result of my disordered behavior idk. besides u should never show anyone ur diary nona it's sacred
>>45174047are you a little heartbreaker?
>>45174066:/some women rly be setting their glass hearts right at the edge of the table i'm not innocent but it's not entirely my fault either....
>>45174121you can break my heart i dont mind
>>45174047disordered how?
>>45174121how cruel
>>45174134ur sweet & saying stuff like that makes me want to cradle ur heart in my hands and keep it safe, not break it>>45174140i sure wish i knew....no one wants to diagnose me without months of evaluation and i can't afford it
>>45174297aww u can break it i dont mind i learned i lack self esteem or something
>>45174341anon i told you ionly break hearts by accident, not for fun....you have a lot to offer the world and you deserve to be appreciated and valued<3
>>45174383well i appreciate it but u dont know me
>>45174404i don't have to know you.you deserve to be loved
>>45174419i dont i deserve nothing in this world pity me like the rest
>>45174422if you don't allow yourself to be loved, no one can break your heart. checkmate. and we're both sad and ill so it's less pity and more solidarity
>>45174432im in my own world i habe nobody and nothing
>>45174454do you want someone to to talk to? i'd listen to you talk abt your world
>>45174482ill pass im just trash
>>45174488God doesn't think ur trash and neither do ii hope the best for u sad nona<333
>>45174502god doesnt like me lol
>>45174517it feels like that sometimes but something in ur life will happen that brings u joy and makes u feel love even if it's just having a pretty butterfly land on u or the feeling of the warmth of a sunbeam, love doesn't give up it will find u sooner or later<3
>>45174531i get you i appreciate the positivity its usually how i am
>>45174548i'm not necessarily trying to be positive i just want you to feel loved ur despondency makes me want to care for you nona idk thinking abt that kind of thing makes me cry more than anything else, like honestly i think we'd have an easier time coping with suffering if the world was completely bleak and there really was no hope, but it's these small moments of peace and kindness and warmth that make everything so tragic in contrast. you can't feel better if you don't cry thru it first thanks for being sad with me
>>45174584Sorry I'm garbage
>>45174797No you're not, stop putting yourself down so much nona
>>45173639Like randomly undressing strangers with your eyes and imagining sex with them? It sounds like a thought crime
>>45171665>Do you get bored easily? If so, how do you deal with it?not really, but sort of maybe, like I just do things anyway and otherwise I sleep a lot and daydream, so it could be I don't but it looks that way...>Would you date a girl that you found boring or who lived an uneventful life?I think that's fine too, I like nice and peaceful or cozy spaces in my life, and if we can share a space like that together all the better!>What sorts of things or situations do you find boring or exciting?I think drama and politics can be pretty boring, and I want to say science, art, fashion, and philosophy are excitingbut I also know that a lot of weirdos exist in science and philosophy discussions online ... so it really depends, but I think overall toxic over working academics are pretty chill about considering the implications of different ideas and frameworks
>>45168875sorry I had such a rough week, a total waste of my time, anyway... I'm not really a dressmaker tho...but like during fashion class I brought my materials but my patterns and pieces weren't there so I started making a pencil case insteadwhat is dressmaker?
Good morning lesgen, getting ready to head out soon, hope you all have something nice planned today
>>45175499Hehehe it's ok, 4chan nicknames are assigned kind of arbitrarily, sometimes based on the interests you talk about more so than what you actually do. Would you share any pictures of the pencil cases you made? That sounds cute!
I like Halloween but can't say I'm a fan of trick or treaters
>>45175735hiya, nothing planned really>>45175900oh, well no, it's not cute at all really, and I didn't finish yetit's just a practice thing to speed up the progress later
>>45175735i was supposed to be meeting with friends but i couldnt afford to go so im just staying at home and coping
I'm spending Halloween alone I'll probably get drunk and eat cake in my bedroomT. Charlotte
>>45176008>>45176168>>45176176>>45176183Get your Halloween party on nonas, there is a lesbian skeleton inside of you
>>45176281i have ten bucks to my name and i have to spend that on bus fare to work next week
>>45176281I'm going to London instead ugh
>>45176296I don't know what I would do if I was in that position of nothing to lose >>45176331Hope you have a good time at least
Wyd a white girl who likes hip hop
>>45176509>I don't know what I would do if I was in that position of nothing to lose ive been thinking about suicide myself
>>45176525Yes but more so if it was part of her style too. I like things like that more if she goes all in
>>45175735i have no plans and have been ignoring texts asking me if i have plans yay. i woke up crying again but all i remember dreaming about was sparkly gothic latticework kinda like picrel except if all the buildings were just skeletons like empty parapets and rose windows without the glass and such it was all dripping with glistening fluid kinda like when a building catches on fire in the winter and the fire dept. sprays it with water and it freezes into icicles>>45176296hii poorfren we are in the same boat
>>45177097What does that entail?I don't plan on saying anything racist ever because i think it's cringy and upsetting to hear mean wordsCharlotte btw
>>45177132Like street wear or other styles. It could be anything like wearing baggy or puffy pants that are just a little low on the hips and a slim top or black long sleeve leotard, or other street wear looks
>>45177103The architecture and description is really pretty nona, you need better friends who will invite you to things
>>45177103emasculation anxiety dream
>>45177234>you need better friendsthe eternal struggle>>45177252u think so?i tend to wake up crying bc my dreams are too beautiful to bear i want to stay in them and not return to this world
>>45177208That's cute, I think I'd dress more like that if I felt free to
>>45177327>my dreams are too beautiful to bear i want to stay in them and not return to this worlddamn bro you're like hella apollonian
>>45177390thanks for your input is your life going well anon?
Wydag who did 10k steps a day all month
>>45177433is asking about my life some kind of comeback? it wasn't an insult. you really should be a painter, photographer, or writer of prose
>>45177524yeah i wasn't sure maybe don't call me bro if ur trying to be friendly...? idk i make a lot of art but it's mediocre, i wish i had more mental energy and resources to devote to it
>>45177609>don't call me bro if ur trying to be friendlysorry, i really meant no offense, just to sound like a half-baked idiot (which i guess i did too well). many people use that word as a third-person gender-neutral pronoun (similar to "dude") and this was the sense in which i intended it. obviously i will not be doing that again itt>mediocrewe're always going to say that about ourselves tho
>>45177479wydag who did thst this morning
>>45177760If we were compatible in other ways too definitely, it'd motivate me too
>>45177372Why don't you?
>>45177854I could, idk, my self expression is rly repressed and its taken me a long time to start undoing it at all.I'll keep trying
>>45177866Good luck nona that's a rough feeling
>>45175900sorry I didn't mean to be rude, I just meant like it's nothing I am proud of or anything, it's just to speed up my processbasically so I don't spend hours pattern stuff, ironing, copying pattern, drawing lines, ironing, cutting, ironing, pinning, ironing, fusible interfacing, ironing, ironing, checking, ironing, sewing, ironing, and so on... I got to the sewing part in just about one and a half hours this time, super proud of myself tbqh>>45177479yeh I mean I almost did, I'm at about 270k just w/ my phone >>45177760I only did 6k this morning, I wanted to go out earlier, but it was already pretty late so I kept getting hit my good morning by ppl, dog walkers and smokers>>45177866>>45177854just do it! the worst thing that happens is u mess something up and get embarrassed for one day
>>45177939270 is too much just in one day! Do you mean the whole month? That's still quite a lot nona
Don't just do steps and cardio all day, but remember to workout with resistance training so you build thick muscles
>>45177704it's fine i mean my friends call me bro quite often (we're stoners lol so i get it) but it's hard to tell tone from a text post especially when ppl here like to mock me :(>>45178044i did 100 squats yesterday am i hot yet
>>45177997thanks, it's not that much, I also skipped quite a few days due to exhaustion>>45178044I don't really want big muscles tho...>>45178162waow 100 squats is pretty hot yeh
>>45177939>yehKIRA?
>>45178162Lift weights too>>45178232Don't be thin fat
>>45178294no i don't want to look like thatfat fetish > ana fetish > muscle fetish
>>45178335Bad take, muscles are hot
>>45177479Only if she didn't make it her entire personality
>>45178365that's just like, your opinion, man
>passoids look good with muscles so you can too!hatred of the envious variety
>>45178386Who are you calling man, chubs?
>>45178242
>>45178393yeah this too!>>45178405i'm skinny....
>>45178365cute>>45178393I think most of those are cis women anyway
>>45178378I don't I just feel proud of myself for being less lazy
>>45178468why not work more?
>>45178571Wdym work moreI work 40 hours a week!
>>45176331Why are you going to trans genocide island, charlotte? :<
>>45178581a second job?
>>45178589Tourism of course hemachan>>45178625One jobs enough... The dogs are practically another job too w their endless exercise and playtime!
>>45178650sorry...
>>45178710W-why nona
>>45178720it just sounds like nothing works well
>>45178916No... Life's okay nona dw
If I didn’t fall in love but rather had limerence over a girl, does it count that i am a fag?
>>45178650What about the bathroom stuff that's going on over there? Doesn't it scare you?
just being with a girl that had the same goals and desires in life would be such a refreshing change, I wouldn't be picky about anything else
>>45179121Agreed nona>>45179095I only use disabld bathrooms (im diabetic) , male one scary and female one I don't wanna be accused of rape
>>45179046I don't think it matters for that, it just means you're bad at relationships
>>45179222I even didn’t had a relationship. My anxiety prevented me to do anything valuable. I never get to be myself because i always feel intense fight or flight response when i see her. Before she had stopped initiating contact with me, i got told that i am untrustworthy and stuff. But i will try to do something with my obsessIon.
>>45179428nobody is perfect and she might have trust issues too, sometimes it's better to show you're still there, rather than confirm her fears by avoiding her
>>45178365I like her style but she's also petite to begin with
>>45179428You don't need to date her nona you can date someone else
I want to date a girl...
>>45179535Then you're in the right thread that's all we talk about
>>45179547I want a girl to want to date me
I have so much to do right now, I wish I could be bored nglthings went so wrong and now it's all hectic and I am trying to find a way to thread the needle on 12 deadlines the coming two-ish weeksthis is where not having a gf to help me cope thru life really hits hard ...
>>45179556What makes you think nobody does?>>45179937It sounds like you rather have a personal assistant than a girlfriend
>>45179937can i be ur personal assistant?i have lots of experience as a receptionist
>>45179556relatable
I really need a lesbian gf with this kind of style in my life
>>4518027010/10 except for the septum... why do hot people do this, it's so unflattering same as snakebites, like the asymmetric side nose ring or stud looks so much better
>>45180168Nobody's said they doMy only requirements rly are like 23-30 and in Europe
>>45180270Do you think alt girls tend to be more inclined to be straightoids?
>>45180168could be, I would even date a 35yo neet girl if she didn't mind if we larped as her being my assistant >>45180199well... I don't have any money, so....>>45180270cute>>45180305I think it could be true>>45180298I would at least go on a friend date w/ u if u were older
>>45180372x_x is 26 really so young we can't have a playdate nona>>45180215It's over!
>>45180270i need to lock in and start looking like this before i'm too old
>>45180389she looks 13 so good luck w that lol
>>45180448she looks 25
I need to get more piercings like this soon, even if everyone would avoid me if I did
>>45180389I don't think it's ever too late to try that style but it's better if u start younger than older>>45180384probably everyone will say I'm an evil abuser and brainwashing u and torturing u by going for a coffee together since I'm so old
>>45180559I'm 28... I don't think it's too late but it's definitely getting there
>>45180559What age are you
Need gf to write and meditate with
>>45180613I don't even think it's an especially specific style, but most styles can be worn into old age like 60s and 70s at leastit's just that almost everyone gets tired and lets themselves go>>45180640around mid 50s ish or something
>>45180686I think I just have a hard time imagining someone in a professional setting with makeup, piercings, hair, and clothes like that. I mean I guess it's possible and by the time I'm that age it might even be normal, but for now it feels like something you're expected to drop by the time you start a career.
>>45180798depends on where you are, but this is increasingly less the case globally
>>45180803Northern Europe so it's not normal yet I think but hopium because we love to larp as international and cosmopolitan. I should stop making excuses and just do things, I'm sick of wasting my life out of fear of judgement.
>>45180798why not? I know some professors that have styles like that, even if they're leading biologists, mathematicians, philosophers, and so onit might be different in like the finance industry or in law or something
>>45180838>I should stop making excuses and just do things, I'm sick of wasting my life out of fear of judgement.BASED
>>45180838just do it ok, anyone that complains wouldn't have given u much in life anyway
>>45180838>I'm sick of wasting my life out of fear of judgement.Yeah
>>45180892I think I have AvPD, it's gotten better with time but I don't know that I will ever be able to let go of the preoccupation with how others see me. I desperately want to though, this is not living. A brief moment of eye contact is all it takes to send me into panic over what their thoughts might be. To be seen is dangerous, to be known even more so.>>45180850I'm probably just overthinking it
>>45180910not you too
>>45181035My whole life desu... I live to please others at my own expense
if only I have some kind of very close friend to cuddle and get excited by saabisu saabisuuhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eTYVn5jBBSc
>>45181198I used to love ff14 so much but it's become so boring and a big multifranchise thing it pmo
>>45181212I used to like it, I was just sit there hours every day just staring off in space while fishing and watching the sunrise and sunset... I even made some friends...but then someone kind of ruined it for me, and I have not been able to get back into it again properly since then but I still like it kinda ig ...????
>>45181237I used to be ina nice fc there but drama killed it and then after ew story the game felt so deadI like it still but idk if I'll play it again... Maybe to meet a girl I guess but it's low odds probably lolI usually just sat in Eureka all day
>>45181264oh I see, I usually have a spot that's empty where I stand now if I'm online, and then ppl come to say hi, ask me why I'm there, say prayers to me, make wishes, or ask me for words of wisdom ....
>>45181286That's cute you must give off an approachable air nona
For me it's still this look, it's peak
blessed pumpkins
>>45180389>>45180798You never know until you try
>>45181330not really, most ppl stay away from me since they say I have a big sister vibe or they don't want to ruin me or something>>45181340I think I would be more interested in that kind of thing if I lost weight and had surgeries that left scars and got them to help cover it all up >>45181343very cute!!
>>45181340you sure post about this a lot, why don't u go out to like any goth or punk show in your city and meet someone
>>45181372You should get them they would look better >>45181385There aren't many and it's fun to share, see if others know what I mean. It's a lot of effort to get fully inked up so I don't expect anyone to be, but don't you think it looks good and confident?
even if I were to get anything it would be expensive and take a super long time to really look anything like those pics
>>45181479yeah it's like college, if someone paid for it and i got a job/gf at the end of it i'd do it, but no one can guarantee that lol
It's sad this gen was killed by those people, it was cozy here
>>45183289It can still be cozy it just takes time to recover each time
Would you date a girl who was into south park and had watched every episode and wanted to show you the cool funny show she grew up with?
Did you all have a good Halloween?
>>45183611fine if we got on well and liked eachother outside of that>>45183628it was okay, how was the party or whatever?
>>45183645I never said anything about a party, must’ve gotten me confused with someone else.
>>45183662hope it's a nice night either way then
>>45183673Nah it sucked. Hopefully this night will be better
>>45183676is it not the same night? why is it better?
>>45183830My Halloween (October 31) suckedIt’s now 3:00 am on November 1st. Hopefully the night of November 1st doesn’t suck lol
>>45183842okay okay no need to be snarky miss nyc timezone
Need flower gf to collar and drug who says "sorry mom" when she makes me hit her
>>45183853That was barely snarky! Do you want me to be snarky?>>45183866What’s a flower gf and why the momcon
>>45183876if you really want to be, but if you want to be nice that's good too
>>45183881Uh uh don’t feel like snarking, I’ll be nice. How was your holiday nona? What was your costume
>>45183884just a lazy ghost sheet thing, but it's not really a holliday, just a weird night where some people have parties
>>45183894It’s the night for weirdos and wondering spirits and it is a holiday
>>45181479>>45181572You don't need to get it all done at once, you really can't even if you had the money. It's always going to be $50 here, $100 there, then $200 or more occasionally, over months and months. Then after 2-3 years you'll start hitting the aesthetic peak.
>>45183897a holiday is where things shut down and stuff, but it's just a normal day here, where there are some parties nothing more
>>45183904European right?
>>45183900Some people don’t understand the dedication or time commitment to sleeves or collage pieces. Can tell most are tattoo newbies here
>>45171665this woman at the halloween party i was at was so kind and so sweet when she looked at me. she grabbed me around the small of my back and my waist to move me a little bit out of the way as someone walked past us and my brain shut off completely. she was so gentle with me but so... idk. willing to touch me? earnest? soft? i don't know, it was so casual but it felt so intentional. i can't let myself imagine that it'll ever happen again, but i don't know how i'll forget it.she was so unexpected, but she was so kind and so gentle with me that i don't know if i've ever experienced something like that.it makes me want to eat and live and thrive, to spread love and kindness, to continue to live and try to be someone. but it also makes me want to starve myself to death because i could never truly deserve anything like that. i hate waking up most mornings. and i can't tell if the thought of being touched like that again makes that more or less true. i guess we'll see.
Wydag who was waiting for her e6 film to come back from the lab
>>45183965No.>>45183968Stop overthinking things
>>45183876>What’s a flower gfA precious blossom in need of tending>and why the momconBecause being called mommy makes me uncomfortable and I don't want to deal with a full on little
>>45184031Sigh tfw no abusive gf
>>45184031Like a baby trans? Kinda weird…>Because being called mommy makes me uncomfortable and I don't want to deal with a full on littleSo drugging and abusing someone is okay, but you draw the line at someone being a little? Interesting…
>>45184061sight tfw you've only ever known abusive gf
i think im in love with my best friendshes the really bubbly optimistic kind and shes really cute and weve been friends for years but i dont think shes gay and im afraid to ask her
>>45184083If your friendship is strong then it'll survive even if she doesn't feel the same way.And maybe you'll be relieved with it off your chest? But choosing to keep it to yourself is okay too.
>>45184083Kill those feelings
>>45176168>>45177939Is it one of those cylindrical ones or one of those rectangular ones that open like a book?>>45183917Cuuuute!!>>45184083Well, you can try to find out her sexuality before you commit to confessing to her!
Am I doing something wrong in my life? I don’t yearn or have feelings for anyone as much as you all do
>>45184088yeah i should probably confess, ill invite her over for lunch or something>>45184103i would ask her about her sexuality but that seems a little weird to ask out of the blue...>>45184112everyone experiences attraction differently, i wouldnt worry about it
>>45184119I don’t get attracted to anything anymore. I just keep to myself and pursue my goals
>>45184119Yeah, don't ask out of the blue, ask when a relevant conversation comes up, like, if you're talking about your sexuality it feels normal to ask about hers.
Posting my breasts online until I get a rapey gf
>>45184205You’re so weird
>>45184232I'm just saying things honestlyWhat I want is something normal and healthy but I live in incelland
>>45183910How many tattoos do you have?
>>45183965we could go do something together while we wait for our film to develop
>>45184450Oh... Usually the lab takes a couple days for me though we'd have to do a lot
>>45184480that's fine I guess, we can make a weekend of it
>>45184557Yippie, I wish I had even just a friend I could drag to fancy spots I wanna go just not alone.
>>45184572like we could support each other, have lots of fun w/o expectations, and go places until u find a nice gf
>>45183917Next you need to remember that feeling as you get up every day for the next year and workout, eat healthy, and be productive
>>45184205Not such a good idea
I don't dislike people but I'm often disappointed by them, so I go back and forth on the idea of having a stable gf, or just having short-term experiences and leaving it for what it isam I a bad person or is that something anyone else understands or has any opinions on or...?sometimes I think I must really just be trash, but I also avoid a lot of the abuse I used to experience in the past
>>45185128I sounds like you're traumatised, not a bad person :<
>>45184802Damn...I'm out of ideas.>>45184738Sounds good come over then let's play video games
>>45185239really? I might be traumatized and also a bad person, right?like an osamu dazai character or something
>>45185245if only we lived closer still less than a thousand km
>>45185305You could be, but I don't think you are. Just as long as you and your short term partner are both on the same page, it's ok to look for that kind of thing.
>>45185414Where are you Nona!!!
>>45185128that makes a lot of sense yeah, only rarely do i meet someone who i want something long term with
>>45171665I wish I could just freeze time so that I can sit bored for a whole week or two, do nothing but spend time with my gf, and then get back to work, otherwise no
>>45184205don't do that, where did you do it?
>>45184083then it's better to ask her out now or say you have a crush on her than to let it build up and get more awkward later on
>>45179514>>45179547>>45183900piercings are cool but I see a lot of manga and anime like the new green lesbian one make it seem like it's no big deala lot of those piercings take 6-12 months to fully heal and they won't just do them all at once, so it takes years to get both ears with multiple piercings besides just the lobes years and proper care, not putting pressure on them, even sleeping
>>45186699C-Checked wouldn't you like to know
>>451868316699 says double yes
>>45186874Unfortunately I didn't actually post them... I would be tempted for attention but I shouldn't be whorish lest my future wife finds out about my past
>>45187034I think that's probably for the best, not so whorish after all
>>45187088I'm demure... I'm ladylike... I just need to go to finishing school and meet another lady who will live with me as totally friends
>>45187179what's holding u back?
>>45187252That whole thing doesnt rly exist now
>>45187179need!
I forgot this gen was a thing. Would you date a girl who is forever writing and rewriting a violent vampire novel because of an autistic attention to detail that can never be satisfied? I'm just kidding. Onto other topics: I have a pseudo-friend who is a horse girl and has a ranch and everything, and she just started texting me again after a year of not, whatever reason. I had a thing for her, and I'm pretty sure she knew it too, which made things awkward for a while. But she has/had a boyfriend so I stayed away. Now she's randomly talking to me again. How does one navigate the dynamic of "I liked you but you're straight and involved, so I don't wanna kiss you anymore, can I please just pet your horses?" without actually saying that out loud?
>>45178294>picpeak
>>45187308why do u feel the need to tell her u don't want to kiss her anymore when she has a boyfriend and is just texting u? is she hitting on you?
>>45187298Sigh iwn have this bc I'm a man in all but identity and endocrine balance
>>45187392It was a joke. She has hit on me in the past, but I always chalked it up as heehee haw haw drunk girl talk, since she was the girl I used to get into trouble with. And since I know she likes guys, I never did anything.
>>45187431but you called yourself demure and ladylike? femme x femme is very cute if u have the right demeanor :) besides that type of dress and overall style is easier to pass in, i think. modesty hides a lot of moid features.>>45187433i'm not sure what ur asking for advice for then? if u want to be friends, respond and be friends. if it's too painful bc u have a lingering crush on her, maybe better to stay away (i can't believe i'm saying that.....hypocritemaxxing)
this was supposed to be the week I'd visit herI hope she's happy. i know i dont get to be but i at least hope for that
>>45187489I do have a crush, it sucks, and I've never admitted to it, which is why it sucks. But I'd rather be friends than nothing at all. The tension is in me *not* saying anything about said crush, even though it's probably obvious. And I've already tried the stay away thing. She's the one reaching out to me again, not vice versa. The reason I cut contact originally was because I learned from someone else her bf wanted a three-way, which grossed me out from multiple angles in a very precise way.
>>45187308best to just ignore it and stay friends until u no longer think of it as more than that
>>45187489My soul is demure and ladylike...I started hrt early enough that my body is kinda fem other than the penis thing but my face x_x ig it doesn't matter my hypothetical wife would love me for me.But yeah I bounce between wanting to dress like I listen to hip hop and like a victorian lady
>>45187751I don't believe your face is as bad as you make it out to be!
>>45187795I won't talk about it much but last ffs consult told me to give up.Anyways how are the thread weebs feeling about a bocchi the rock movie next year?
>>45187571>I'd rather be friends than nothing at allohhhh god, i feel that. do you think your crush will disappear eventually if the two of you become friends, or just get stronger as time goes on?>>45187751>My soul is demure and ladylike...desu that's what matters more than anything else....your face can potentially be changed if you're lucky enough to access surgery, and if ur partner is like me they'll eventually start to project ur personality onto ur face regardless of its features(:
>>45187925Thanks but that kinda sounds like you're learning to ignore my face id rather not be liked in spite of myself
>>45188125that's not what i said at all but ok! unfortunately if you're insecure about it, your partner can't fix that. everyone's experience of beauty is different.
I'm in my 30s I need a better hobby besides self pity and playing slay the spire
>>45188172Im all too aware of that... Thanks for being nice anyways nona
>>45188193No actually it's my bad i can see how my wording was misleading! "regardless" was not the right word to use, I meant more like, if you're not conventionally attractive i might have a neutral response to ur face at first glance but if i came to love you, your voice, mannerisms, personality etc. over time i would find your features beautiful because they belong to you.
>>45188210Oh okay... That sounds a little nicer igIdk I just wanna be loved someday ugh
A woman told me last night that she liked my costume, and I told her "Thanks! I'm basically not wearing any clothes," because I had a couple of drinks and was just feeling a bit cheeky.God though, when she held eye contact and said "I know, that's why I like it." I think I died for a second.
>>45188250you will someday! i'd go on a date with u<3>>45188258omg did you kiss or swap contact info? also what was ur costume?
>>45184301Yeah, yeah>>45184356Why don't you find out in my bedroom?
>>45188339Thanks nona...
charlotte, you're the one who keeps turning everyone down! Don't act like you haven't had suitors!
>>45188559Let her be a retard in peace
I didn't turn anybody down... It's just anons flirting w me before vanishing!
>>45188559has she turned anyone down that she shouldn't have?>>45188566she's not, I wouldn't date anyone here either unless I was really overwhelmingly into them and willing to take that risk
>>45186810yeah it's an investment, I've been going slowly... same with tats, it all puts strain on the body and immune system while healing so you need to take care of yourself in general too
>>45188595Nona you're defending me! Sweet of you
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IBq3GVx6w7Y>>45188582I flirted with you all the time idiot>>45188595>she's not, I wouldn't date anyone here either unless I was really overwhelmingly into them and willing to take that riskIt's definitely a gamble that could work out in your favor :p
>>45185579I guess that's true, but I also don't want to disappoint people and seems they're all either looking to experiment or they're looking for forever and ever>>45186154right? I feel like if I lowered my expectations then I would not be so harsh or such a mess when things don't go well>>45188258sounds like u did well>>45188582it's fine, I'm too old anyway>>45188676this is very true, I hope u have not been straining urself ok?I have to go slow too but I feel like I am ready for some more, my ears feel fine mostly but I'm told that it's a deceptive phase for the next 4 months and I still need to do liffa n salt spray
>>45188890Kms
>>45188899consolation prize dubs
Gf would be nice bc we could live together and I'd be far from evil...
>>45188918What if your girlfriend was evil? What then?
>>45188938tell her to stop being such an edgelady
>>45189000What if I like being an edgelady though?!
>>45189059don't worry>>45189071then you get told to stop
>>45189340You can't make me bleeeeeeh >:p
>>45188339No, nothing like that. She said I seem like fun but she mentioned her girlfriend when we were talking, and I never bumped into the both of them together, either. I made sure to say goodbye before I left and she said "I'm sure we'll meet again." Holy.I'll just say that I was in a very small skirt with a cute top, though.>>45188887>sounds like u did wellI realized I might've been in over my head with my outfit, it wound up getting me a lot of attention, but it was fun. Made me realize I might love the attention, but I don't know how to deal with it well if that makes sense.
is it weird to completely change ur personality and be extremely ambitious in some of ur goals so a girl likes you and chooses you over everyone???.....
>>45189505You're a bpdemon
>>45189516the opposite honestly. someone whos in love and just wants this person, i dont harm anyone or anything
>>45189534Whatevvveeeeeerrrrrrrrrr I could care less
>>45189546alright....
>>45189505Why would you need to
>>45189505i mean if ur changing yourself to get a girl, that never works out well, but if you're using the thought of a potential romance to motivate you to do things you wanted to do anyway, that's pretty hot
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>>45189505I'm always flattered when I meet a girl who suddenly starts picking up on my mannerisms and style and interests and stuff, but sometimes it's a bit much and I worry that she's a poser with no real interests of her own or she feels empty inside and needs to imprint on me (or maybe she's just learning what those might be still idk)
>>45191130I get like that too, but it's probably not good nona
>>45189484Feeling attractive and wanting attention aren't completely the same but I get what you mean. It sounds like a good experience in either case, and it's probably good that you didn't have the chance to get with her. Falling for the first person to show you much attention usually doesn't end well. Do you think you can be a little more confident in real life from now on?
>>45189546could u? is it possible to care less?
>>45191446You're right and that's a good clarifier. I want to feel attractive, I just can really struggle with the attention from it sometimes. It was good though. I don't know how much it'll help my daily confidence, maybe helps me recognize how to enjoy the attention some? But I feel like it could be interpreted as leading people on depending on the situation. I don't know. I didn't end up panicking when she touched me like I normally might, and I thought it was cute the way some of the men stumbled over themselves talking to me, even if I'm not into them. I just haven't had someone talk to me like she did in a while, and it felt so kind and protective :(
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I wish I had a gf that just wanted to make me laugh every day
>>45191610It's not wrong to feel good from that nona, it just might not be productive to dwell on it too much. You obviously are attractive to a lot of people, you just need to put yourself out there and be confident in your presentation. A lot of people play it safe and it only really works if you have something stable. People that get out of a long-term relationship have the same problem, they get too complacent and stop trying. Then they don't really make themselves seem approachable and confident.I'm guessing the costume was very different to how you usually dress. Obviously, but don't forget that costumes are just an excuse for people to shift responsibility for how they present themselves
>>45190923You can change urself for any reason and it's probably always better than stagnation that's the hidden truth
Good morning lesgen
Do you think swords and back tattoos are hot on women or too much?
>>45192588Did someone say... swords?
>>45192652Show us a sword hema
>>45192652What century is your favourite, anon?
>>45192588weeb>>45192652I think so?
Hema posted her girl sword...
>>45192764where? I didn't see it
>>45192656This might be a little controversial since one could argue a kriegsmesser is a knife and not a sword but here you go! Hehe!>>45192663Hmmm! Probably 12th or 13th!>>45192771Right here! >:)
>>45192804waow that's pretty cute yeh
>>45192588Swords are cool
We haven't even finished this thread yet
>>45192764>>45192804innuendo can be quite funny huh?>>45194162good job
Sorry
>>45192449good morning
>>45192804I don't think anyone would argue that's a knife
>>45194177it's fine
Cute swords
I guess it's almost at bump limit
>>45191802Don't we all
>>45194234I guess
New intimacy >>45194091
Sorry about the confusion
