>>45205973
I failed female socialization because I'm an autistic loser

>>45205973
the need to soften any confrontation
language, tone, posture
you can't say what you want, you can't look as upset as you actually are, and you don't get to win for the sake of winning. everything is a negotiation where you have to balance what you need with what causes the least disturbance.

i just want to go off at someone when they're clearly antagonizing me so they fuck off and leave me alone. i don't want to think about how i have to de escelate for my own safety.

Mtf here

The clockiest one imo is the inflection where every statement is a question? Kind of like this? And the second one is being considerate. Like at all. Rephrasing things so they're the least offensive thing said the least directly as possible.

>Your tie sucks, bro.
Becomes
>Hey John, I just wanted to share a thought with you about clothing and style choices some people sometimes make...some things like maybe ties and also shoes, belts, pants
Just say his tie sucks.

Just trying to be helpful, feel free to tell me to go away.

If any of you conquer these you're like halfway there imo.

>>45205973
Being sweet and kind when barely anyone returns the kindness

Not being able to yell so I just start crying.

>>45205973
being taught to apologize for existing

>>45206132
That sucks :(

>>45205973
Being not like the other girls. It's weird because it comes across as trying to be special and trying to be special is bad for women apparently. I feel like this is such a complex issue to get into because on one hand women are told it's okay to not conform to a stereotype, but then not conforming to a stereotype is a stereotype

>>45205973
mtf here desu the annoying thing is having to fucking downplay every single thing I dp and not cuss as much irl, having to put on such a sweet and encouraging attitude for everyone including people I think are going nowhere or that I actively do not like.
Having to like
>OhmuhgawdIbelieveinuyougotdis!!!!111
To people who actively fucking bully me.
People always say Im a funny drunk to be around with how much I rant and how everything is followed with a fuck this or duck that but its just the way I am without the stupid filter.

feeling the need to be a little sensitive bitch when it comes to confrontation or anything in general.
empathy at all actually

>>45206132
you don't have to actually police your emotions and can literally act however you want
just don't be surprised when doing so gets you punched in the face
men don't actually get to do any of the things you mentioned, at least not emotionally mature men
men don't just "go off", say whatever they want, or look as upset as they actually are
don't know what kind of men you look up to/are around
well adjusted men actually have to show restraint daily, in multitudes of situations

>>45205973
>What are the worst aspects of female socialization
basically 24/7 gangstalking when you step out of line from the norm