>find a trans girl I'm super compatible with>we start dating>turns out she's another fucking tranny that wants a me to be her mom and dominate herI'm just so tired. I'm cool with bedroom RP, sure. I just don't want to have to be "Her mom she can fuck" ALL THE TIME. I would like to be a normal couple at a restaurant. I don't want to talk about punishments when I'm walking through a botanical garden with her. It feels like other trannies always have to let this dom/sub shit deep into EVERY aspect of their life and it's EXHAUSTING. Might have to go back to exclusively dating cis women.
>>45202414Yeah I kind of have the same problem, although I never even start dating them because it's usually pretty obvious right from the start. Also the puppygirl thing which is kind of the same.I don't want to be a full-time caretaker for an adult. I want someone equal to me who also sometimes lets me dominate her in bed. But it seems to be an all or nothing thing.I've also thought about going back to dating cis women but I think dating a trans girl would be really nice, so I'm still hopeful.Also, I think just being normal with each other for the most part makes the moments where you get to do something like that even hotter. If someone was talking about sex constantly it would just turn me off.
Well, that sounds cool but since you're complaining on 4chan about it your relationship is probably as stable as a radioactive element.Ugh. I'm tired. For some reason. It's strange. I'm not trusting any of my feelings rn.Anyway. She thinks it's her responsibility to be a sex toy 24/7. If you want her to be more normal, make it a part of play.
>>45202521>If you want her to be more normal, be her mom and raise her to be that way
>>45202532Yeah.
>>45202414it's tiresome, it's too common, and it's always the same shit, too
>>45202414imagine expecting a tranny to be even remotely normal about anything
I'm looking for a dominant and idk if I would want a 24/7 dynamic really, if I couldn't banter with my partner that would be pretty lame. but it would be fun to be guided around or have my order chosen for me at a restaurant or something. op is a dom so they should be able to filter through the sea of subs and find a dynamic they want pretty easily. it's harder the other way around.
>>45202414>I'm cool with bedroom RP, sure. I just don't want to have to be "Her mom she can fuck" ALL THE TIME.kinda funny how it is normalfags that made bedroom dynamics extend to every aspect of life so now you have bullshit like top/bottom being personalities
>>45202532LMAO rlly good
scaring off transbians by partaking in the momcon but yelling at them to clean their room, get a job and wear a jacket when going outside
>>45202856Uh based
>>45202414How would you feel about a mommy4mommy relationship except I'm not into mommy stuff at all and just want a sane and self sufficient woman to date and be that normal couple you're talking about with?
>>45202856>clean their roomHard mode.>get a job Extreme mode.>and wear a jacket when going outsideSL1 blindfolded voice command inputs only mode.Seriously why is it so fucking hard to get these women to dress for the weather?
Men don't complain about this. Men like it when their women are submissive. Being a lesbian is such a fucking shit deal.
Trans moment.
I just want to feel safe with my partner and taken care of I dont need the 24/7 mommydom thing but this is still too much to askIm going to have a date a man and force myself to have sex with someone im not attracted to
>>45203886for sub trannies the only way forward is to settle and be unhappyI hope to repress my desire enough to be celibate and married to my work
>>45204205Its pretty awful
>>45204205>>45205271Switch is the only truly human and mature sexual attitude to have so I don't feel much sympathy for your kind being filtered out of the game. You could learn to give alongside receiving, and you wouldn't even have to use your dick, but no you have to make someone else do all the work for you all the time.
>>45204205Is it hard for you to stay single ?
are yall monogamous? maybe this is why i struggle if they all want this
>>45207359Not OP but I'm monogamous.
I want to be the mom in the relationship to a cis woman
This is mental Illness. This social concept you're describing. >I don't want to grow up...not healthy but more common. but then it gets SO much worse >I want to fuck my momGo to therapy
>>45202520>>45202414idk once I bare myself to someone like that its just uncomfortable to pretend we are equals again.
>>45202520>>45202414I would make intelligent observations about the botanical garden. Also a sub but much prefers to be equals outside of the dynamic in bed. We do exist!(And sorry the pre Oedipal ones)
>>45207409how is therapy supposed to help? what if u were abused as a child and now u just feel safest when you can re-enact some parts but with you consenting? i dont think calling your partner mom/mommy and letting them control you & punish you in consistent agreed-upon ways is mental illness
>>45207042I mean I can be switchy at times and I'll tie up my partner but I don't fantasize about being dominant. also being submissive isn't being a pillow princess by nature, you can reciprocate as a sub>>45207328in action no I just keep focusing on my projects. but I do think about suicide daily>>45207359I'm monogamous and it's hard to find people who aren't poly that's another thing
>local tranny is a defunctional fetishistic sextoywaowwoooow
>>45207493I mean, it doesn't have to be completely "equal" I guess, but you can understand why someone would want an actual partner and not a dog, right?
>>45208775yes. I wouldnt want to be in "puppy mode" or anything like that all the time. but I would like to know that I am something that belongs to someone all the time.
