how am i supposed to find anyone if all the lesbians date by having causal sex and i am not able to have casual sex without building feelings for someone ??? feels like a catch 22 where im supposed to just be in a doom loop feeling disgusting until someone finally decides to hookup with me and settle for me instead of making their way around the entire community.
>>45204297Date a Real Lesbian.
>>45204320i don’t rlly think that’s an option on the table?but even if im wrong on that, lots of cis women are doing the casual hookups too. ppl get scared off if you tell them that sex is like an emotional thing for you, that you can’t just let feelings develop completely separate from sexual relations.