>make a friend at a club>assumed he was a gay cis male>i talk to him about being trans>oh i am too>fuck>im not an asshole i wont ghost someone for being trans when im also that thing>he is white at least 6' and has a sturdy build and masculine face and deep voice>he has piercings, dyed hair, wears makeup, wears excessive fashion, e.g. carries a bead purse, wears pins (none of them pride flags though weirdly enough)>speaks softly, is shy>im 5'2 asian with a small build>i actually try to pass though>i look completely normal and wear normal mens clothes>hang out with him over the course of a year>notice that he always gets called sir while i get misgendered>yesterday i was walking with him and these weird guys approached me and when they noticed him they backed off>people talk to him like hes a guyplease tell me its just white privilege or i kms
>>45202802This is height privilege.
>>45202802It’s not white privilege it’s height privilege sorry mate>t. white/latino 5’4 straightden
>>45202802Asians are shorter on average so just blame being short on being Asian, it’s the Asian ftm cheat code. “Nah bro I’m not a tranny I hate those I just got the Asian height genes”
>>45202802>>45203472>>45203384this is probably true although to be honest it sounds like your friend is gonna be read as a mtf with that fashion + heighteither way if youre a short asian person people are by default usually gonna assume youre a woman unless you look like complete shit (pubestache, moid haircut, greasy) or if you extreme pass. people are incredibly race blind to asians and have preconceived archetypes of gender from their most seen race which is usually white people, who we have more youthful features than.t. 5’3 asian tranny with 5’2 asian bf
unrelatedly how the fuck do i get women to stop hitting on my boyfriend IN FRONT OF ME at bars and stuff. holy shit the audacity
